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Now, in terms of 'what to do' to trigger sexual desire...
Well, there are lots of ways...strategies...and methods.
Two of my favorite types of methods (for gradually triggering her sexual desire) are:
Some sort of pleasure-based structure
You see, all urges/cravings are ALWAYS centered around a pleasure source.
(Feel free to read that again.)
You simply can not be effective at creating a sexual urge (sexual craving) in a woman without the SKILL of providing her with some sort of pleasure at some point.
- That could be based on providing her with emotional pleasure (i.e. a compliment that makes her feel good about herself, a compliment that makes her feel sexy, a fun experience, a perspective shift that creates optimism for XYZ, etc.)
- That could be based on providing her with some form of physical pleasure (i.e. a backrub, a soft kiss, a hug, cuddling, etc.)
There are other factors that are involved, but it would be VERY WISE to remember that:
All urges/cravings are ALWAYS centered around a pleasure source.
The only reason why someone experiences an urge for chocolate/cookies/snacks is because of the pleasure involved.
The only reason why someone experiences an urge for drugs is because of the pleasure involved.
The only reason why someone experiences an urge for sex is because of the pleasure involved.
You see when it comes to using a 'Type 1- Pleasure-based structure (for getting her to crave sex)', you want to constantly do two key things (1) think of how you could add layers of pleasure to the seduction process + (2) think of how you could add layers of pleasure to the sexual experience.
For example - when it comes to sex - figure out ways to:
- Make sex better
- Make foreplay better
- Give her a better post-sex experience.
- Elicit better/stronger 'emotions' during sex (ie. make her feel beautiful, make her feel loved, make her feel sexy, make her feel that she's ok just the way she is, be
sincere, be the type of person she can trust and open up to)
- Figure out how she likes to be touched during sex
- (etc) the list goes on
Does this make sense?
Do you see how increasing the layers/dimensions of pleasure increases the TOTAL VALUE of the sexual experience?
Do you believe that 'manipulating the pleasure' (i.e. the decisions that YOU choose to make) affects her experience?
Of course it does!
If you're better at pleasure.
You'll be amazing at creating cravings!
You see, if a sexy woman kept licking you on the neck (and let's just say it felt absolutely amazing)(lots of pleasure), the more she did it, the more you would have a craving for sex.
If you're better at pleasure.
You'll be amazing at creating cravings!
That's what I mean by a Type 1 Pleasure-based structure (for creating a craving) is one of my favorite ways to create tension.
It's because the structure is simple.
You see, if she kept licking your neck over and over again [lick (pleasure) + lick (pleasure) + lick (pleasure) + lick (pleasure) + etc], then your brain would pick up on this pattern and it would say "I like this. This feels good. I want more." And as time went on, it would expect the pleasure to continue.
And pretty soon a 'sexual craving' would be created.
My second favorite approach for creating a craving is:
Type 2: A Void-Based Approach (or a
You see, on the same note, she could have done the same 'sequence of neck-licking' and then stopped (i.e. pleasure + pleasure + pleasure + pleasure ==> a sudden STOP/PAUSE) and then you would experience a 'sexual urge'.
I've used this example before, but now we're going to talk about another type of VOID-based seduction.
Normally, when women get into those moods where they're so horny it's like they're starving for it - typically (as expected) a VOID-based mechanism is at work.
I think it's pretty cool that our brains are structured this way - otherwise we would be really dumb as a species.
You see her brain (because she is a human) releases Pleasure Chemicals when she:
- Eats food (this is essential for personal survival)
- Drinks water (this is essential for personal survival)
- Has sex (this is essential for species survival)
Could you imagine a person getting ready to eat some food...in other words, their brain is expecting for the food to be eaten... and then out of nowhere someone just takes their food.
In most cases, when the brain expects pleasure and then doesn't get it, an even more intense craving takes place!
(It's kind of like the brain's way of saying "Hey. You might not realize this, but FOOD is kind of important".)
I went to the movies with this girl I met several years ago...
After it was over, I drove her back to my place for the first time and as soon as we got in the door we sat down on the couch in the living room (with the lights out) and started passionately kissing.
It was like we both were starving for each other.
Then she climbed on top (clothes on) and we started kissing some more. It was as if she couldn't get enough.
And let me just say when the "new pretty girl" is kissing you passionate, let's just say you're enjoying the moment and feeling good about yourself.
Then she started kissing me on the neck - almost like she was feeding on me. To say she was horny - would be an understatement.
You're probably thinking 'ok I get it, you ended up doing it on the couch'. Nope.
But that's what I (and my brain) was expecting.
But that's not what happened.
She ended up saying something like, 'No. We can't do it. It's too soon'. It turns out she didn't want to have sex on the first date.
It's funny how hearing that didn't cut-off my horniness.
My brain was STILL expecting the pleasure.
And the same with her. Her rule didn't cut off her horniness. I was rubbing the outside of her panties and she was super wet - which could explain why she damn-near rapped me the next time she saw me.
On some level, she increased her own level of arousal.
(This is a topic within itself.)
As you may know, women are naturals at 'void-based' seduction. The whole 'playing hard to get' game is a void-based structure.
Getting back on track...what most guys don't realize is women are very responsive to void-based tactics/structures.
When it comes to void-based structures (i.e. Pleasure-void approaches), there are many types.
A common type is where there is no sequence of pleasure involved.
You see, a guy can actually create a 'pleasure-void' just by conversationally building an expectation in her mind.
And vice versa.
For example... let's say there was no neck-kissing involved (or any time of physical contact), a woman could call you and say something like [slow sexy voice], "...blah blah blah later on tonight, I'm going to kiss you passionate and then suck all over your neck and chest and then I'm going to blah blah blah to you...".
Now imagine her saying something sexy to you (like that)... in regards to what she plans on doing to you.
Once you end up finally seeing her, you (your brain) would be expecting this pleasure.
And if she didn't follow through... for example, let's say she ended up doing something else as if she forgot her promise, you would still be EXPECTING some sort of pleasure. You would feel that you're OWED this experience.
As a result, you would/could end up having a craving for sex/affection/pleasure via this 'pleasure-void' structure where no physical contact was involved.
Does that make sense?
In this case, it's a pleasure-void approach (that lead to you getting horny) even though she never touched you.
Another very common type of pleasure-void is telling a strategic story or having a strategic sexual conversation.
Stories are amazingly powerful as you probably already.
The brain is almost like this weird pleasure-animal living inside of your head.
Case #1 [Pausing After An Established Sequence of Pleasure]
You see a woman could climb on top of you (clothes on) and then kiss and lick/suck on your neck. And then she could just STOP ==> which ends up creating a pleasure-void ==> which would/could lead to a craving for sex.
Case #2 [Promising Sex]
On the other hand, she could call you on the phone and get you to believe/expect that she's going to have sex with you the next time she sees you. But then do nothing ==> and end up creating a pleasure-void (this time with no touching involved) ==> which would/could lead to a craving for sex.
Case #3 [Sexual Story]
On the other hand, a sexy female friend (that you're attracted to) could tell you a story where she was flirting with a guy a couple of years ago. She could end up telling you how she was talking dirty to him. She might say something like 'blah blah blah. I told him how bad I wanted his cock to slide inside of me. I was so horny that day. You just don't understand. And I never been that wet in my life. I just wanted him soooo bad blah blah blah' and in this case, she did not establish a sequence of pleasure (in fact she never touched you) NOR did she promise you sex.
But it doesn't matter (according to that weird pleasure-animal living inside of your skull) ==> Either way, she would end up creating a pleasure-void whether she was trying to or not ==> You would NOW (on some level) be expecting pleasure to take place ==> which would/could lead to a craving for sex.
(Chances are -- at some point -- you've done Case #1, Case #2, Case #3 before on a woman in some creative way - and you ended up getting her horny or partially horny.)
The cool thing about taken a Case #3 Pleasure-Void approach (via a sexual story or sexual conversation) is that it doesn't involve kissing her on the neck (Case #1) or talking dirty (Case #2) about what you plan to do to her.
The thing about Case #1 and Case #2, you almost have to get her turned on in order to be able to use those methods.
Besides, if she's at a point where she's ready for you to kiss and suck all over her neck AND/OR she wants you to 'talk dirty', then she's probably already horny or close to it.
That's the reason why Case #3 [Pleasure-Void via a Sexual Story] should be part of your arsenal.
You can do it when she's not horny as a way of getting her horny.
Your wife/girlfriend/sex-partner could at any time (when you're not horny) start sucking and kissing on your neck and grabbing your cock - as a way of getting you turned on.
But with most women, you can't just walk up to her and start kissing on her neck and rubbing her pussy through her pants/dress.
Women need to be 'emotionally' warmed up.
And even if she is horny, if the right frame hasn't been established -- i.e. she doesn't feel special or it doesn't feel like the right time or something like that -- then a lot of women will end up "not deciding to do it"...
As a recap:
1. Women are very responsive to pleasure-void structures. (You already know this.)(We are, too.)
2. Women have strong imaginations. (You already know this.)
3. Women can experience a wide range of emotions from a story (You already know this.)
4. Women can get turned on by her own thoughts (visualizing/fantasizing about a sexual experience with a particular guy).
5. Women can experience a sexual craving from reading/hearing a sexual story.
When you create a Pleasure-Void via a Sexual Story/Conversation you can accomplish the effects of all 5 at the same time.
One day (this was years ago) I was testing out a sexual conversation that I thought was perfect.
It featured strong details. Strong sexual words.
And guess what, it $%#&ing bombed!
Correction - it bombed big time and it
But I'm glad it happened, because it taught me a veeeerrrrrrry interesting lesson. I'm not going to get too deep into everything, but as far as the basics - I learned that it's not just the 'sexy steamy visual' that you inject into her mind that creates horniness/impact.
That's not enough!
it's the right emotional attachment (the emotional 'frame') to the visual.
It's the reason why an erotic sex scene can often times have a lesser impact than a romance novel/movie with no graphic details.
And I'm pretty sure you realize this.
And even though I've bombed (and maybe you have too) with overly-steamy hard-core stories, on some level I already knew that it's really about the 'frame' and 'set up' and 'context' and 'emotional elements'.
It's all about the 'right emotional attachment'.
If you want to succeed at using sexual stories and sexual conversations to trigger sexual arousal, then you have to
attach the right emotions and
do things a CERTAIN way.
If you do it the wrong way, you'll come off as being perverted or childish.
And even if that doesn't happen, the impact just won't be there.
If you do it the right way, (and you would be surprised at how often you may have done it the right way before) it will be smooth and natural just like Case #3 (above in the yellow box) where the female friend told a story that tricked your brain into expecting pleasure (via a pleasure-void).
The only difference is with women, the structure is a little different.
And just in case you didn't know already, the female brain is very responsive to a pleasure-void approach!
(This is a topic within itself.)
Not let's get to the good/sneaky/fun part....
When it comes to using 'sexy stories/conversations' to get her horny (trigger sexual arousal), there are 2
that work amazingly well.
This is where you tell her a super steamy story.
The good news is if the timing is right, and the story is right - this has the ability to get her turned on fast (in some cases: within
1-3 minutes) .
The bad news is the likelihood of success is a lot lower.
And it has little to do with your skill and more about other factors.
Approach #2: Duration-based
We haven't talked about this too much.
We'll cover it in the report. The good news with this approach is
the likelihood of success (of getting her horny or at a minimum getting her closer to be aroused) is a lot higher.
In fact, it's insanely higher
because of the other areas of the brain that are involved. Women's brains are
to duration and build-up structures.
With that in mind, if you're going to tell stories that engage her mind, tell a constant stream of stories/conversations.
If you need help or you just don't have the time to come up with strategic stories/conversations, then the good news is I have the perfect report for you.
You'll find this to be a very helpful tool.
I've never created a report that is structured like this.
It's a reference guide - and it's basically filled with example dialogues of sex stories/conversations.
The main goal is always to get better at turning her on. Not neccesarily "having a sexual conversation" to get her turned on.
So once you realize that 'sexual conversations' have worked for other guys (and possibly you). And they'll continue to work.
They will ALWAYS be a great 'tactic'.
Once you realize that it's a real/legit/powerful/reliable way of triggering sexual arousal, then The Next Step is to just craft a bunch of sexual conversations (that are strategical laid out) and then test them out and the ones that work great, do more that are LIKE THEM more often in the future.
This report is simple.
It just makes The Next Step an easier "super short-cut" process.
Technically this started out as a personal 'what to say next' for my own personal use file.
Then I decided to expand it and share it for others (like you) that see the value in this 'special/helpful' tool.
The part that is not seen in this report is the fact that these are examples that have slowly evolved over the years.
You'll get a lot out of this report.
Specifically, you'll learn:
- There are a total of 16 very simple 'sex story structures'. Study them. Whenever you're struggling to come up with a new angle, just glance at these 16 sex story structures.
- You'll also learn the type of conversation you should have before the sexual conversation as a way of making it extra smooth.
- You'll see that many of the 52 dialogues are based on these 16 sex story structures.
- Dialogue #2 secretly gets her thinking about a particular personal sexual experiences.
- Dialogue #4 is a type of story I learned from a radio talk show. This type of story affects her on multiple levels, but she'll find it funny and she'll think about a certain type of memory.
- Dialogue #6 is sneaky and can double as a nympho tactic.
- Dialogue #7 is another favorite because it leverages what women love to do. If you've been around women long enough, you'll notice this 'thing' that they love to do. This dialogue example leverages that.
- Dialogue #11 works great because you're getting her to imagine a special type of experience in a very unique way. And for certain women this will have more of an impact.
- Dialogue #12 is something that I started doing last year. It can get old if you do it too much, but in the beginning you may notice that she'll initiate later on that night. You'll read the example.
- Dialogue #13 is an example of what I refer to as "The Dumb Girl" tactic. It's not what you think.
- Dialogue #20 is based on a strategic use of a particular website I discovered (And it's not a sexual website.)
- Dialogue #24 is based on a story of a real life couple. I'll give you the website that explains the real life couple. And you can operate with it from so many angles it's not even funny. You can even send her the link to the website. (You might be wondering. "Ok but did YOU actually use Dialogue #24 to get YOUR woman turned on, CR? The answer. Yes. I did. Twice...so far)
- Dialogue #25 is a story you can tell about what a woman done to her male friend. You can even send her the link to the website (the point is to expose her to the 'hidden' background theme).
- Dialogue #27 & Dialogue #28 are different than the rest - in a certain way. And this structure is one of my favorites because the impact is usually very strong. This supports what I've been saying about women for years.
- Dialogue #35 is another favorite (which is my way of saying I've done this sort of thing a lot of times - in many different ways). You should
look at this one as a template. Not just a "conversation to have one time". It's powerful + super covert + there are so many ways to do it - and it never gets old.
- Dialogue #40 is based on one of the 16 super simple sex story structures.
- Dialogue #43 is actually another simple structure (but it's not one of the 16. Although it should have been included.)
- Dialogue #46 is a unique compliment that no man has ever given her. The impact is strong if you do it the right way. If you're not sure, skip it. This is one that you want to get right the first time.
- You'll noticed at the end of the report, there are 3 basic strategies. When it comes to telling sex stories that lead to the woman getting horny, there are only 3 basic (core) strategies as far as I'm concerned.
- If you're not in alignment with one of these 3 strategies, it's going to be very tough to get her aroused with a sexual conversation.
- We'll talk about 5 types of smooth sex stories. If you stick with these 5 and not get fancy, it will be easier to tell stories that build desire. (page 33)
- We'll talk about set up stories. If you want to be effective use one of the 3 basic (core) strategies + use one of the set up stories + use one of the 5 types of smooth stories. The possibilities are endless. You should be able to create another 50-200 stories using this 'dumb simple' formula.
- You'll learn the 7 best set up stories. If you can't think of a great set up story on your own, refer to the 7 set up stories for help (page 35)
- That's just scratching the surface to give you a small taste of this report.
If this is something that you're interested in, the report is ready.
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