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4 Reasons Why Good Girls Cheat

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  1. alpha | Oct 11, 2008 | Reply

    Hi CRJ.Really appreciate your posts.However could you kindly post me a mail attached copy of this book.I think its my browser but i cant seem to be able to download.Thanks in anticipation.

  2. Austin | Dec 20, 2008 | Reply

    Hi,

    This link isn’t working properly!

  3. Everett | Dec 26, 2008 | Reply

    Hi CRJ. Thanks for all of the information that you share about women. I could not pull this one up on “Why Good Girls Cheat”. Could you send it to my email, please. Thanks so much. E

  4. goodthaigirl | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    This is obvious information to me and maybe to others. But it is a very good read and presented well! It should be very helpful to many young men.

    I think it appears you listed in sequential order the weight you could give each bullet point with the last two points being the strongest statements with the last point superceding all others. If I may state its not the loss of confidence that counts so much as what caused the loss of confidence that carries weight and what was the ladies agenda for being in the relationship and what ultimately were the pleasures she derived from it to understand this loss of confidence.

    If they have enough confidence in themselves they can carry a loser and not cheat on him a long time if her morals forbid it..again so long she gets what she needs i.e. power, control out of the relationship.. American women are so disfunctional in the Washington DC area. I got bored with them years ago after acquiring much experience.

    But from my travels to Thailand and interviewing Thai girls from different regions of the country I learned At best you can only make hypothesis based on women you have interviewed for any given region as each geographic location has its own influence on a womans perceptions influences by religion, history, family traditions, education, etc etc. I take it you have performed many interviews and removed as much bias as you can from your experiements. And your not just some bartender who has screwed alot of women and you read alot of crap out of Maxim magizine. If you do have your arms around how American women think then you realize how disfunctional they really are..but

    I guess you wouldn’t sell many books reporting those facts at any rate I do find this article well articulated.. How about a book on Western women dysfunction?

    I would buy that :)

    Thanks for the post I liked it!

  5. alkmbk | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    very amazing, My wife and i have been married 4 15 yers, i did the quiz 4 her, and she scored 71. i think the result was very true & applied very much to her.

    I even found out that she has scored a very low on the self confidence thing,as she is aware of it, that even helped us 2know the week link in wich we both can work on to strengthen it.

    Thank You Mr.CR JAMES

  6. mascara70 | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    I did this test and my girfriend scored a 90. However, she still cheated on me and she confessed to it. I have been debating whether or our relationship will go on. We have both agreed to put the past behind and go back to start.

    However, sometimes it just hits me and I feel angry, I feel like I don’t want to touch her anymore, I want to tell her: I can’t trust you anymore, I never want to see you again. I never cheated on her. However, I did cheat on my ex-girlfriend and I never confessed to it.

    Could this be Karma?

  7. Gonz | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    man, everytime my ex would get mad at me–usually for the stupidest of reasons–she would start talking to her ex-boyfriend. It was surreal. It’s like she would try to hurt me by talking to him. AFter a year and a half, she ended up leaving me for another guy–even before we had broken up.

    Another point: Girls cheat more but they are better at hidding it. And if they do get caught, they are better at getting sympathy from their family and friends. E.g., he wasn’t giving me what I needed, he wasn’t seeing me enough, I was planning on breaking up with him anyway, I was worried about how he would takle the news, I was afraid of lling him, etc.

    Guys may have the advantage of upper-body strength, but girls have the advantage seeming so sweet and innocent and defensless.

  8. Anonymous | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    i cant believe how accurate this was to my situation, my ex girlfriend said i was the world to her and she could never cheat on someone she said she took her purity very seriously and i was her first.

    she cheated on me with a co-worker who is 6 years older then her ew. anyways i ended up rating her at a 46 very accurate.

    never looked at bottom before either.

  9. tash | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    i have a boyfriend i really love very much but lately me and him been having money issues. so i have been cheating on him.because i think it is going to get better but it is not.

  10. D | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Hey CR,

    I was wondering, specifically, what criteria do you use to judge gullibility and will-power? My girlfriend was a great college swimmer, so obviously she has will-power to succeed at that. However, sometimes I wonder whether she could be easily seduced, even though she’s into me. She’s somewhat quiet and a bit shy, really nice and maybe not super-intelligent. She’s also hot. It seems like when she’s in a conversation with other guys, she’s just goes along with whatever they’re saying, even though they’re hitting on her.

    When we spend time together, I’m usually making decisions and she rarely adds her own opinions into our conversations, and is usually ambivalent when I ask for her opinion. When she feels strongly about something, though, she doesn’t cave. She’s a good girl, and I have no reason to think that she’s cheating on me or intends to, but sometimes I wonder if she could be easily seduced. Her job puts her in private situations with a lot of men who I know want her. I don’t want to get seriously involved with someone who would cave to a guy who can really charm her.

    D

  11. Anthony | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Your report on the “four reasons why good girls cheat” is brilliant.

    Having been been cheated on myself, I know everything that is in your report us dead on. I wish I had this a year and half ago. It would have saved me a lot of heartache.

    I could even have taken steps to prevent it from happening…crazy stuff. Thank you.

    -Anthony

  12. Justine | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Hi CR

    Online, I ran into the “The 4 Reasons Why Good Girls Cheat” and I evaluated myself realistically. It’s surprisingly accurate. I can admit to having some issues related to “not wanting to cheat” but have had nagging thoughts about starting a relationship with someone other than my boyfriend of 5 years. I want to find a way to build respect for him and build my confidence back. My boyfriend and I are 28 years old. This is the only long-term relationship I’ve been in (his 2nd) and I want it to work because we love each other deeply. Do you have any suggestions for women in a relationship?

    To sum this up, over the past year I’ve come to realize I need to make some changes because I have lost respect for my boyfriend (for reasons that don’t hold water). I have always seen him as less smart, less charming than myself, etc. but I have learned that he is a greater man than I ever would have imagined. He is loving, kind, patient, sexy and he makes me laugh all the time. It’s been five years but living together for 4 months. He’s told me that he wants to marry me but has not proposed yet.

    Inquisitively,
    Justine S.

    p.s. In addition, I am looking for a way to help my boyfriend become more confident in himself. When he was 18 he was cheated on by his 16 year-old girlfriend, with his best guy friend.–traumatic

    I saw the info. on your SSP book about sexual magnetism. I feel weird asking, but should I buy it for my boyfriend? Do you think that the knowledge will improve our relationship? Or will it just give him super confidence to play the field?

  13. James | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Hi,

    I just got the SSP yesterday.

    What got my attention was your title about “Cheating Wife”.

    I did the test and scored a 44.

    Just this morning at 4AM… I found out my wife is having an affair with my friend.

    She was already having issues with respecting me.

    Will the SSP help me?

    James

  14. Anonymous | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Can someone find the percent of men that cheat? Because I’m pretty sure it’s just as high if not higher.

  15. Anonymous | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    i wish i would have found this site before we had our child….rotten slut

  16. Anonymous | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Amazing…

    wish I would have found this website months ago. My wife was persuaded into an “emotional” relationship that involved everything but sexual intercourse. I found out about it when her cell phone bill came in 480 minutes over the limit! When I confronted her, she couldn’t explain how it happened, knew it was wrong and still wanted to see the guy! She said it was like being on a train that was out of control and she couldn’t get off. I seriously suspect she scores near the bottom of characteristic #1 and #2 and a sweet talking son-of-a-bitch came along and talked her into it. I’m going to give her another try, but scared as hell she’ll do it again.

  17. Zaid | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Thanks for the perfect solution which I read and understood thoroughly but after taking the cheating test I chose not to pursue her …..

    the results were unbelievably bad….probably something that was in front of me the whole time yet i didn’t want to see it.

    Zaid

  18. Instructor CR James | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply

    Oh yeah, the link is fixed - so you can download it directly from the post…It wasn’t working at first… my bad…

    * For computer newbies (using Firefox or IE) type this in your browser:
    http://SuperPowerMedia.com/SuperSeductionPower-4reasons.pdf

    * For AOL Users (using AOL), stop using AOL.

  19. Will | Jan 2, 2009 | Reply

    Wow! I just scored my wife. She came up 17!! Am I lucky or what! Alright!!!

  20. Exotic Filipina | Jan 2, 2009 | Reply

    Thank you for this interesting and useful post. I analyzed some of my personal experiences where I found my gfs cheating on me - and yes, they fit in nicely in the reasoning you given. So, I feel it is better find a strong willed girl who is not gullible and respects you as a person.

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