Attention: Guys who enjoy using simple conversations to get women turned on.
If You Can Have
A Certain Type of Conversation,
You Can Perform Mind Insertion To
Get Her Sexually Aroused
By: CR James
I don't know how you feel about knowing the signs that a woman is horny, but my views are much different than most people's (and it's possible that you see things the way I see things)...
I know a geeky chubby guy who collects Star Wars toys and he's obsessed with comic books.
In fact, there's an anime series called 'Bleach' that I use to love watching and he's the guy that got me into it.
At any rate, one day (several years ago) he got a phone call from a very attractive female friend who insisted on paying him a visit at his apartment.
(It was a girl we both know, but he was a lot closer to her as a friend than I was.)
Long story short: While she was at his place, she ended up getting really horny
and in an indirect way...
She was basically begging him for sex!
But after he started explaining things a little more, I quickly discovered that he had NO IDEA that she was sending him these huge 'please screw me' signs.
In fact, at one point, she had actually went into his bedroom ==> started laying on his bed ==> and said something to the effect of: 'My back is hurting. It sure would be nice to have someone rub my back and make it feel better'.
You may have heard me mention this guy before. And typically people are quick to call the guy...
The Biggest Idiot Ever!
But here's the deal...
- He's actually smart and has common sense.
- He's very creative and talented in many areas.
- He's witty/funny with strong social skills.
So how did he miss these super huge 'arousal' signs?
The answer is simple.
You see... in this guy's case, it only seems like an ultra-idiotic-blunder because his biggest dream was to have sex with this girl - and the opportunity fell in his lap and he didn't even realize it.
So what's the best way to tell if a woman is sexually aroused?
Answer: Focus on understanding the surrounding context.
Here's what I mean.
Imagine a situation where out of nowhere a woman calls a guy up and starts complaining to him that her boyfriend cheated on her.
And she says something to the effect of "How would he like it if I screwed someone else?" And then shortly after that, she said: "Would it be ok if I came by to see you?"
You don't have to be that skilled to see that she has the urge for Revenge Sex.
Would you agree?
The geeky guy's biggest problem isn't the fact that he can't recognize subtle body language signs.
His biggest problem is he can't recognize "contextual based horny signs" which are higher impact.
This is something that most people don't ever talk about. Yet, it's always at work.
In fact: Do you remember the example we just talked about (several seconds ago) with the woman calling a guy up and talking about how angry she is with her boyfriend - and then inviting herself over (the urge for revenge sex), well that's actually what happened with the geeky guy.
She had left her boyfriend.
So not only was she laying on his bed asking for a massage, but before she arrived she had pretty much had that exact conversation with him on the phone.
You see, if a guy is really good at building sexual tension (or recognizing when sexual tension has already taken place) then, he should realize that....
This is a more impactful sign of
Does this make sense?
In other words, just by talking to her on the phone, he would have KNOWN that she was horny (via a 'revenge-sex process') because he understands how sexual tension is created.
She was now single and available with a strong urge to experience sex with someone who respects her so that her emotional requirements are met.
Some people think well maybe he didn't want to exploit her or take advantage of her.
#1. You can't have those thoughts if you don't realize the woman wants it. That's the first thing.
#2. If a woman is single and wants to have sex with a guy who treats her with respect, that is NOT exploiting her. That's like saying my wife exploited me when we first met by being nice/respectful/affectionate after I was starving for those things from my previous relationship.
People love sex and have different emotional requirements.
But the point here is he didn't KNOW she was aroused.
Let's dig even deeper.
If you decided to understand how revenge sex actually creates sexual tension (gets her horny)....
You know that it's based on:
A craving to restore balance (a desire/craving to get even)
Ingredient #2: A deep desire for companionship
Ingredient #3: An URGE to experience sexual attention (because her boyfriend/husband/ex-lover starved her of those feelings)
In other words, it actually makes sense that she's sexually aroused because "the deep urge to have sex" (in that moment in time) represents FILLING a set of 'emotional voids'.
And by the way if someone is reading this and they're upset and thinking it's MEAN to cheat on a woman or have sex with a woman that just got out of a relationship. And I HATE the whole concept of revenge..They. Are. Missing. The. Point.
They're are actually two KEY points that helps a guy become VERY EFFECTIVE (over night) at getting women horny.
Here's something that happen to me recently...
The other day, (while we were in bed) my wife put her hands down my boxers and 'grabbed me' and then gave me a deep kiss along with a flirty look.
Would you agree that this is sign that she's wants some?
Well it wasn't. lol.
She didn't want sex at all.
In fact, I playfully initiated and she said she was tired. And she didn't want any. She just felt like being silly.
I smiled because I didn't really want any either. Why? Prior to her grabbing me, we just got finished having sex and we both were exhausted.
So I KNEW she didn't want sex.
That's why it's not just about the "common signs" of arousal.
If my geeky Star Wars friend told me many stories about how his "attractive female friend" loves to tease guys and make them think she wants sex when she really doesn't, I wouldn't have been shocked.
Many women to do this
it's gives them the feeling that they crave: feeling being beautiful, sexy, naughty and desired.
If a week later he told me she was on the bed asking for a massage and flirting with him, then it wouldn't be enough information to conclude that she wants sex.
Does that make sense?
You have to pay attention to MANY LAYERS.
Layer #1: What the woman is doing (grabbing your cock, laying on the bed asking for a massage, etc.)
Layer #2: THE CONTEXT (what just took place prior to the action, her desires, did something happen to create an emotional void, etc.)
There are other layers, too.
That's the SECRET BONUS benefit of using effective sexual tension tactics that get women to crave sex
(whether you learn them from me, yourself, or someone else).
As you know, my tactics are largely based on (1) things I experiment with (2) patterns that I see in women.
The main important take away is this:
"The better you get at turning women on - and getting her to crave sex in a variety of different ways, the BONUS SKILL that you'll learn automatically is getting better at SENSING/KNOWING/DETECTING when a woman is "horny" on her own.
Does that make sense?
In other words -- as you already know....
STEP 1: There are many pathways to sexual arousal.
She could read an erotic short story ==> And get horny
She could watch a romantic movie ==> And get horny
She could have the urge to experience respect/love/passion (because for several years, her 'cheating lover' STARVED HER of those feelings) ==> And get horny
She could do [something else] ==> And get horny
She could do [something else] ==> And get horny
STEP 2: The interesting thing about these pathways is that they can be TRIGGERED by herself or you.
In other words, SHE could decide to read an erotic story ==> And get horny.
You could SAY SOMETHING that gets her to read the story ==> And she would get horny.
A woman can have a strong urge to experience more passion during lovemaking because (10x a day) she thinks about how her ex-lover didn't meet her emotional requirements during sex. Sex was fun with him. He begged when she was too tired for sex. He made her feel like a 'sexual failure' at least once a week. ==> She now has a BURNING ITCH to make love with a guy who intelligently triggers the right emotions!!
Along the same lines...
A guy could HAVE A CONVERSATION with a new woman he just met that ends up TRIGGERING the same thoughts and emotions ==> She now has a BURNING ITCH to make love with a guy who
triggers the right emotions!!
STEP 3: The SECRET BONUS EFFECT of being skilled at getting a woman turned on in so many different ways is that you "automatically" acquire the special skill of DETECTING when she's already horny or partially horny.
And this skill leads to having sex more often.
In other words, if "Jim Smith" has some sort of method of getting his girlfriend to read an erotic story and ==> afterwards she says, "that was a really good story" ==> And then after that she starts endlessly talking about sexual topics ==> And then after that they end up making love.
If "Jim Smith" experiences this pattern enough, he'll "automatically" acquire the SKILL of detecting when this happens on its own.
So if one day, his girlfriend says "I just read a story about a man and woman blah blah blah ==> And then after that she starts endlessly talking about sexual topic ==> "Jim Smith" SHOULD KNOW that she's turned on (or partially turned on).
Of course, if they break up and she enters in a relationship with a virgin Star Wars geek. And then one day, she says to the new 'geeky' boyfriend: "I just read a story about a man and woman blah blah blah ==> And then after that she starts endlessly talking about sexual topic ==> He wouldn't see it.
Jim Smith would.
But the new geeky guy would be BLIND to it.
Here's where it gets interesting.
If we traveled back in time, where Jim Smith is in a relationship with her, he would end up MISSING other pathways that HE has never experienced with her.
Unless you're a virgin who knows NOTHING about women, you've experienced (or heard about) all of the BASIC pathways to arousal.
Do you know...
The #1 Reason Why Guys FAIL MISERABLY At Getting Women Horny?
They don't know how to push psychological buttons the right way.
The sad part is they don't know how to take what they've DONE BEFORE to the next level...or they don't know how to REPEAT IT.
Have you ever said something to a woman ===> She felt very appreciative ===> And then she gave you a big hug (or she had an instant desire for sex)?
It's so common, it's not even funny.
If that has ever happened to you (even once) you owe it to yourself to THINK HARD about what that REALLY means.
And more than likely the same woman has been TURNED ON BY YOU (or another guy in her past) via other psychological buttons!
That's why it's important to know CONVERSATIONAL TACTICS that build sexual tension.
Do you remember how I was talking about my wife putting her hand down my boxers - but she didn't want sex?
Imagine this NEW scenario:
Let's say that my wife and I didn't just have sex on that particular day + she told me she just got finished reading an erotic novel + I did some sexual tension tactics ==> If she ended up putting her hands down my boxers with the passionate kiss and flirty look, it would have a different MEANING/CONTEXT!
So when you know what creates tension, then you also understand what releases it (i.e. having sex).
Let's get to the best part: Phase 2
Phase 2: Inserting key information in her mind = Simple way to get a woman horny
There was a particular time when I created sexual tension in a very creative way that was partially by accident.
I'm not talking about the typical common stuff.
I'm talking about doing something KINDA BRILLIANT....if you don't mind me saying :)
I had a conversation with her that affected her in a psychological way...
...and minutes later, she aggressively initiated sex!!!
And when I think back to what took place (right now), the arousal makes logical sense (in terms of what gave her a 'deep urge to have sex').
In fact, I now refer to "this simple conversation" as
the Michael Jordan tactic...
And it's crazy how most guys that you see walking around every day, have no concept that there are soooo many pathways to horniness
And it all comes down to:
'Saying stuff' ==> That puts certain information in her mind ==> She reacts to that information ==> sexual tension is created
And when you keep doing 'stuff' that creates sexual tension ==> She ends up with an urge to have sex (to release the tension).
It's really simple: People make decisions (and form cravings/urges) based on how they feel (in the moment) and what they're focused on (what their brains are regarding as very important in the moment).
- It's the reason why revenge sex makes sense.
- It's the reason why make up sex makes sense.
- It's the reason why 'my Michael Jordan tactic' makes sense.
With that in mind, I got really excited about releasing this "slam dunk" report because it's based on a 'special list' of sexual tension tactics that focuses on "Information Insertion".
There are a total of 53 (Information Insertion) Sexual Tension Tactics and the report is finally available.
Technically most sexual tension tactics inserts information in her mind. However this report places an extra emphasis on that so that.
And to help you see what's REALLY GOING ON, there are 4 key parts and they all work together.
Part 1 = ????
Part 2 = ????
Part 3 = ????
Part 4 = ????
Let's really break it down to what you can expect to learn with this new report.
- Information Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic #1 - The Michael Jordan sexual tension tactic - You'll see how I did it. I'll explain what your objective should be (in terms of the type of information you want to "insert in her mind") and I'll explain why it gets the woman to react in a way that makes her horny (or at a minimum build sexual tension). Page 6
- Even though you've had sex lots of times, you've never used this "backdoor craving button" to get a woman horny - Again, when I did, she attacked me minutes later and this was the ONLY THING I DID!
- Information Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic #2 - This one works gradually. This is something that you would do in the very beginning of trying to get her aroused. This is not likely to ever get her completely horny all by itself (like the first one has the potential to do). This one is about setting the stage.
- Information Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic #3 - This has a high sneaky factor which makes it fun to do. I've mention doing this in another report. It's makes another appearance in this report because there are so many ways to do it. And with this one, when it works, you'll know it!
- Information Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic #4 - This is a different way of doing tactic #3
- Information Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic #7 - This is probably the easiest to execute because even if a guy is clumsy with it, it will still stimulate one of the most common "female emotional buttons" that is strongly linked to horniness.
- Information Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic #9 - This one doubles as a way to make yourself more desirable (a sexual value tactic). And as a result of that, it builds short-term sexual tension.
- Information Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic #12 - Brace yourself! You've never heard me (or anyone) talk about this "conversational tactic" before - This is a new tactic - and one of my new favorites for 2014. Super stealth (and impossible to detect) doesn't even began to describe it. I would suggest (if you need to) reading it a few times to make sure you understand it. And all you need to do is have a certain type of conversation -- and then follow it up with another type of conversation. And follow the rest of the instructions. So you're inserting 2 streams of information.
We're not done. You'll also learn:
Mind Insertion Tactic #19: Another favorite. This is powerful because she's never heard a comment like this before. And of course, the reaction to the comment is what creates the sexual tension. All you have to do is: Say this type of comment. And then wait for her to be affectionate within 30 minutes. (Read the dialogue example to see how it's done.)
Mind Insertion Tactic #20: This one is a 'double star' tactic - meaning there was a time when I did this one thing and shortly afterwards, I got sexually attacked. This particular one is a type of "teasing her" tactic, but you'll also be smoothly putting a certain image in her mind. (Read the dialogue example to see how it's done.) Page 13.
Mind Insertion Tactic #21: Although this tactic builds tension, the more you make these "special type of comments", the more it covertly conditions her to experience happiness & excitement whenever you initiate sex. It's a tactic that has a double-effect: (1) It builds tension + (2) She unconsciously gets 'happy' whenever you initiate sex. It's brilliant because no one is talking about it. Page 15
This is just scratching the surface. There are a grand total of 53 Mind Insertion Tactics! (Yes, 53!)
For what it's worth, I put a 'single blue star' next to the tactics that lead to my wife (or a woman in my past) getting aroused without doing any other tactic.
So 'blue star' = I only used that one tactic all by itself to create horniness.
And then I put a 'double blue star' next to the ones where NOT ONLY did that tactic work all by itself... but my wife (or another woman from my past) ended up initiating sex shortly afterwards.
I'm not suggesting that's what you should expect. It's just an idea of how powerful it could be for your target women in terms of creating the right psychological effect and/or filling an emotional void and/or some other effect.
I'm really proud and excited to make this unique one-of-kind report available because these are new and fresh concepts that you won't find anywhere else!
Others are charging hundreds of dollars for information that is not close to what you'll learn in this 37 page report. And that's because this report is 10 years in the making when you consider that it's based on real & unconventional observations in terms of female arousal.
These are new and fresh concepts that you won't find anywhere else!
53 (Mind Insertion) ST Tactics
If you have any questions, please ask..
What is a Mind Insertion Sexual Tension Tactic?
Mind Insertion - is the process of inserting key information in her mind for getting a woman turned on.
That's the simple answer.
As far as a brief 'but deeper' answer:
You say something (have a conversation) ==> she reacts to this new information OR the conversation gets her to focus on existing information ==> she has an emotional response
And if you understand one of the basic Laws of Tension (which states that tension can be created via repeated movements), then it should be easy to see how this works.
During Sex (creating orgasm)
Repeated Movements: Thrusting + Thrusting + Thrusting + Thrusting = Orgasm
During Oral Sex (creating orgasm)
Repeated Movements: Licking + Licking + Licking + Licking = Orgasm
During Seduction (creating sexual arousal in a woman)
Repeated Movements: Emotional response + Emotional response + Emotional response = Sexual Arousal (She's horny)
Question #2: How on earth does "reacting to information" lead to some sort of emotional response?
Great question. As you know, she's currently having thoughts at every given moment and she's not turned on.
The key is knowing that when it comes to building sexual tension (via an information inserting approach), you just want the information to accomplish 1 or more of the following factors.
Factor #1. Shift her focus
Factor #2. Shift her perception (of herself or something else)
Factor #3. Elicit a feeling/emotion
Factor #4. Create some sort of psychological effect
Those are four different pathways to an emotional response.
To give a super simple example: You could be currently thinking of 3 to 4 things and then a woman could come along and:
get you to focus on "a good sexual memory"
get you to focus on "her nice legs"
get you to focus on something sexual
And pretty soon you could end up being turned on via:
During Seduction (creating sexual arousal )
Repeated Movements: Emotional response (to sexual memory) + Emotional response (to her nice legs) + Psychological response (of something else) + etc + etc = Sexual Arousal (You're now horny)
You're about to learn 53 powerful tactics that are brilliant because they work. I've done them privately + I've taught them to other people + the sexual arousal is VERY LOGICAL (I'll explain it to you).
Think of them as 53 secret weapons of sexual arousal because you can use them over and over again. And you can tweak them and put your own special spin on them.
The only thing that is DUMB about this report is the PRICE. :)
I really should be selling this report much much higher.
I've personally taught just a few of these to some guys and they were completely mind blown! Many of them kept reporting back multiple success stories.
And now YOU are seconds away from getting "those same few tactics" + a whole lot more.
Plus, (for what it's worth) I put "special codes" next to certain ones that reflect my personal experience in terms of SPEED OF AROUSAL.
For the right guy, it will be a "total game changer" and it's very rare to have something this powerful for under $97.
Read Some Emails From Happy Customers
of Previous CR James Reports
I just finished reading one of your reports.
I must tell you I was impressed with your explanations of the aspects involved with these actions and the curious way the female minds works (sometimes).
I have a B.S. degree in Psychology and Management (it's a dangerous combination) but I get more from your articles than I ever did from sitting in college classes.
I would rate your writings on these subjects that many men and women alike don't have a clue about, as extraordinarily far above the crowds.
You are truly a Master Craftsman, Great job!
Give us MORE Boss !!!
Retired U.S. Navy Chief Petty Officer
Hi I bought a few of Your books a while ago ……… and I haven't ever told you how good they are an how I think its a HONOR TO KNOW YOU.. and to have the luck of coming across ……your books and buying them…….
I have had a lot of trouble taking every detail in to real life out of the book ………
i have had to read thing many many times……
know that you must be really busy and I really appreciate you time and THINK YOU ARE A SUPER PERSON THAT IS HONESTLY CHANGING THE WORLD FOR THE BETTER
THANK YOU , YOU CHANGED MY LIFE FOR EVER …..THANKS
I've purchased many of your books and have read and re read them many times. Thank you so much for your insight and thoughtfulness in writing these, they have been truly helpful.
I am a christian man who has a loving wife who is my best friend and 3 great kids.
Dove right into this one, thanks for clearing up .....
it seems every pua is getting it wrong but not us!
thanks, I actually used [a technique] and got her going.
Really Great Stuff!
Seriously, you have given me so much already that my head is buzzing with it all. I have always been very cynical of self help and 'you can change things' type of books, but seeing definite and subtle changes in just 48 hours by simply, [doing a bunch of easy to do tactics] is overwhelming!
I have felt a little guilty, almost under hand, but have been able to justify it to myself very easily,
if everyone is much happier, whats to feel guilty about.
Your information has been very useful. Went from having sex 3 times in the previous 6 months to 3 times in the last month. Plus our relationship is the best it has been in years.
I want to report a success story.
...I gained confidence over time through seeing the change in her reaction
and seeing my success with other women, and eventually came through with this most difficult challenge.
I have to careful though, because I really do think she's
among the top 2-3 women I 've ever been attracted to, and it's easy to
put her on a pedestal above any other potential mate, which would not
be productive for SV.
It's knowing better how attraction works in the female brain.
After reading enough of your stuff, I am able to interpret particular situations
and know how to spin them to gain SV,
or know what kind of situations to get into that will help, rather
than needing to study and apply particular techniques.
I don't know where this relationship will go, but as of right now,
I've won back the woman I lost--something that felt like the biggest
loss of my life. That's fantastic, and knowing that I could do that
will give me hugely improved confidence wherever I go from here.
| Let me start by saying YOU DA MAN.
I am forty years old and have been married for twenty years and because of you, I now know what the problem was. I started using your techniques and saw results in a week. And when I say results, I mean I could predict her reactions and even almost control them.
The one and the only amazing CR James, man I never get tired of reading your stuff.
Your last report was really amazing good stuff good stuff, I just put it to work. Last time my 19 year old girlfriend and me were having WILD sex each and every time I read your work and put it into action so lets see if I can effectively put it into action this time wish me luck!
Sincerely Best Wishes,
| Hey man seriously you are an outstanding individual...
I'm not an ass kisser or anything but you are the coolest buisness man I've ever dealt with.
You answer quickly and really know what your talking about I'm actually trying to pursure a career in the internet field and I truly look up to you and how you conduct your buisness.
I've never met any so called guru of anything that has responded so quickly to a customer, it's unbelivevable..
| Hi Cr.
I just wanted to tell you that all you teached me is so effective that my
girl friend asked me last night what was the "black magic"
I applied on her... She is so much in love with me. We are so happy.
Thank you so much.
Ive bought your SSP and also the Secret Pattern.
Your breakdown and strategies for communicating with wife is brilliant! As a former NLP trainer(10yrs ago), it didn't occur to me that it could be use in this way to turn my wife on.
Wanted to thank u for your book and emails a few weeks ago. Looks like things have turned around. I have upped my sexual value--if you don't remember I was the guy who was trying to seduce the polish girl who married a loser (not my words..her girlfriends words) to stay in the country--and its gone from me having to ask her 3 times to hang out to her now asking ME to hang out!
In fact she just for the very first time asked me to have lunch friday!!!!!
If You Can Have
A Certain Type of Conversation,
You Can Perform Mind Insertion To
Get Her Sexually Aroused