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CR James
The 10 Distinctions Between
Super Desirable Guys And Average Guys
Hello my name is Charles (or CR James).
I’m not a sexual therapist.
I’m not a relationship expert.
I’m a former Signal Processing Engineering Specialist for the US Army, and I had the task of figuring out “information” within signals.
At the same time, I was struggling with getting my wife to consistently want sex. Basically, I wanted her [...]
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CR James
The 10 Distinctions Between
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I need your intellectual assistance…
(if you don’t mind)
This guy emailed me about a *UNIQUE* problem
that he is having with his Girlfriend…
Maybe you’ve been in this situation before
(I don’t know)…
Let me know how HE should handle this.
(I’ve never had to deal with this with
ANY girl I’ve been with…)
His email is in green (below)
Hey CR…
I had a feeling for a while that there was something not right going on with my gf.
So I tricked her by making a false profile on the internet and gaining her trust as a girl.
My gf is bisexual, so I asked some things and she asked me to come to her, because she wanted to trie to have sex with a girl.
She never did it before… well the girl was actually me, so when I told her that, she lost it.
She called me and started to cry and yell that she was sorry.
Now I don’t have any trust in her anymore. She now says that I am the only one and she doesnt want anyone else.
She calls me a lot telling she is sorry and never do it again. But how can I believe her? I just hope she really is sorry
Now my question is: If she is like this… will she do it again? because I really like her, but if I have to be insecure then no thanks.
What are the possibilities if I continue with her? I don’t really know what is in her mind.
When she asked that other girl (me) she also said that she did never want to lose me.
So she does love me, but has or had some urge to do it with a girl… she even said to the girl that she would share her with me if she had to, but preferred to do it alone with her.
What do you think about this story CR? Can you give me some advice about what is going on in her mind?
Kind Regards
P
Hey [Alex]
do you have the actual conversation… like a cut and paste of it…
if so…i like to see it….
Regards,
CR
Hi CR
This is the conversation. I am the xx and gf is my girl. Tell me what you think about it.
xx: hi
gf: hi
xx: I have never seen a girl my age who is bisexual. it’s cool
how come you are 1?gf: well I just like to look at girls, like butt and tits, so I know that I like them, but I do have a bf, so I am not lesbian.
xx: ever had sex with a girl? I never did, but I would like to try.
gf: No never, and I can’t cheat, because my bf will leave me.
xx: maybe he is ok with it, if you ask him. Do you love him?
gf: Sure I love him
xx: So you are happy with how it is?
gf: well I do want to try it with a girl, but I don’t plan on cheating.
He did say that I could if he was there with me, but I think that’s kind of embarrassing.xx: Why do you think that is embarrassing?
gf: I don’t know. I am a shy girl.
xx: and would you do it with a girl, or are you shy then too?
gf: how do you mean?
xx: if a pretty girl asks you to do it with her. what would you do?
gf: I would attack her xD
xx: and you would not care what your bf thinks?
gf: Yes I would, but I will try to keep it a secret, so he does not find out
xx: so you want to cheat
gf: actually yes
xx: daring
gf: without him finding out of course
xx: and if he finds out?
gf: then my life ends. he will leave me and say farewell
xx: then you can just take the girl right?
gf: hmmmnnnyee
xx: you don’t want that? you just want to do it once with a girl?
gf: actually I want it both
xx: what? a guy and a girl?
gf: yes. you know what he told me?
xx: well?
gf: he said that if I wanted to do it with a girl then do it. I got a bit sad. we talked and he said that if I wanted it then a girl could join the relationship but she will be of us both and not mine.
xx: so you would live with 3 together? do you want that?
gf: if I must
xx:how do you mean? rather have them separated?
gf: actually yes
xx: and if your bf would do it to her? how would you feel?
gf: I would be stinkin jealous!
xx: and would you break up?
gf: no. I would just join xD
xx: and if the girl does not want that?
gf: then I will talk with my bf
xx: and what would you rather?
1 have a relation with your bf…
2 a relation with your bf and a girl separated
3 a relation with you and your bf getting another girl
4 cheatinggf: 2 or 3
xx: so you do want a girl? xD maybe you should talk with your bf about it
gf: I will talk with hem but I am scared that he loses it.
xx: he did say that he was ok with it right?
gf: do you stay at home during hollidays?
xx: yes why?
gf: nothing xD
xx: want to get a date?
gf: maybe..ok yes I admit
xx: alright I am ok with it. I will stay quiet
gf: ok
xx: what do you want to do?
gf: we shall see. where do you live?
xx: (place near my gf)
gf: (place)
xx: and where do you want to meet?
gf: at the park and then go to my house
my bf is away on holliday so he can’t comexx: and you wont tell him?
gf: no I wont
xx: and we do it in the park?
gf: no we will do it at home
xx: well I have to admit something: I am a friend of your bf an I set you up
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gf: WHAT?
xx: lets see what he is going to think about this?
gf: NOOOO
Then she called me saying she did the most stupid thing in her life and she doesn’t want it anymore, she just wants me etc.
I said that I don’t know and that if I would give her another chance, then I would not trust her anymore and if she does it again then it is over.
what do you think?
we talked a lot after that… mostly about how stupid she was… she said she didn’t want it anymore and loves me soooo much.
Kind Regards
[Alex]
(So let me know what he should do. Is it possible that she wouldn’t have done it? Was it just fantasy talk? Maybe you’ve been in a situation like this before… Let me know… You can you either send your response to my email at crjames100@gmail.com or just comment on the post)
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Warmly
CR James
The 10 Distinctions Between
Super Desirable Guys And Average Guys
If you want to know why I created The Super Compliments (eBook), just go to the site:
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Take Care
Peace,
CR James
Hello…
I need your help…
Your insight is needed because I’ve never
been in this situation before..
To make a long story short a guy emailed me
about a situation that he’s going through
with his young wife…
He’s 50.
She’s 27.
She’s attractive.
But she’s very mean to him!
Very!
In fact, the only time she’s nice to him
is when she wants him to give her sex
(the nerve of some women!)
Long story short: She put this poor guy
through serious hell (stress)…
Because that was just the beginning…
Now there’s someone else going on…
I just responded to him (literally like 4 minutes
ago, but I don’t think my response was enough,
because I never been in his *currently situation*…
And I feel he would benefit from someone who may
have gone through what he has OR maybe an alternate
perspective could be useful…
I put the story in a PDF Document so that I could highlight the main points for quick scanning – just in case you didn’t want to read the whole thing – word for word….
To Save: Right click and save target as
http://SuperPowerMedia.com/gary.pdf
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Hey boys and girls…
I’m STIIIIIIILLLLL waiting…
I’m still waiting for someone to be like: “Oh yeah. I met her when she was a virgin BLAH BLAH BLAH; the relationship is incredible!”
I’m not one of these guys who say: “It seems like most virgins girls are crazy or wacked out in the head” because that’s just flat out irresponsible and borderline “excessively childish”…
In this day and age, more women need to have respect for their bodies…
But at any rate, check out this guy’s situation – and let me know what he should do
(send all emails to crjames100@gmail.com)…

Again, send me an email (crjames100@gmail.com) or post a comment
Take Care
Regards,
CR James
crjames100@gmail.com
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CR James
The 10 Distinctions Between
Super Desirable Guys And Average Guys
You tell me.
There was a guy who emailed me 2 days ago (i.e. August 19th, 2009) about something bizarre that he does with his wife.
I got chills when he told me what he does with her!!
(I will say that it’s “original”)
The interesting thing is he actually asked me in so
many words:
“When I do [the thing that he does] will it make
her cheat?”
WHAT!!!
Here’s his email:
Hi James,
Yesterday evening I dived into your essay regarding the seduction of married women
One question popped into my mind I would appreciate your opinion about it. You say “many women crave [something mentioned in the report 'How To Seduce Married Women']”.
Let me give you a little background: Me and my wife have been married for 8 years and are a loving couple with great sex life in general.
I married her after 7 year intense lover’s relationship (I was married at that time). We share erotic fantasies very often in the bed and elsewhere too. These are mostly wild things that we both enjoy and that enhance the pleasure of both of us.
Circumstances are such that we are apart for 4-5 weeks a year during the summer. During these periods we keep on teasing each other with the thought that she engages sex with friends or even strangers that I would not mind in case I can be sure that a/ she is able to handle the experience and preserve her dignity and b/ the guy does a perfect job on her so he deserves her. We do sex on phone and/or Internet occasionally playing with fantasies.
My #1 question is: When I am actually encouraging her to have sex with others (both men and/or women) do I increase or decrease the chance that it actually happens?
I am not a particularly jealous person and the thought excites me as much as it excites her. The only condition is that she is supposed to tell me everything to the deepest details.
Why I ask that question?
She has been faithful to me since we married I guess.
(What happened earlier, even a week earlier, that would deserve a book. I may contribute to your “good girl” testimonies later)
Before we left for this year’s vacation we visited our friends, a couple who are in fact younger than us. We had a great time together but all of us drank too much alcohol from which I always end up fast asleep where I am.
Same thing happened with the wife of my friend too.
When I got to my senses about 2 hours later, I saw my wife and my friend hugging wildly.
They continued drinking further and by that time they were drunk as a sailor. But unlike me they became more active dancing all night long with each other. The music was somewhat blood boiling too I admit. Peeping in a little later, tipsy like hell, I saw my wife giving a blow job to the guy in the bathroom.
The next day I asked my wife if she remembered what happened that night. She said yes first and asked why. I told her what I saw and she became disturbed, ashamed and embarrassed. She admitted or pretended that she did not remember a thing in addition to dancing.
Thank you for your unbiased opinion.
Regards
[Dave]
So you tell me. Do you think it’s a good idea for him to do what he did?
Email your responses at crjames100@gmail.com (and I’ll reply back to you ‘my
response’ to him – which contains a “powerful lesson” that you can use tonight)
Take care and enjoy your weekend.
Regards
CR James
Creator of: SuperSeductionPower.com