Hello CR

I was wondering if you would help me with a idea. let me try to explain. I know you take pride in your problem solving ability….I started reading sociology and phsycology books for more understanding of human nature. I was reading a paragraph about how senses trigger memory and there was this side note about a woman who got car sick when she was a kid.

Her mom would give her a hanker chief with perfume on it to hopefully distract her from being sick. the side note went on to say that every time the now grown woman smelled sertin perfumes she got sick.

Damn it would be great to “condition” a women to want to have sex really bad when she smelled tasted seen or heard something.

So how do you do this (I hope I’m not barking up the wrong tree with this idea).

I can’t come up with any idea’s for executing some thing like this. Tell me what you think.. is this why you should make a woman feel good about her self after sex. damn I thought sex was a reward. LOL

Thanks
Jack

hey jack

you are definitely onto something…

i’m actually working on a new product that features what you are talking about, plus a whole lot more…

i’m actually writing about this right now! (LOL)

first of all, you are correct.

that is one of the main reasons why you should make a woman feel good after sex via snuggling, caressing and saying things to make her feel special & valued…(if you really care about her, then this is something that should be natural)

but it’s much more than that…

because when you do that, you essentially train/condition her unconscious mind to associate the “good feelings” with “the act of having sex” … so if she begins to directly crave (or crave on a level below her awareness) the specific “good feelings”, then “her brain” will essentially make her horny…

(if that makes sense)

simply because she has the desire for the feelings, and basically her brain is providing her (biologically - in the form of the horniness) with the path to get those amazing feelings…

it’s kind of like when a particular woman becomes sad and her brain starts to flashes images of chocolate (for example). and also flashes that contain images of her happily eating the tasty chocolate…

and consciously she starts thinking “i’m having an intense craving for chocolate”.

when in fact, her brain is “seducing her” with the images - and the memories and the feelings of how good it tastes…

in an effort to get her to “do whatever it takes” to get those happy good feelings…

her brain (cleverly) seduces her to do the thing that will guarantee that she gets the good stuff…

as a result, she’ll experience the release of ‘happy neurotransmitters’ (i.e “endorphins”) - which creates the feeling of euphoria, ease and relaxation…

result: she doesn’t feel sad any more.

here’s another thing that is important to know:

women experience emotions much differently than guys. guys have an “emotional crayon box” that consists of 8 colors.

women have an “emotional crayon box” filled with over 80,000 colors!

think about that for a second.

because first of all, “the human brain” is a genius (particularly, the unconscious mind)…

it efficiently records patterns and life sequences that are below our natural level of awareness… for example, the brain sees you doing something over and over and thinks “oh this must be important”

then you stop doing it for a while, and suddenly there is an “intense urge” to do it, as a result a “habit pattern” is formed….

so using this understanding, what do you think happens when you condition your loving wife (or girlfriend) with “yummy good feelings” after sex?

(while having an understanding of her emotional complex brain)

in other words, giving her a very specific emotional crayon! (light blue + yellowish green + happy orange + ‘you are amazingly sexy’ RED)

first of all, chocolate will not do the trick (…when her “brain” becomes thirsty for post-sexual good feelings)

a peck on the lips from you will not do the trick (…when her “brain” becomes thirsty for post-sexual good feelings)

Sorry my friend, the peck will not satisfy her…

because guess what her brain knows….

so if you take that kind of approach, then you’ll know that “hugs” and “carrassing” and “loving words” and anything that FEELS GOOD (to that special woman) with also trigger the release of happy brain chemicals…

basically, you should strive to make her feel incredible before, during and after sex… (not just because you want to see her get aroused, btw.

whenever i explain this to some guys, they often forget that they should do this kind of stuff anyway - because they care about her!)

another thing that you can do is something referred to as ’sequential conditioning’ this is one of things that i never really covered before.

if you know about this kind of stuff, then you already know about its effectiveness….

i’ve documented this years ago and then one day i ran across the “baby” version in a $5000 course…

anyway, i’ll give YOU the Adult Version for FREE one of these days…

in fact, let’s make it tomorrow! the subject line in tomorrow’s email will read:

“happy conditioning”

just in case, you just forgot that.

it will read:
“happy conditioning” (LOL)

seriously, i’ll explain to you “sequential conditioning” (my method) and an experiment you can try if you are not sure about the power of a woman’s powerful unconscious mind and her complex 80,000 emotional colors. (by the way, combining the 2 topics is something no one talks about. so you are in for a treat…

take care my friend

warmly
cr james