But at that point, we couldn't tell him it was all fake.
And as of today (Dec. 8, 2015)... he STILL doesn't know it was a set up.
Here's where it gets interesting.
A few weeks later, I ran into him and he introduced me to his new girlfriend...and to my surprise she was very attractive and seemed like a nice down-to-earth girl!
At this point in my life... you have to understand.... I never knew that a woman could be
Long story short: Knowing what I know now, we did him a huge favor.
We gave him the gift of Confidence.
We gave him the gift of Super Unstoppable Confidence!!
Do You Remember The First Time You
Chances are you've done it at least once.
...whether it involved a woman or a project or 'doing something that no one would expect you to do'....
It's amazing how a guy will start to believe in himself and then out of nowhere things become "magically easy" and in some cases, girls/women will start smiling and flirting with him as if he is a totally new guy!!
If we dig deeper into the "Terry" experience, it wasn't really the "prank" that changed him.
It was "his perspective".
Perspective is EVERYTHING.
Most people think that their problem is a "lack of confidence".
In other words, the "prank" did not GIVE Terry confidence, his "perspective" gave him confidence.
People rarely acknowledge that they are actually manufacturing "labels" to all of their experiences.
In simple terms:
Bob gets rejected by a woman ==> and says to himself "I'm the biggest idiot in the world for even thinking that she would blah blah with me?"
Jim gets rejected by a woman ==> and says to himself "Ok.. I've learn that I need a new approach because she doesn't respond to XYZ...the next time I will do a better job at blah blah blah"?
Do you see how the two guys creating different labels based on the SAME experience?
Here's the point...
If you know the fine art of managing labels/perspective + your experiences
You Will Be Friggin' Unstoppable!!
(We're going to really break this down.)
Let's imagine that there was a guy named Frank who went through a similar "flirty cousin" experience as Terry.
Let's Show A SIDE BY SIDE Comparison
Frank enters the situation thinking something like:
"The pretty girl keeps smiling at me. I better not screw this up! blah blah blah I better make sure I say the
Terry enters the situation thinking something like:
"The pretty girl keeps smiling at me. If I can keep this going and make her laugh, this will be a piece of cake blah blah blah..."
As a result of his RULE:
He ends up getting tongue-tied. The next day he feels Pain/Regret
As a result of his RULE:
He ends up enjoying the experience. The next day he feels Extreme Success/Happiness
And that leads to a decrease in confidence ("I can't believe I blew it")
And that leads to projecting Super Confidence ("I'm the man! She was totally into me! blah blah blah")
Hopefully, that makes sense.
But let's make sure it's really clear....
Why Is Having Confidence
Chances are your father (or school) never taught you that you can make certain 'thinking shifts' and it can lead to confidence and potentially change the whole course of your life.
And not only that, but there is a difference between "long stretches of No-Confidence", "Having higher confidence at times" and Long Stretches of Super Confidence.
There are actually many ways to trigger super confidence.
One simple approach is to
keep building layers and layers and layers of confidence.
A good way of knowing that your confidence is high is based on how women react to you.
It's a good test.
Women can sense/smell/detect:
2. An extremely desperate
3. A confident guy.
4. An extremely confident guy
One important thing to mention.
Some people think that if you're Super Confident that means you're automatically a disrespectful jerk.
It's weird.... they try to equate being nice/respectful with lacking confidence.
I'm not sure who created this rule (or "idea"), but it doesn't make any sense.
Here's the real breakdown.
1. A person can be extremely desperate + disrespectful to others.
2. A person can be extremely desperate + compassionate & respectful to others.
3. A person can be super confident + a jerk/disrespectful to others.
4. A person can be super confident + compassionate & respectful to others.
I think it's more effective to take the #4 approach.
How Quickly Can A Person Become Super Confident?
It depends on the method and the type of person he is.
Sticking with the beautiful woman analogy...
if a guys needs a lot of evidence in order to impact his beliefs....then he'll need 10 - 14 experiences where women are attracted to him in order to feel confident about his ability to attract women.
Another guy might just need one experience.
Another guy (with a different perspective) can just WITNESS another guy attracting women... and it will give him a "perspective shift".
He says to himself, "if HE can do it, I can, too."
or... "if a person can do XYZ, then it's possible for me to do it, too."
This is one of the first perspective shifts that most intelligent guys learn automatically.
You see....a perspective shift is the precursor (or "first step") to triggering unstoppable confidence...
That's what I mean when I say that most people think their problem is a
lack of confidence.
Their REAL PROBLEM is not breaking things down into simple logical parts.
You just have to start with "shifting your perspective".
In other words, if I instructed my "female cousin" to massively flirt with Frank....or I do some other "Creative Method" to boost his confidence.... or I give Frank a really great book on building confidence....
It WILL NEVER WORK until he understands how to make the right perspective shift.
That way... he can add the right "label" to the future experience.
Again: People rarely acknowledge that they are actually manufacturing "labels" to all of their experiences.
Another example of a common perspective shift that "most intelligent people" do naturally is they come up with creative win-win situations.
In other words, they'll say to themselves.
If X happens, then great!
But if X doesn't happen, no big deal...at least I'll learn blah blah blah....
That's like saying, I'll do something... and I'll either get what I what or I'll become a better person (and more likely to get what I want in the future).
Let's take it a step further...
Based on someone who "collects" confidence tactics, I've come to the conclusion that it's all based on two things.
Perspective + Layers.
(Actually there are more, but those two are a good starting point.)
As far as layers...
For example (in our diagram above) Frank could benefit changing his perspective about how to ACT when a pretty woman smiles at him.
Would you agree?
He would benefit even more from LAYERS of "perspective shifts".
His perspective on women.
His perspective on how to act in certain situations.
His perspective on how to act when a woman smiles at him.
His perspective on who he is.
His perspective on what he's capable of.
His perspective on THIS.
His perspective on THAT.
The good news: Triggering Super Confidence can happen very fast.
Sometimes in a matter of minutes.
Sometimes in a matter of seconds.
In fact, you (at times) have triggered Super Confidence in a matter of seconds.
And if you were to "decode" what you did in your mind, you probably would see that you brilliantly and quickly came up with LAYERS of perspective shifts about the situation.
Keep in mind, that's just "one way" of creating Super Confidence!
Sometimes you end up doing something brilliant and complex...in a matter of seconds.
Sometimes you end up doing something SUPER SIMPLE...in a matter of seconds.
For example, depending on the situation, you might say to yourself:
What's the worst that could happen?
If he could do it, so can I.
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I have a new report based on 54 Ways to Trigger Super Confidence.
This is not the typical confidence book as you'll find out.
It involves several different ways of Triggering Super Confidence and it's set up in
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And you'll see that it's easy to trigger Super Confidence when we can decide to:
- Leverage powerful neuroscience and psychological concepts
- Change our evaluation (perspective) about something.
- And add layers and layers of 'unique perspective shifts'
It's based on what I do for myself - helping other guys - and what I do to help my wife increase her confidence.
She doesn't realize (most of the time) that I'm using these strategies to boost her confidence.
- You can use these strategies to go from confident to super confident.
- You can use these strategies to snap out of a "low confidence fog".
- You can use these strategies to boost confidence in others.
Several of this techniques are a bit unusual...but they work (even though you haven't seen them before).
In many of my reports, I spend a lot of time 'embedding' confidence tactics to inspire readers to take action.
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When you have Super Unstoppable Confidence:
- You'll think better and faster.
- You'll feel amazing/happier and 'on top of the world'
- You'll feel as though everything is easy.
- You'll project a 'powerful presence' that people love.
- Women will respond to you much differently.
- And they won't even fully understand what's going on.
- You'll notice women staring at you more often.
- You'll accomplish your goals faster.
- If you're in a relationship, you will notice that sometimes your mindset alone (without doing anything else) is enough to get her sexually aroused.
Try it out today
If you have any questions, just ask..
Much success in everything that you do!
P.S. Get started today and put it to the test.
P.P.S. When you see women staring at you, smiling, walking up to you, trying to get your attention that's a strong clue that you've triggered Super Unstoppable Confidence.
Question: So is confidence the only thing you need to get a woman to want to have sex with you?
Answer: No. It's a powerful ingredient that 99% of women find desirable, but different women look for different things in a sex partner (or a relationship partner).
Question: Does it take long to increase confidence?
Answer: No. It depends on who you are. It depends on the situation. It can be done in minutes.
Question: So if a woman is attracted to a guy because of his confidence, will she
definitely approach him?
Answer: No. She'll only approach him if she likes him + she's 'philosophically comfortable' with approaching guys.
Question: Is the purpose of confidence to meet women and get them turned on?
Answer: It depends on your intentions.
it's good for having success with women + many other things such as:
Making it easier to accomplish goals + being more 'likeable' to others + being better at helping/inspiring others (if that's your thing) + feeling good about yourself.
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