Let’s dive in.

The key to increasing the frequency is based 2 things.

I refer to this as the “Easiest Seduction Formula”.

The formula always works, so if you want more sex, pay attention.

Before I reveal what it is, let’s look at some simple facts:

Fact #1: Having sex is fun.
Fact #2: Having more sex is more fun!

At any rate, the formula (or the components that will allow you to have high quality sex) is driven by two factors:

Opportunity + Perception.

That’s it.

Sex = Opportunity + Perception (That’s the formula!)

If you are already getting the amount of sex you want then by law you are meeting the requirements.

If you don’t understand what that means, that’s not a problem. It will be explained in greater detail later.

Here’s a quick story.

About six years ago I became the number one salesman for a multi-million dollar company.

The top executives became so impressed with all of the sales records I was breaking that they made special trips to see me. When they interrogated me for my unique sales secrets, I told them I wasn’t doing anything special. I just focused on getting the customer to realize that it made sense to buy (perception) what I was offering. And then I found if they have the money to buy it (opportunity).”

Even though that response didn’t impress them, it was a simple rule that produced great results for me (time after time).

In the seduction world, the same rules apply.

The opportunity to have sex must be there. And she must perceive you as a person who is sexually desirable.

Before we look at how to get that “lust-generating” perception - which can be a very exciting process - let’s look at what it means to have an opportunity.

In simple terms, if you want to have sex with a female, yet there isn’t place to do it, then that means you don’t have an opportunity to have sex with her.

This seems obvious, but many guys are getting rejected night after night, because they’re initiating sex when there’s isn’t an opportunity.

For example, a guy initiates sex with his “neat-freak” female companion even though his room/apartment is messy.

He has no idea that an opportunity to have sex doesn’t exist.

An opportunity is simply a place, convenient time, suitable mindset, to have sex.

Just because you are willing (or you think there is an opportunity) doesn’t mean that your partner is willing under the same conditions.

So as you can see, focusing on finding out what her obstacles is the quickest way to improve your sex life.

And as a result, you will maximize your opportunities to engage in sexual activities.

Many guys have no concept of her personal distractions - the things that make her incapable of having sex.

Jenny may be willing to have sex with you, but not willing to fool around in a messy room (for example).

To maximize your opportunities, you need to REMOVE the obstacles that turn her off and then ADD the things that turn her on.

For example:

It would be a good idea to initiate sex in a clean room.

It would be a better ideal to initiate sex in a clean room with candles or music playing (or whatever turns her on).

This seems painfully obvious (I know), but if you are not getting the amount of sex with her, you are probably not satisfying the “opportunity” part of the formula on some level.

Chances are she has told you to either: dress up, find a babysitter, play music, decorate the room, buy handcuffs, blah blah blah. These are things that create and maximize your opportunity.

Create the opportunity.
Some guys will ask me to help them with their sex life. And I’ll say “Ok, so tell me what’s going on”. And then at some point, he’ll complain about the “lack of available” time.

Him: I work nights and she works mornings. So we only spend 30 minutes together.
Me: Figure out how to maximize your available time. I can show you some psychologically-driven techniques that will definitely increase your sexual desirability, but you have to figure out how to increase the available time.

That’s how it works.

You might have to a new job.
You might have change shifts.
You might quit the part time job, and get a better paying full time job.

Now that you have been exhausted you with the “opportunity” portion, let’s now dive into the perception part of the equation.

Being able to control her perceptions is undoubtedly exciting.

It’s pure 100% fun.

And all it requires is that you get her to have the perception that you are sexually desirable. Your goal isn’t to be the sexiest man on the planet. You just need to be sexually desirable to the female you want to have sex with - at that moment in time.

It doesn’t matter what “a girl in the past has said about you”, as long as ‘the girl that matters” perceives you as sexually desirable, she will be willing to have sex with you.

Especially, when you start mixing in ‘other things’.

You don’t need to memorize scripts.

You don’t need to hypnotize her.

I always teach guys that it’s “All About Perception”.

Think about it.

If you walked up to a random female, starred her in the face, and said: “Look at you. You are a stupid whore!” then in about 1.5 seconds she is going to get the INSTANT PERCEPTION that you are a mean-spirited asshole.

Obviously, I don’t recommend doing this.

The point is “perception” can (and often) changes in a matter of seconds.

Let’s say you wanted a woman to see you as being an asshole, you wouldn’t try to “hypnotize” her first (conversationally or direct).

You wouldn’t do any language patterns.

You wouldn’t attempt to get her in a deep trance first.

Of course not! (LOL)

The same works for getting her to feel that you are sexually desirable.

Chances are she has told you what those ingredients are. Besides, her brain is already wired & programmed to respond to a guy (who is behaving in a sexually desirably manner)…

…just like she’s already programmed to perceive a guy as being an ass when he makes insensitive remarks.

Your job is to keep increasing the intensity of the perception until it reaches the maximum level.

And we’ll refer to this level as the Rock Star Level.

Because all a Rock Star has to do is point to the bed and she’ll jump on it shaking with desire with her panties dripping wet.

When these guys take a woman back stage, they don’t use hypnotic scripts or NLP (I’m not saying those things aren’t ineffective - I’m just making a point.) to get her sexually aroused…

If you are trying to maximize the intensity of her sexual “perception” of you, then you are striving to reach this level (The Rock Star Level).

Let’s examine the elements/ingredients of the Rock Star and see why he has so much Sexual Value.

1. He is adored by many (high demand = high value)
2. He is scarce/rare (hard to get)

The main reason why women go crazy over the Rock Star is because all of the other women
want him - plus he isn’t easily accessible. A lot of his VALUE comes from the fact that he is “hard to obtain”.

So if a female ever gets an opportunity to have sex with the Rock Star (and they are under the assumption that most women do not get this opportunity) they melt!

They lose control.

Humans are conditioned to psychologically assign MORE VALUE to things that are scarce.

So in your world, all you need is for your woman to get the same “combination of elements” that get you the right perception (for starters).

Your Assignment (due tomorrow): Think of what you could do to send the message to
her that you are “rare” and “adored by many”. You don’t really have to be. It’s just a matter of perception.

Take Care my friend…

Peace,
Instructor CR James