Emails & Feedback

I created this post to showcase the emails of people who are pleased with the results they got from my advice. It always feels good to know that you are helping guys understand women better so they can have successful (top 1%) relationships or the confidence to meet new women…

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  1. R.R | Reply

    hey cr..

    cool to hear from you – actually bought your slb package a little while ago, but haven’t read it yet – things have been pretty hectic and well, realise there’s always more to learn, but doing pretty damn well with the stuff i’ve learnt from you already.. mate, the funny thing is, it’s really just the norm now – i’m getting kinda used to what to expect from a girl now, and aren’t that surprised when they do ridiculous shit anymore..

    one little story – i know you love em.. on sat night just gone, i had to stay at a co-worker’s family house in order to be at work early next morning. She’s got a hot daughter who i’d met once before, and had given me the ice-queen treatment at that meeting.. i was thinking “perfect”, let the games begin..

    anyway, by the end of dinner she was flirting outrageously – seriously, i was getting embarrassed – in front of both parents and her little sister.. i found out she lives with her boyfriend in sydney – dunno that helped, as I probably pushed her further away and intensified everything. she ended up stealing my number out of her mum’s phone and sending me multiple texts after everyone had gone to bed detailing a) how horny she was and b) what she was doing about it.. this is a prim and proper miss showgirl…

    i think the things that did it were; i semi-ignored her for a while and spent more time talking to her dad, mum and sister.. then when we did finally talk it was kinda obvious she felt like she had to impress.. we did actually develop a pretty cool connection, which i also think she was surprised at

    somehow this swedish girl i’d been seeing came up (seemless dude 😉 and everyone wanted to see a photo of her – yep she’s blonde, blue eyed, 6ft tall and drop dead gorgeous, and in the one photo in my phone she’s looking longingly into the camera with her head against mine while I’m playing the fool with a dickhead look on my face.. it was all i could do not to laugh to watch her internal turmoil as she battled not to let those wonderful feelings of jealousy be totally obvious to everyone around.. there were a couple of other little stories that came up (a client had asked me out last week, and I’d also had to sneak a girl out the side door past this girls mum a few weeks back too.. 😉 – the thing was it was almost like her mum was helping me out – she kept bringing the stories up, and all i had to do was throw in a few details.. 😉

    in terms of where i feel i’ve come through all of your stuff i’ve read and re-read, it’s mainly just through approaching it more as a game, and i’m really starting to know the rules and how the game goes now, instinctively even.. it’s like all those little signals (the arcade sounds) just get ticked off as we go, and i’m kinda a few steps ahead most of the time… although all women are different, they are, as you’ve said, all very predictable in their responses to certain stimulai – i guess I was surprised at first when even hot, intelligent, high-self-esteem, savvy girls went just the same way as young, impressionable ones.. they’re maybe a little better at hiding things (ie more sublte), and maybe they hold out a bit longer before they throw their game away and join in with yours..

    anyway, thanks again for everything so far – you definitely gave me some tools to effectively work through an incredibly difficult period of my life through separating with my wife and best friend of 13 years (which at 31 is a fucking long time 😉 and now on with having some fun and meeting heaps of new people.. The best thing is i’m aware of lots of the things that went wrong in our relationship and feel pretty safe in the knowledge that they’ll never happen again
    so there’ll be other challenges, but it’s a good feeling.

    take care

  2. "Joe" | Reply

    First thanks for your knowledge. You’re the pro-master! (I’ve been enjoying these techniques like crazy you won’t believe if i told you.)

    I made love to a female real estate salesman when I sought a home for my friend, [we made love] in an empty apartment we were visiting!

    [The] good thing is that so far I was enjoying [the Super Seduction Power tactics] selfishly, uninformedly, but now girls are really mad over me that I don’t make any call. — new girls out of nowhere I stumble into, they just love it 😉

    I’m like james fu**ing bond now!

    That’s right where my problem is. This is not a testimony letter.

    You see my uncle’s wife is drawn to me so badly.

    I only know it and her, I don’t know how the hell I seduced her but it was NEVER a deliberate act.

    Now I want to anti-seduce her, I don’t know I want to avoid it. This is very un-good, it’s not [good according to] my beliefs. This is bad.

    My uncle and his family live with us I don’t know why. They already got a beautiful house, fully furnished in this city, but since he has moved to this city he has not moved to that house.

    And I do travel much, but some times I stay with my parents in this house, it’s a hard time for me.

    Please give your help.


  3. Forrest | Reply

    Well I probably did ask how do I become irresistible to women but now it’s no longer a question I have because I have enhanced my ability to approach and converse with females tremendously.

    Well thanks for everything


  4. Tom | Reply

    Thank you so much! You have made me more successful in my relationship, you are one smart dude =D! Thank you for these reports, they are awesome!!!

  5. Darrell | Reply

    Dear CRJ:

    I have read you book and really my objective was to relate better with the opposite sex whom I always had a phobia for, for no reason. My emotions was having the best of me whenever I was in company of females. Well your advice works like magic. I now have the confidence like you. i have used the seduction principles so much so that it is part of my whole appproach in communication. I have improved my relationship with my wife too. (22 years of marriage).

    Recently I joined a new company where I already have the women going crazy over me because of the magic formula of CCCE. Like I said I just use it all the time. The thing is, I have created such attraction in one of these women to the extent that she has responded to me in such a way that she is virtually stalking me now. She is a nice girl, although married like myself, and I responded by going out with her a couple of times. I tried many times to give her the gift of missing me, but this as you know intensifies her responses a great deal. She always calls and email me, saying how she missed me.

    The one thing however, is that she is afraid to go to the next level, because of her present situation, the office and being married. Well I have worked on her quite admirable, although the results are slow to come by, going to the next level.

    Should I give her more time?

  6. Ray | Reply

    “CR James

    Thank you for your material! Your tecniquis have already given me amazing progress! I actually have had two different girls (an 8 and a 9) come up to me and say there was something different they liked about me but didn’t know what it was. If I wasn’t using your material to try and save my marriage I would be out dating hot babes right now instead of emailing you.

    Thank you for being one of the few guys out there that help men find the knowledge they really need to build a happy balanced relationship.

    Your material more than pays for itself in the first day.

    My self confidence has sky rocketed 200%!!!

  7. Jason E. | Reply


    I have joined and downloaded a number of your essays. They are very interesting and the little I have been able to use, well thought out and very applicable. Just the simple act of [doing something in SSP] have had interesting results-making her much more aggressive and determined to pleasure me-so I know what you write is dead on.

  8. RW | Reply

    Hi, CR

    Thanks for getting back with me. I understand that you must get hundreds of emails from men and women just like me who are turning their relationships around.

    Without a doubt, I can tell that I have built back up that attraction that we had when we were first together.

    Things are better sexually than ever before and neither of us continue to be frustrated with this matter.

    I want to THANK YOU with the utmost sincerity and tell you that I don’t want to think about where I (and my marriage) would be without your knowledge and taking the time to write it down.

    I continue to look forward and I wait with great anticipation for each new email that you send.


  9. MP | Reply

    I am a huge fan of yours. Your information is really great.

    The book was downloaded and stored to the hard drive on my laptop.

    I’m also interested in additional materials that I can read to improve my skills even more.

    Thanks to you I am in a relationship with a smart, beautiful nurse.

    Keep up the great work.


  10. TL | Reply

    Your customer service and prolific writing continue to amaze me.
    I am now using your writings to reestablish
    a dynamic sexual relationship with my wife.


    The Lord works in mysterious ways.


  11. KJ | Reply

    Hi CR,

    Thank you for the generous gift of your book.

    As an active lesbian/bisexual, I incorporate your strategies into my sexual interactions with both men and women — and quite successfully I must say (without bragging).

    Sexual confidence truly is the key!

    You are a very gifted writer, able to express truths in a down-to-earth-no-bullshit way. I like that very much, and encourage you to continue telling it like it is.


  12. GB | Reply

    Hey man seriously you are an outstanding individual… I’m not an ass kisser or anything but you are the coolest buisness man I’ve ever dealt with. You answer quickly and really know what your talking about I’m actually trying to pursure a career in the internet field and I truly look up to you and how you conduct your buisness.

    I’ve never met any so called guru of anything that has responded so quickly to a customer, it’s unbelivevable..

    You are a good guy and I hope to do buisness with you in the near
    future and I will get every product you come out with as long as I have money!

    I thank you for all your help I honestly didn’t expect nothing from you and you showed how much you are dedicated to helping others and that’s more than I can say about any other guru.


    Well Sincerely

  13. Julian | Reply

    Hi CR James,

    I have to admit the transformation in me was almost instant after reading some of your e-books, especially super seduction power. It was like a revelation.

    I wish I got all this info 20 years ago.

    < < BEFORE >>

    It’s funny, I went on a date with very attractive girl before I read your book and when I called her back next day she said to me that I am a very nice guy but we can be only friends.

    < < AFTER >>

    Next day, I bought your e-books and read some of them thoroughly in two days.

    After that I invited her on a date again and applied all this stuff I learned from your book.

    She became drawn to me, dropped her boyfriend and now I am her new boyfriend.

    It was magic.

    By the way, I live in US but I am originally from Russia and for years had this stupid idea to attract American girls which has never worked. I was intentionally ignoring Russian girls that live in US. I wasted so much time on this stupid idea that I finally became total sissy after hundreds of rejections.

    Your book completely snapped me out of “tranced” condition and I am back to the younger confident myself. Now I have a policy though: no more American girls and I will be dating only Russian girls.

    Thank you man!

  14. Miss "J" | Reply

    Hello CR James,

    Very fascinating that you understand so well how a woman works I have a suspicion you are a woman or have been one before! 🙂

    I am a therapist and your material has been very beneficial to my clients but I need help too!!

    In a relationship that goes through some difficulty where the man then loses his sexual value, do you think he is able to regain it? Yes I am talking aboutmy relationship.

    I seem to have so much of power over him that i sometimes find him pathetic.

    I am generally horny but I stop myself from giving in to his advances.

    Miss “J”
    Professional Therapist

  15. Jay | Reply

    Here’s my story for those who don’t believe this works.

    I never wrote a testimonial till now!

    I’m single and was looking at seduction methods hoping to improve my chances of meeting more women as well as getting more sex. When you are 39 it doesn’t happen often.

    I decided to try your methods on my next date.

    I only read the course once and was really HALF ASS applying your methods.

    Date 1: I laid some easy ground work.
    Date 2: She’s more than interested she wants some but I decided to build more points just a little more to see what happens, well by….
    Date 3: I was EMBARRASSED as we were in public.

    She was all over me!

    …so much so that we had to leave 20 minutes into the date back to my place of course…

    once in the door she’s on the couch NAKED!

    …and well you can guess the rest.

    If I had video of this hot blonde basically trying to have sex in a public place …you would swear it was staged…

    That’s how crazy she was for me. I just wanted to say thank you CR James as it’s been a long time since any woman has wanted me that bad…

    and getting her so hot that she initiated everything was great for the both of us.

    I’m gonna reread the course and study it more this time. It’s almost scary but in a good way.


    Thank you, Jay

  16. WD | Reply

    Hey CR I honestly cannot thank you enough, you are a genius!

    If anyone has any doubts about your work, they need their head testing!!!!



  17. "DC" | Reply

    Hello, I have recently separated from my wife and sex was an issue not very long after we were married, and got progressively worse after she had children.

    I put her lack of interest down to the children and my job, which was unusual hours. All these factors put a strain on our relationship. I truly believed that she was just not interested in that aspect of marriage and she also made comments to suggest that she thought that was the case.

    Now after reading your book, which I completed in one evening, I now understand what was going on.

    In many sections you describe our relationship perfectly.

    You are very perceptive.

    Although my marriage is now over, I am glad I found your website.

    I will take the information forward into another relationship and make the effort to make it work. I just now need to get another woman.

    Once again thank you for enlightening me about the way a woman’s mind works.

    Regard S

  18. Pete | Reply

    Hi James,

    I have finished the book and I have to say it has been an awakening experience.

    Ive made modest changes in how I view things and I have seen modest changes in our relationship.

    I’m determined to make this work and become a better person in the process.

  19. W.L. | Reply

    Hi James,

    Thanks for your beautiful insight about how the mind works.

    It’s like you hypnotize a woman with her eyes wide open….Man you’re just great.


  20. Ronald | Reply

    Hi CR James

    You are wonderful….

    In fact early that I saw your book advertisement I didn’t believe it, but after awhile I began to read your emails, at first it seems to be ridiculous for me because they are so simple but when it worked, I wondered that they are absolutely practical, something that I call “real life teaching”.

    so I decide to buy your book as soon as possible, but there is a problem, I live in Iran and not one of Iranian bank give credit card, master card or something look like that, so what should I do?

    I decide to mail you a check, but you know Iranian banks, relations with other banks, especially United States, was cut after religious revolution, and I decide to go in other country to get master card or credit card or something like that but you know in Iran we have to pass soldering period “time that we should work freely for forcesses” to get allowed to go out of country.

    In fact your book [and things like that] is forbidden in Iran because of religious government, and the only way that I could learn this kind of life is by your ebook, something that will change my life.

    Could you tell me how to get your ebook????

    Thank You
    Ali E. Student of Tehran University Iran


  21. N | Reply

    Now I I hadn’t seen anything from you for a while so I decided to send a status report along with a request for your advice. I purchased your book a while back and have read it clear though and am working on my second time through for a more in depth study.

    SUCCESSES: My most recent successes were this last weekend. My wife and I have started dating more and this past Friday we went out for another great evening out.

    After [doing an SSP technique] for the evening she surprised me with some driving distraction (hasn’t happened since before we were married) before getting home and continuing with a great evening in bed.

    Saturday I took the kids to my folks house and returned home in the evening in time to go to our periodic trip to the local dinner theatre.I continued in my real man role including [doing the tips in SSP].

    When we got home, I thought that even though she is seldom ready for sex two nights in a row, I’d give it a try. After working for a while to get her in the mood…. I started to step things up a bit.

    She immediately stated that her “interest level was pretty low right now”. I told her “[something mentioned in Super Seduction Power].”

    With that, I immediately [did something powerful that is mentioned in Super Seduction Power].

    In less than a minute, she is rubbing me and trying to increase my interest level!

    We soon we’re at it and ended with her having a great [vaginal]-orgasm (which are infrequent but happening more).

    Thank you for your time and help…..


  22. Lenny | Reply

    CR, I knew some of this stuff when I was in high school and never had any problems getting women. Then I got married and got comfortable & mentally lazy and it went predictably downhill. We stayed together and still loved each other and all that stuff but our dynamic of being together and our sex life had problems. I knew she was pretty bored with me even though she was staying.

    She had total control of our lives and my lazy self was comfortable with that even though I knew it was taxing on her. Lazy like I said.

    She’s a great woman and I wanted to make things better for her and make her happy again but I lost touch and didn’t know how to do it. Went searching the internet and found your stuff….

    Whoa. :>),

    I eased into it, digesting it and bettering myself first, gaining sexual value with her, using your techniques and whoa. I got her on the run, thinking differently, asking me what happened to me, and loving it.

    She craves me now, chases me, and is happier lately than she’s been in years.

    Sex is better than it has been in years and I don’t even approach her for sex since going through your material,

    she has been (attacking) me lately and doing things she’s never done before!

    Yum Yum!!

    I hope you get rich selling this material.

    You helped us somuch and I got my mind back on track. Thanks a bunch

    (Don’t print my name guy, please) She’s all over the net and if she clued in on where my change came from, she’d react negatively to it.

    Thanks again

  23. CK | Reply

    Thanks CR!

    After 6 months without, she has said yes for this weekend!


  24. Matt | Reply

    cr, keep up the good work everyone.

    I’ve read over your material 4 times, it’s a real struggle for me But the changes are slowly happening. Ccce = super charisma is a good one for me.

    It’ll take a long time before I can understand and master the material because i feel like a special student when it comes to females. again I would like to say” keep up the good work.”

    special student a.k.a. Matt

  25. R.D. | Reply

    Thank you very much CR James!

    Who would have ever figured out all the things I was doing wrong in my relationship with my wife!

    I had become the ultimate “man of desperation”! I had actually lost a part of my own identity trying to constantly please my wife! The first time I finally [did something simple and powerful] she sat up and looked at me as if I was crazy for having said it!

    Now she is starting to take notice of me…

    now she is constantly holding onto my arm or holding hands with me when walking out in public! You have to understand, we were destined for divorce within another six months until I started practicing your techniques. What a turn aroundmywife has done!

    She is actually starting to get aggressivewithme sexually in bed at night! She will strip down and then demand I come to bed naked too!

    Then she starts to rub her naked body all over me, kissing me and telling me how much she loves me! I know I have a lot to learn still and I have to make sure I don’t fall into any pitfalls, but if this is any indication of where we are going…

    then I had better hang on tight!

    Thank you once again CR James without your techniques I doubt I would ever have enjoyed what my wife is giving me now!

    The proof is in the pudding! The attachment is just a little taste of my wife’s dessert!


  26. GW | Reply

    Mr. CR James,

    I recently purchased your info and…

    …after one week I can see big improvements in how my wife and I are with each other.

    The help you have given me is immeasurable.

    Thank you!


  27. S.H. | Reply

    Hi CR,

    I have read half of this ebook and already my mouth is dropping open just because everything I have been doing and done with my significant and obviously past relationships was wrong and obviously unsuccessful.

    I realized that I am an EH.

    I read that list of traits within the EH profile and it was me to a T almost.

    Thank you again!

  28. josef | Reply

    Hi CR what’s up my friend.

    [The surprise report that was sent exclusively to customers of Super Seduction Power] was the highlight of my week last week.

    It is THE BOMB!!

    I’m still digesting it because I think it has so much that I cannot get it all at once. I noticed though similarities with ????? but in a different more covert way and in a way it has never been explained in NLP.

    Open ???? and fill in the vacuum with information which otherwise may not be as accepted but this time it’s swallowed whole (no pun intended LOL) I’m writing also to ask about the ????? Report.

    I’m sure you put it in to get people’s attention and not forgotten it, since I never received it or saw it anywhere.

    Can I have it?? I’ll give you 250 seduction master points for it ;P I’ve had trouble with your material in terms of using it mostly because I haven’t digested it to a level where I can create my own seduction formulas.

    Do you think that if I wrote stuff down it would help me use it more? [YES] Thanks again.

  29. Earl | Reply

    Hi CR, The circle is complete.

    When I first bought [your product] about a month ago it gave me the power to talk to women and touch them with words. Everything is easy now. It is fun to inspire beautiful girls in a natural way. The only thing is I am too busy to set up a date.

    I am always driving taxi and have no time to rest much less spend half an hour or an hour talking to girls. Yet in the five minutes or so they sit in my car I’ve had the opportunity several times to get numbers but what’s the rush, let me enjoy watching them squirm a little bit. I now have [Super Seduction Power] and at this point in my life I have saved enough cash to retire.

    I am 31.

    You are the best teacher I have ever had.

  30. Forrest | Reply

    Well I probably did ask how do I become irresistible to women but now it’s no longer a question I have because I have enhanced my ability to approach and converse with females tremendously. Well thanks for everything


  31. Gabe | Reply

    Hey, your advice has been really helpful.

  32. EP | Reply

    Thank you so much!

    You have made me more successful in my relationship, you are one smart dude =D!

    Thank you for these reports,
    they are awesome!!!

  33. VB | Reply

    Cheers mate. You’re a star.
    Revolutionised my marriage too!

  34. YH | Reply

    Dear CRJ: I have read you book and really my objective was to relate better with the opposite sex whom I always had a phobia for, for no reason. My emotions were having the best of me whenever I was in company of females.

    Well your advice works like magic.

    I now have the confidence like you. i have used the seduction principles so much so that it is part of my whole approach in communication. I have improved my relationship with my wife too. (22 years of marriage).

    Recently I joined a new company where I already have the women going crazy over me because of the magic formula of CCCE. Like I said I just use it all the time.

    The thing is, I have created such attraction in one of these women to the extent that she has responded to me in such a way…

    … that she is virtually stalking me now.

  35. Jason | Reply

    “CR James Thank you for your material!

    Your techniques have already given me amazing progress! I actually have had two different girls (an 8 and a 9) come up tome and say there was something different they liked about me but didn’t know what it was.

    If I wasn’t using your material to try and save mymarriage I would be out dating hot babes right now instead of emailing you.

    Thank you for being one of the few guys out there that help men find the knowledge they really need to build a happy balanced relationship. Your material more than pays for itself in the first day. My self confidence has sky rocketed 200%!!!

    You’re a life saver,

  36. Walter | Reply

    Dear Mr. James,

    I just have to write and tell you something.

    You have changed my life. Let me explain. I am a good looking, physically fit, successful, 37 year old man. I have no trouble meeting women. But after 11 years of friendship I came to realize that I could never settle down with any woman because I would always compare them tomy best friend.

    She is a beautiful, successful woman, who I have a strong connection to. For years our friends wondered out loud how come we didn’t date. Part of it was because I was to busy nailing everything that crossed my path. I love chasing pussy but have no tolerance for commitment.

    But over the past two years I tried to get involved with a couple of women, but my best friend kept ruining them by coming on to me. But then after I ditched the other girl she would back a way. Then a couple of months ago she started coming on to me again, this time because several of the girls in our group started really coming on to me. So we started messing around again.

    Then she backed off again. This I really when I realized that we would actually make a great couple. I was so mad at her for messing with me I did a google search for “turning friends into lovers”. That is how I found you. I was at the end of my rope but after some hesitation I bought your materials.

    Thank you thank you thank you, Mr. James.

    We are now exclusively dating each other and we both are very happy. And, I just bought your new reports from the tree portal, and we just had the best sex ever! She came on to me so hard, it was so out of her character. But I just followed your techniques and they worked like a charm. It is amazing how I do the things you suggest wondering “is this really going to work” then I get the results just as you say.

    I hope you have much success with your program, because I will be looking for your info for years to come. I used to wonder if I could make her want me, now I wonder if she is ready to do back flips in bed yet, because using your technique, she is going to do them willingly.

    By the way, any guy that doesn’t have the balls to purchase your stuff I say to them, Good. Because now if I get bored with my new girl, I will have no trouble finding a replacement and the less guys that know how to satisfy their women the easier it will be for me.

    So glad I found you and had the balls to purchase.

    If all those guys looking for miss right at these on line dating services would just spend 1 month enrollment fee on your books, they would never have to waste a dime on those dating sites. Good for you Mr. James. But better for us.

    Thanks Again. I look forward to your new books. You better e-mail me any time you write something new.

  37. T | Reply

    Keep up the good work! It’s been keepingme and the Mrs very happy 😉 Little does she know …


  38. RC | Reply

    HI CR, Just a short note to tell you thanks for taking your time to create this great resource (super seduction power). I have had more sex in the past month than I have in the past year.

    I would and will recommend it to anyone. I have at least one friend who has worse sexual value problems than I ever had so as soon as it is appropriate I will recommend to him your e-book. I tried [one of the “controversial” and “gutsy” SSP techniques] I have to tell you that I almost chickened out and bailed on the entire process.

    Everything within me said I was doing the wrong thing and I should have done things differently.

    Anyway I stuck to my guns and came home early today when I knew she would be home alone (no kids). I started talking to her [and doing something very powerful] and as soon as I put my hands on her and started kissing her she immediately began rapidly undressing me and grabbing my crotch.

    Shewas so HOT!

    We had sex right there in the kitchen and after a couple of violent orgasms I carried her into the bedroom for another 30 minutes of wild sex.

    I was totally in control and she was loving it.

    I know she had more orgasms than she ever had in 20 years of marriage! For 20 years we did not know what we were missing. Well I better go now because she just got home and she does not need to see this email.

    Thanks again,

  39. Instructor CR James | Reply

    incredible RC!

    you actually reminded me of something that i haven’t taught or placed a lot if emphasis on and that is ‘sticking to your guns’ (as you put it)…

    I’ll be definitely using your story as inspiration for others… because many guys will bail out when things start to feel uncomfortable… “And true growth takes place when you operate outside of your comfort zone”

    i forgot who said that, but i always thought that it was a powerful quote…

    At any rate, it was the ‘mindstate’ for you that allowed you to get her hot and steamy …

    and from your email, it seems like she was horny as hell.. .lol good luck…

    here’s a ‘customer only’ report for you, not sure if you ever got it before… (but if not, here it is)

    [link removed]

  40. RC | Reply

    Thank you again CR.

    I did not have the report but now it is in my permanent library.

    PS. I really think my wife is happier because of the things I am doing. No Guilty Guy here. LOL

  41. Eric | Reply



    I just wanted to mail you and let you know how much I enjoy reading you tips and Ideas. I have one problem though.

    She’s on to me !!!! She found all the tips and downloads on my computer and read through the files and information and now all my hard work and `smiley face` have just blown up in my face.

    I am trying to do some damage control but she is so totally suspicious of everything I say….

    Help man help!!!

    She thinks I wasted money on a book that teaches me how to fuck other women (and it does he he he ) but she missed the point about making your marriage a better one!

    You must have mentioned it at least one hundred times in your reports, but she didn’t seem to get it.

    I really am intrigued with your stuff, but if I don’t find a way to turn this situation around, it’s gonna be a long cold winter in the dog house.

    What would you do in this situation?

  42. Instructor CR James | Reply

    actually it’s not that bad – at least i don’t think so. lol.. in fact i’ve been waiting for this to happen. and finally it did… (at least it’s the first time someone has reported this to me)…

    i think her reaction determines what steps you need to take… so how exactly did she respond? what did she say? the idea that she thinks you might be saying something to turn her on isn’t a bad thing…

    as you can imagine, my fiancé is totally suspicious of everything I say… so use it to your advantage…

    but in order to do that, it’s a matter of guiding her perception — or helping her see it as a good thing…

    i tend to think it should be an “easy sell” – especially since many women have purchased Super Seduction Power for their husbands…

    but some women don’t “get it” – and to help them get it – it’s best to analyze their emotional response…

    PS – you do know that you’re not supposed to put your “SSP.pdf” (and other files) in your “My Documents” folder! lol.

  43. K.P. | Reply

    Mr. CR James,

    I recently purchased your info and after one week I can see big improvements in how my wife and I are with each other.

    It remains to be seen when things will change for good.

    The help you have given me is immeasurable.

    I knew that what you are saying was inside of me all along, but you have helped bring it out.

    Thank you!

  44. DK | Reply

    Mr. CR James, I sent a message to the “opinions@ etc…”, but I just saw this email address and decided to write to it.

    I have a question or two and I have questions come up when I am reading your material. I have found what you have to say is to the utmost truth and I can now say that I am a totally new person thanks to you!

    You will single-handedly help me turn my marriage around! If you will email me back I would appreciate it. There are a few more things that will help me advance even further. Thank you for all you have done and I look forward to hearing from you.

    Thank you,

  45. Lenny | Reply

    Hey… I have read through a lot of your stuff and I think it is very solid and it is the most intelligent and balanced and logical advice I have read so far.

    I just got out of a relationship because it lost its flair mainly because I was too much of a PUSSY and when I realized it I became too much of a DICKHEAD.

    I followed it up with the same formula right after with the next relationship. At the end of your main book you start to directly address a balance act under your section about MFM + GF = [??????].

    Basically if your formula were a ride it would be a straight line right in the sweet spot in a perfect location.

  46. Ms. J | Reply

    Hi James, Thanks for giving me the time.

    It is a new relationship. ..7 months. At first the attraction was his principles. I had come out of a relationship where my man was unfaithful to me (even though the sex was the greatest ever!! He has this idea that God has given him this gift to satisfy women and so he must! he is a natural to all that you are talking about)

    Anyway the attraction with this other was that I felt for once I did not have to keep tracking him. He is Italian and struggles with English. Some times I think he is stupid!

    The attraction is wearing thin.

    He does not stimulate me mentally! He can have erections after erections immediately one after another (ok I admit that was an attraction too but the point is I feel angry with him and don’t want to have sex with him although I am craving for a good one!

    Then I think about my ex! I want this relationship to work because Mr Italian loves me to bits and he is a good man.

    What is the point of being with an sexciting person who is going to let me down? Society has changed and it is difficult to build a future with someone on shaky foundations.

    I have tried helping Mr Italian by telling him about the things you discuss but……………… argh!!!!

    (maybe we could translate your works into Italian)

    Now he does not try to have sex with me because he respects me too much!

    But it scares me that my body is screaming for sex but not with him!

    I want this to change………… don’t I?

    Or maybe I should not play it so save and take the risk of being hurt yet again?

    I am 43 and still very attractive and look like a 30 (lucky me) but I want to settle and have a child.

    Time is running out. I am at the moment even thinking of being unfaithful!!(disgusted with myself)

    I am prepared to hang in here if he is able to regain his sexual value.


    Ms. J

  47. NW | Reply

    Hey CR,

    Thanks for the great essay on ‘smiley face’!! I’m about 1/2 way through it and can see how it can not only be fun, but like you say, powerful. I remember that girls like fun things too.

    I might [use it] for the women at work! Maybe eventually women I don’t usually talk to will come up to me and want to [do something “magical”] that would be crazy.

  48. Steve | Reply

    Hello CR, wanted to write an email. As you already know I have told youmany times before your system works and it works well, It’s like magic. Short story well sort of so sit back and deal with it.

    All kidding aside I have used your methods recently with great success, I have personally emailed CR asking him how to handle the girlfriend that THINKS she wants to date again. Well CR I did exactly as you suggested.

    She never brought it up but I did. Longer story shorter, well most cases she would call me ask me to come over and spend the night, so she started with the testing method by saying [something] can’t explain what’s going on I’ll put it in email, I said listen if you think you need to date go ahead and date maybe we’ll both find other interests that are better for us, maybe this relationship isn’t for me, maybe us isn’t for you.

    Well this 1 night I didn’t confirm nor deny I was going out with the guys I was actually just tired she called and text me about 4 times thinking something was wrong with our relationship, I have no problems having sex with her because I use your methods and create that sexual tension not the minute were in bed but all day…

    I [do something powerful] and she gets to the point where she tries to get me to [have] sex…

    I make her crave it until she is begging.

    Anyway I use this technique the same way I do when we are out or hanging out at home I make her crave me I give her a little than take away create excitement.

    Well CR she has 3 female roommates 3 now you know I use this to my advantage without it being obvious because only a fool would flirt with his girlfriends roommates but I still do little things like eye contact, confidence, compassion and being funny with every 1 of her roommates.

    Women can sense competition, women feel and know if her friends are drawn to a guy or not She knows her friends think I’m an outgoing confident guy with a personality.

    But most important CR I learned to be a man who thinks in his mind he has great sexual value I don’t do shit to please her I do shit to please myself. We were all supposed to go to a concert Thursday well my girlfriend can’t make it so she said I can’t go do you wanna go?

    Knowing quite well she’s not about to have her boyfriend go to a concert with 3 of her girls who think he’s a great catch, So I said yea I’m still going, guess what CR she found a way to go. Jealousy can work to your advantage as long as she doesn’t get crazy.

    I also told her I don’t NEED another needy woman I want a woman to want me. Plenty of needy woman in this world and I had my fair share already. It’s not what I said it’s how I said it I told her what I want without being a prick or to pushy.

    Laid back and mellow.Well thanks hard to explain so GUY GOTTA GET THE DAMN EBOOKS READ THEM AND TRY THEM.


    thanks man

  49. M | Reply

    Guys learns a trick to take a “proactive role” Hi CR I think the major thing in terms of getting more positive responses has been discovering who I am again and being pretty bloody happy about what I’ve found.

    As a result it’s definitely a case now of [doing something powerful] I think there’s probably not much I’m doing that’s extra special – I have used just about all your basic ideas in some way (yet to really explore the mind state ideas further and the stuff from your Lust Signals reports (which was unreal, but need to re-read it all)

    One thing I have consciously done, and worked to develop the habit of [doing something powerful]… I try to do this while they are still showing lots of interest.. then to come back This seems to give them more incentive to take on a proactive role, which then means I can get a bit more nonchalant about the whole process – that then seems to kick them up another notch in terms of their interest. anyway, thanks again didn’t get the smiley face tech report, but def interested


  50. P.K. | Reply

    CR, A complete turn-around of personality is not the easiest thing to accomplish; much like trying to quit smoking cold turkey. In the past 2 weeks since I have read your book I can tell a big difference in myself and the way I act.

    However, at certain times I can tell myself slipping slightly back to my old personality. This is nothing major, but the second after an “old personality trait” comes out, I quickly make a mental note of it and focus on not letting it happen again.

    I have reread your book 2 or 3 times now and I use it as a reference when I need reminding of proper ways to change. Now, as YOU were going through your transformation I’m sure that at least once you found yourself going back to your old “geeky” self (I think that’s how you referred to it in your book).

    Question: What did you focus on when you had moments like this? Anything specific? You didn’t have this book to reference back to at times. At times I’ll just walk into the house and mentally [do something powerful]”.

    I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your feedback!

  51. Brad | Reply

    Hi CR, I have read half of this ebook and already my mouth is dropping open just because everything I have been doing and done with my significant and obviously past relationships was wrong and obviously unsuccessful. I realized that I am an EH.

    I read that list of traits within the EH profile and it was me to a T almost. I grew up with 4 sisters and a mom and have always related to women well except in boyfriend girlfriend situations and any relationships I have had they’ve always ended sort of quickly or before they really get started.

    I am then left in the dust and they generally move onto their next “jerk” and in some cases they return to me to cut my guts out and complain about the loser they just dated. The pain of that sort of situation caused me to stop that scenario from happening again.

    I understand now the concept of my own Sexual Value and I have begun working on improving it just by [doing something mentioned in Super Seduction Power] you provided.

    I know I have a ways to go but I am the EH guy. I think it has a lot to do with [different things].

    Thank you again!

  52. Larry | Reply

    CR James Thankssss alott man!!! for real…

    I dunno if you remember me or not..but a long time ago I asked your help when I broke up with my g/f …

    You sent me an email with 3 pages…

    I TRULY APPRECIATE IT. It worked!!!!

    Thanks again man..
    You’re a remarkable guy….

  53. L | Reply

    First let me tell you that I really enjoy your emails. Although I’m happily married now for 11.5 years, I’ve always been intrigued by the dynamics of attraction and repulsion so I read on.

    Also, I like to keep up with new ideas and keep hubby interested and challenged. I found your site by accident while looking for info for a friend who was trying to get his new GF to dump him (a bit wishy washy, he hates to be the one to end it and watching his relationships in their deathrows can be agonizing.) Anyway, I read your ????? report and this is a sick sick sick situation.

    Poor guy probably thinks if he is nicer she will eventually respond to him, or is equally in denial that he is still married in any meaningful way at all.

    Also illustrates beautifully how some people are attracted by the very behaviors they claim to be hurt by. Sue seems as if she can only be happy with someone’s boot pressing into her neck. She lays down in front of a door and writes “Welcome” on her stomach. Perceptions go so much further. Look at a pencil. From the side, it is a line, from the end, it is a pink rubber circle, from the point it is 2 concentric circles, this is just a pencil, how much more complex is an interaction between 2 human hearts. “A woman without her man is nothing.” A woman without her man, is nothing A woman – without her, man is nothing. If our language is so imprecise that 7 words in the same order can have opposingmeanings, how much more so complex issues of the heart. If you choose to perceive every slight and insensitivity as a ‘punishment’ for something you did that was ‘bad’, if you imagine nefarious

    motives for even acts of kindness, then you are your masochist’s own sadist. If your lover tells you that you are beautiful and you choose to interpret this as saying that you are dim-witted, then you are choosing to abuse yourself. How does the dynamic of the story change if when he said that she was beautiful, and with a flip or her hair and the wink of her eye she laughed and smiling, purred back, “and brilliant too” landing a bit wet one just under his ear. Had he responded that he loved her for her intelligence, she would have surely interpreted this as him saying that she was unattractive.

    But you have a point when you speak with her, if she is unhappy, she is free to leave.When he is dragging her through a crowd she is free to drop his hand, walk away, and leave. Go to a movie, take a taxi or bus home, etc. She chooses to be with this person. Not that there are no true psychopaths who would hunt down an ex-lover, or people who find themselves legally bound to spiritual vampires, but Nobody can treat you like a doormat if you don’t lay in front of a door. Likewise for him, dating a woman who thinks you are an awful boyfriend is also a form of masochism. Often women find they can control their men by setting unrealistic standards for romance, support, chivalry, etc. and then rubbing their noses in it when they fall short. This can also be abusive and degrading to someone’s self esteem.

    It works both ways. People seek out and are attracted to what they feel in their deepest soul that they deserve. If you feel you really deserve someone who is wonderfully loving and a great mate in almost every way, then you will find one. If you feel that you do not deserve to be loved and cherished but abused and emotionally brutalized, then you can find that too. Often in the same person. Sue is a great example. She also (if she is a real person) needs a really good therapist. Thank you again for your newsletter and a really great example.


  54. David | Reply

    Dear CR James,

    Yesterday I downloaded the 163 page booklet and I am going through it now. So far your book is enlightening, as I, despite having success with women over many years did and still do not know, exactly how the buttons get pushed and how to [get women horny]. I believe that the information will be revealing, I see almost everyday, how guys blow themselves up, trying to over analyse or compliment a female, but your descriptive prose is so far enlightening, I have almost read it in its entirety and wanted to see the extras as well.

    With Kind Regards,

  55. Saul | Reply

    Waaassaaap… hehe, How’ve you been?

    No offense on ya memory but I’m the fella who was working to get his ex back… I figure you’re a busy bee and prolly forgot exactly who I was… Well I have made much progress and yet still find new angles as I study ur books over and over..

    In terms of the ex we have made progress as friends and a portion of that has been flirtatious.. She wants to see me on thursday and I’m thinking of putting the breaks on her by giving her a not so easy time and pushing some lust buttons hehe..

    I’m patient but its been 2 yrs since we’ve had any physical contact and I believe she might be boiling for some affection from me.. or so it seems. I have slain 3 other women and I’ve met a 4th older woman who wants casual sex and wants to take me on her motorcycle for some fun this saturday, plus she’s professional and has doe and likes to share it she says hehe… lets see how that goes..

    I let go of my perfect picture of my ex getting back with me unmarked like some nice movie.. I know shit happens and maybe its really over but this time I see how I’m the prize and how shes losing out…

    well on my way to work so I’ll fill you in with more soon..

    Love, piece, and alot of G’s…

    Ill be in touch, Thanx CR,

  56. BK | Reply

    your material is the best I have ever read – and I have read A LOT!!

  57. S. from Texas | Reply

    I have been trying to hook up with my LJBF for months.

    When she would be over at my house and I received a phone call, I would quickly end the call by saying [something], letting her know she was special.. .right? Well, I got fed up with the lets just be friends routine and started [doing something effective] . Yesterday she called me and I pulled the same thing on her….

    CR, you said in the report to look for a change?

    When I went to her house this morning to take her on a job interview………………..

    she was all over me! Tongue Down The Throat! Yea, I saw the change alright. I’m back on top now!

    Thanks,,. it does work!
    S. from Texas

  58. Instructor CR James | Reply

    cool story… she’s talking about relationships – you’re the man! some guys never do anything after that read the books that they have paid for.. .they’re actually scared of the woman as if she is a 700 foot cobra with death venom!!!

    (even though women are tender, soft and fun)

    keep me updated. i never get tired of reading emails from guys who actually take action…

    take care my friend…

  59. H.W. | Reply

    CR, Reading over most of your reports, I am understanding better a huge problem in my marriage.

    You see, for some odd reason I have no problem making other women fall for me (which I have often done unintentionally) simply because when I see a woman I like, I engage with her and I absorb myself into her and into our conversation.

    The minute her eyes start to widen up, and her body language shifts, I know she is attracted to me. My wife has complained that I have a bunch of girl-friends (girls who are just friends but who I would be repeatedly screwing were I not married) and not enough guy-friends.

    … Your information is truly king.

    I won’t be surprised if centuries or even decades from now your information is required reading for those in the: Marriage/Counseling/Behaviorial Psychology fields.


    Your graciously,

  60. Matt | Reply

    Well you definitely have some worth while information to teach…your stuff if you pardon my language cuts out all the shit and explains things just as they should be explained.

    I am really enjoying reading the book.

    It “makes sense” with how I understand things already.. .but reminds you to apply it if you know what I mean, and also further ingrains it in the reader’s knowledge.

    I came out of a relationship a few months back and as I am reading through the book my thoughts are like “oh yeah that happened. ..and that.. .and that!”

    It’s freaky, but I can actually identify that, in the beginning of my last relationship I was acting in many of the ways instructed by you, and getting mind blowing sex, I even made this girl cum, in under a minute, while she was still wearing her trousers!

    She had a look of disbelief on her face just before her orgasm as she felt herself just about to cum.

    As we grew closer, of course I let my guard down and fell into other behaviours (the wrong ones…as described in your book), and the same girl who couldn’t keep her hands off me (even in public) would now not let me near her.

    Of course, I made the mistake of [something mentioned in Super Seduction Power] etc etc..

    you know the score. It’s a learning process though, and it’s amazing how the whole thing can actually be explained in a linear fashion.

    Well done you’ve done a sterling job.

  61. Randy L | Reply

    Hi there CR James i just wanted to congratulate you on your success with your book, it was the best book about attracting women and understanding them i have seen so far.

    I’ve bought books like “[?????]” “[?????]” “[?????]” and you’re right all of them have the same information but it was written different.

    It wasn’t well written and have examples and step-by-step guides to help like your book did.

  62. Benj | Reply

    Hey bro thanks heaps for everything so far.

    My brother told me about this book and I have found it amazing! I only read it yesterday and haven’t tried anything yet. I’ll give you a brief rundown on my situation.. I am engaged and have been since Nov last year. It was a bit rushed but I truly thought she was the one… I still do but things definitely have to change..

    I have never been with a girl that I truly cared about before..

    I have slept with about 100 girls before and more often than not had a few going at the same time.. so maybe because I didn’t really care about any one in particular they all were keen?

    My bro told me to read this book [super seduction power] cause he thinks I am the master of pulling girls and wanted to know what I think.

    After reading this book I realise that I am a lot of the undesirable things and explains why my girl is no longer horny for me.

    I have been living in a fairytale!

    but I never bullshit myself and I can see that you are the light! I always want to be honest with myself and I have felt incredibly insecure with her.

    I have thought that she has been cheating on me and have been anxious when she is away from me. I used to be her MFM and with GF became her SSM and actually got together with her when she had another boyfriend..

    Thank You mate! Benj

  63. R.F. | Reply

    Hi CR.

    I really enjoyed your take on sexual value.

    It’s simple, understandable, and makes perfect sense. I’m using some of your suggestions to increase my sexual value. Thanks for the help.

    Hi CR, You ripped me off and I want mymoney back………. just kidding!

    Actually I find your work brilliant.

    In my conversation with two girls {just above average beauties} I could see them squirm with tension while fishing for answers. The way the second girl answered me I could tell she was a virgin. These girls actually liked me talking to them.

    Compared to “[????]”, and “[?????]” which made me lose my way, your strategy is concrete.

    The confidence explanation was superb.

    Money well spent.

    Thanks I will take advantage of it.

    You are a genius.


  64. G.M. | Reply

    Hi CR, Thanks for the new reports. I feel I’ve received excellent value for the money I spent. I’ve read [Super Seduction Power + the bonus reports]

    Once thru, just to familiarize myself. I’m on my way out the door to buy a couple notebooks to organize everything, so when I print it all out, I can seriously study the material.

    …all I can say is I’m basically starting OVER with my wife. If it’s possible, I think I worked things so that I have NEGATIVE sexual value. I got a LOT of work to do. But do it I will. Thanks again for the support.

    Portland, OR

  65. JE | Reply

    Dear CR James,
    I dearly value your new books.

    keep me posted always.

  66. Pete P | Reply

    Yea. The funny thing is that it is coming out in my favor. She dresses more like a wife than a mom now. For Mother’s day she dressed relaxed and let me take the lead in the restaurant.

    I did ease up and I spent a few days being supportive. When the kids where out of the house this weekend, I [did something powerful] and then made the move in the kitchen.

    She was especially willing and giving.

    After the fact, she respects me and my space more. Although at the time of the [???? technique] she was furious.

    I believe she is more reseptive to me because of the technique. In a flash of inspiration, I suggested that the past anti-seductiveness has been solved when the doctor’s made their diagnosis on her.

    My wife has always prided herself on being hard to get and being above the cut. Since the kids, its been increasingly difficult for me to initiate sex. I like the idea of the points and the happiness of the smiley face technique. I think this is the future.

    She sees herself as the one with the goods and doesn’t want to appear cheap. I’ve had some success suggesting [something fun and sneaky].

    I like the playfulness of having her beg for sex.

    The [??? techniques] have done wonders breaking down her resistance to sex. She is a very proud woman. I can see she is trying to do a really good job for me and is enjoying herself. I can only hope that I can stay confident and continue to eliminate anti-seductive behaviours so that our intimacy and connection can continue to increase.

  67. Instructor CR James | Reply


    i don’t think you have anything to worry about… it only gets better… seems you are definitely doing a good job of executing the tactics.. yea a lot of people like the smiley face…if you keep getting better at it, it becomes almost too easy to believe, but some guys tend to screw it up in the beginning by not paying attention to her ‘responses’ and her ‘willingness’ …

    have fun…
    cr james

  68. PS | Reply


    LOL I know u must receive thousands of emails a day and 500 of them say what I just said but I had to send one in.

    I just purchased your books [Super Seduction Power] and am reading through them.

    It’s 2 in the morning and i got to get up at 6 lol but I want to keep reading because your books make so much SENSE about every thing like (i’ve only just started reading so leave me alone) confidence and it making u stand taller without any thought and the sexual force. example all i could think about was shagging me misses while she was

    bissy talking to me about her holiday and in the end i just grabbed her and shagged her and she didn’t complain a bit when normally she likes to wait, and the happy thing and just feeling positive.

    My relationship just had a rook and we hung in by a thread but we been getting alone like a house on fire but i wanted to know more so i got this and there so much that’s true.

    when I feel good before people have even talked to me at a checkout (female)they are more talk-a-tiv, and well I need to stand up 4 myself a bit more by the sounds of it lol.

    At the start I was having trouble working out what u were saying but u keep using examples and it just clicks and I cant wait to c the effects it will do with my relation ship and life in general. I’m starting it now lol Thank u and I mean it.

    my relation ship has always been a bit woobly for me but I’m confident it will work and if it doesn’t then I’m not doing it right and will have to read your books harder.

    cause i got that special girl that i like the company of not just the hole between her legs and i don’t want to almost lose her again.


    Sorry didn’t know whether to send it to this one or ur other one so i send it to this one i send it to this one

  69. Russ | Reply

    Your pdf files are amazing dude!

    That was the best cash I’ve ever paypal’d anyone in years! Plus you keep sending me more stuff in my mail box [that only customers know about] and its loaded with awesome ideas.

    I have been using your techniques for only a few weeks and omg the results have been SUBSTANTIAL!

    Thank you so much for being such a cool guy to share this info. I can’t believe how blind I was without it.


  70. ML | Reply

    Thank you. It is STILL working!

    My wife comes to ME for sex!

    Two weeks in a row she has sucked me off and then cum with my fingers up her ass.

    She likes it and expresses pride in her new found abilities. We still fight and I count it as a [concept taught in Super Seduction Power] and do my best to ride it out. She is very controlling and I just do my best (somedays better than others). … I spent dozens of hours going through your ebook, taking notes.

    It is relief to not have to worry about sex and instead build opportunity and state of mind.

    I’m less likely to be antiseductive even when her behavior towards me compels me to do something stupid.

    It’s almost like the work spent on building opportunity and state of mind has exhausted me so that I can let it go by me without comment as I don’t have the energy.

    I feel like she is racking up solid points on me, but when she takes me to bed I’m winning the war. She seems to be totally aware of what I’m after (sex), and she never misses an opportunity to slam me.

    I saw a youth protection video on helping children cope with adult seduction techniqes and guilty guy is freaking out and I remind myself my wife and I are adults. She shows me every Oprah show or newscast with sex offendors and I prevail with happy thoughts and good intentions and build sexual tension.

    Before I read your material, I [did something DANGEROUS].

    And predictably, my relationship with her went down hill.

    It is as you said, “THERE IS A ?????? AND YOU HAVE TO ????.”

    Now I don’t say those anti-seductive things and look for ways to be her MMF and give her connection by recognizing her with [SC Tactics]. I still have a long way to go in my goal to give her super happy sex until she has fucked herself silly, and now I feel I have the materials to work out the roadmap.

    Thanks again.

  71. anon. | Reply

    “Thank you again this information is great! I have work to do.”

  72. anonymous | Reply

    Wow, what a relief it was reading your [report] I discovered almost immediately that I, a man, naturally tend to communicate in the way you ascribed to women–indirectly and interpretively. This explains a lot about why friends who’ve tended to annoy me by being too obtuse also tended to have more problems communicating with women than men.

    It also explains why I’ve always felt uneasy about communicating too directly, and tend to try to figure out what someone means and where there viewpoint comes from.

    It’s such a pity that I’ve been in a thoroughly male- dominated field ever since junior high school. Thank you so much for ever so slightly increasing my confidence that women will know what I mean.

  73. B.P. | Reply

    Dear CR James, I just finished reading super seduction power. having downloaded it last week.

    Unfortunately I lost the other texts bundled into the offer on your website after my computer motherboard failed. I had only printed out the main book. Can you help? I also want to say thank you for taking the time to right a book about seducing long termpartners.

    A lot of what you wrote rings true and I am already beginning to see my wife warm towards me for the first time in years.

    I thank God that someone has recognised that seducing long term partners is a very different game to picking up random women!

    By the way, I was very skeptical that your testimonials were from bona fide readers, but now I am one of them, I guess I was right to trust you.

    God bless. (And please can I have the rest of the texts I paid for!)


  74. Jim | Reply

    Hey CR Love your book. love your attitude and generosity. Lots of good karma coming your way.

    Thanks again.

  75. pankaj | Reply

    Thank you

    James and please don’t stop mailing to me…give me more and more seduction tips and try to give me it in PDF format

    thank you ones again james

    yours faithfully

  76. K. | Reply

    Seriously very insightful. The way you break it down is very easy to understand as always.

    The information you provided are valuable it will save me so much time doing trial and error which is what I try to do most of the time.

  77. MC | Reply

    Hi CR. Good stuff. I may be a genius but I lacked women skills.

    I don’t any more and life is good. Thanks to you and many others in your circle of male educators.

    Keep the education coming. Without it, things like LAWS OF ATTRACTION mean little.

    I do have a ton of your stuff. Personally, I find it complicated but doable.

    Getting the right wording in mind while being congruent is quite an effort for some of your ideas.

    For others, it is a breeze. I had a hearing dyslexia when I was a child and I’m still working on it at 57. (couldn’t understand the spoken phrases that I heard)

    Getting an education was a bitch. So I really appreciate your extended versions of some of your products that you have readdressed. Yes, I’m not so dyslexic anymore. But the loss of my youth experiences put me at a disadvantage which still lingers. Although now, no one would know. OH! no, boo hoos. I’ve molded myself quite nicely, thank-you very much. However, I’ve used every resource to help me.

    I’m sure others of your following just aren’t as normal as they’d like to be either.

    Anyways, An exceptional thank-you to and exception guy…

  78. Ben | Reply

    I’ve been using them in BBM chats with my friends, and using this strategy, I instaneously have more of their attention and enthusiasm to go along the chat.

  79. MS | Reply

    I am impressed with the quality of your material. I appreciate it and plan to buy more.

  80. LD | Reply

    This is a huge change from 18 months ago and a direct result of all the changes i made and strategies i applied! Supported by your strategies I turned the downward trend into an upward trend and after that it is only a question of time when she will be at least above average… And, she does not control me, i lead her without her even being aware of it while we are both having a fab time and enjoying life again.
    Your stuff works great!

    Take care…

  81. JOE | Reply

    Thank you,
    I am enjoying your book very much; it might just save mine and wife’s relationship. I have tried
    some of your techniques and with great success. Interesting to see negatives as a positive learning experience. I can’t believe how easy it is to get information from women if you use the right approach.
    Again thank you for pointing out I am what women want and a rarity. I don’t mean this in a snobbish way, it feels reel good to feel it.
    Satisfied customer, JOE

  82. Dimitri | Reply

    Thank you very much my friend, you are not only a good businessman and teacher, but a friend.
    I understand the concept of needing to make a living, but you are a real helpful and considerate guy. Its hard to find/meet people like you and I am so grateful I stumbled onto your site, (even though it was for an embarrassing reason) because not only am I learning so much, but your concepts work.

    Its also very uplifting to receive your feedback.

    Thanks is not enough, but Thank you.


  83. PJ | Reply

    CR, you are a genius! Simply amazing how things have turned around in my relationship with my girlfriend! Thank you so much,


  84. TE | Reply


    First off i want to thank you for how awesome your book is! its skyrocketed my confidence to where its never been before. I’ve slowly but surely integrated some of your techniques in to my daily routine and its worked wonders.

  85. Leonardo | Reply

    Thanks my dear brother!!!

    I am so excited about your material. I’m reading first the ”Seduce Married Woman” and shiiiiiiiiiiit bro this is ALL TRUE.
    I have confirmed it by myself a lot of time ago and in the present time also, in my life.

    It was a very big coincidence that I read your stuff, I laughed a lot while reading alone, and I guess I’ll have a lot of success, because i WANT IT, and your stuff FINALLY seems to be a realistic material, finally.

    Thanks my dear, have a nice day!!!

    – Leonardo.

  86. SC | Reply

    Hi CR,

    Great report!

    I really appreciate your detailed program, which is effective, as opposed to those people who have a “magic” answer which doesn’t work at all.

  87. Jack | Reply

    Hey CR James

    Thanks for your inspiring thought today, us men are definitely not wired to think along these lines…thanks for the reminder that is often so simple and easy to do with a little bit of conscious
    effort. I am very pleased with the results of the SSP information keep up the good work!

    Sincerely Jack

  88. Richardo | Reply

    Thanks CR James i LOVE your reports they are extremely usefull!!

  89. Ro | Reply

    What’s up my man CR.. before anything else, let me just say.. you rock!!


  90. James | Reply

    Hello CR James thank you for your incredible findings of the woman, When i first found you writings i thought it sounded a bit sketchy, i thought you where teaching men to manipulate women, but your not. i now realise that you are giving men the strength

  91. Pete | Reply

    Hey Cr

    Many thanks, worked perfectly this time.
    Just wanted to add – love your work, so insightful, clear and well written. But the info is truly life changing and has enhanced my life no end. I’m back together with my ex with a renewed focus on realizing what needs to be done to make things work, and understanding why. Please accept a big Super Compliment from me on the value of your work. You do stand out from the many others in the relationship field.

    regards and thanks again


  92. Shane | Reply

    Well it has been a long time since I have been to your site.

    But I remember it has a bunch of products that seem interesting.

    Do you have some sort of bulk package you could put together for me.

    I would prefer to get everything at once.

    I have SSP
    Lust Power
    Lust Signals

    And many of the little 5 page updates… Plus a few others.

    So what do ya think?

    I kinda miss having fresh products form you..
    You have a twist on everything that I seem to enjoy/


  93. NM | Reply

    Thanks for your writing’s man, I dare not
    think where we would be without them. hope to speak again.

    Your’s sincerely,

  94. C | Reply

    Your information is great. I could actually feel my confidence growing as I read SSP and Super Lust Buttons!

  95. RT | Reply

    CR, I am learning some obvious things I did not find obvious for so many years. I’m a very successful businessman [and married for] 21 years.

    You are a smart man. Reading about [a certain technique] in section 2 [of SSP]. Odd how I have “seduced’ fortune 100 executives but have missed understanding my girl.

    Nice Work.

  96. CP | Reply

    Thanks CR!!

    I have been through a few of the reports so far and it is great material, now I just have to put the material in action. Thanks and keep the great info coming!


  97. Instructor CR James | Reply

    Hey C.P.

    Please Please Please Take action on the material!!

    There are way too many corny jokes in my reports for them to survive on entertainment value alone. lol.

    Take Care my friend!

  98. PT | Reply

    Dear CR,

    First of all man, I want to thank you for ALL your valuable information. You put into words all the things I thought I knew and confirmed them to the 100th power.

    Since I’ve read your information we’ve had GREAT sex.

    Thanks hommie

  99. Matt | Reply

    Hey CR, what’s up, it’s Matt.

    I seriously thought that a woman can only cum when she is turned on to do so, and that her orgasm can only happen once she is in the proper mindset. Thankfully, that has been corrected.

    Your teachings are amazing; you are truly a genius.

    The male species can no longer go on without your knowledge, lol. I am also happy Pirate Seduction is finally available, as I am Putting it on my “to buy” list, and am getting my finances in check.

    Kindly appreciated,



  100. Instructor CR James | Reply


    As far as the male species comment, I keep telling people that but no one believes me. lol.

  101. Renald | Reply

    Hi I bought a few of Your books a while ago ……… and I haven’t ever told you how good they are an how I think its a HONOR TO KNOW YOU.. and to have the luck of coming across ……your books and buying them…….

    I have had a lot of trouble taking every detail in to real life out of the book ………

    i have had to read thing many many times……

    know that you must be really busy and I really appreciate you time and THINK YOU ARE A SUPER PERSON THAT IS HONESTLY CHANGING THE WORLD FOR THE BETTER


  102. Adrian | Reply

    The one and the only amazing CR James, man I never get tired of reading your stuff. Your last report on the laughable answer was really amazing good stuff good stuff, I just put it to work. Last time my 19 year old girlfriend and me were having WILD sex each and every time I read your work and put it into action so lets see if I can effectively put it into action this time wish me luck!

    Sincerely Best Wishes,

  103. Judge | Reply

    I’m not gonna give any details, because that’s just not how I am and, to be fair I really doubt you enjoy reading hundreds of emails from people you don’t know talking about there new improved sex life, though it probably doesn’t bother you, it just seems unnecessary. But here I go rambling on again, hah. Just figured I would let you know that you did help me a lot not just sexually, but in general for the better of my relationship. I think it’s great you help all these people out, especially those who have been living their whole lives doing so many things wrong and having no clue what. I have always tried to help out my friends especially in high school, but I never honestly had any clue what i was doing that was different from anyone else, I guess I was smarter than I thought. I definitely have more to learn, but I mean doesn’t everyone? I have always enjoyed learning how people work, what makes them tic, but i never realized I had been doing it unconsciously. haha
    But yeah the rambling.
    Just wanted to thank you.


  104. Instructor CR James | Reply

    thanks judge… i appreciate the email my friend…

    i actually never get tired of hearing about guys who have “made progress” (whether it’s getting actual results in some way OR whether it’s a major shift in outlook – which leads [or will eventually lead] to MORE SUCCESS in the future)…

    most people (like 80% of guys or more) tend to think that they can’t get better and they complain and give BS reasons for why things will never changed for them…

    (and i hear it a lot!!!)

    so (from my perspective) it’s ALWAYS refreshing to hear from people who are either
    * fed up and ready to make a change OR
    * have already made a change (getting better results)…

    so i always feel honored that people take the time to let me know because (it helps me get better which allows me to help others better) and i’m pretty sure that most guys quietly make changes and i never hear from them…

    take care my friend

    best regards & much success…
    cr james

  105. BH | Reply

    Hi, I recently purchased your book Super Seduction Power and I am only to page 72. I have already noticed a difference with my girl friend and our sex life. Just the other day we were watching a movie and out of nowhere she climbed on top of me took off her shirt and started she gave me the best blow job I have ever had. I haven’t even been trying to apply the stuff I have learned in your book very much but I must be sending the right signals because I am driving her crazy. This is what she told me today, “I don’t know what you are doing differently but it makes me want you so much more lately.” I can’t wait to finish the rest of you book! And I just wanted to say thanks! 😀


  106. Charlie | Reply


    I want to report a success story. You’ll see below a message a wrote
    you last May, reporting that I’d started dating both of the women who
    dumped me back when I was doing everything wrong, having not read any
    of your stuff and having undermined my SV. Two women who were dreams
    come true in my mind.

    Well, now I want to report that I’ve slept with both of them, and the
    the one that I had gone further wrong with is now sexually and
    romantically pursuing me. A complete reversal from before I read your
    stuff. I’d undermined things enough–and she had baggage that
    complicated things and made it more difficult–that it took a really
    long time to get to this point, but I gained confidence over time
    through seeing the change in her reaction and seeing my success with
    other women, and eventually came through with this most difficult
    challenge. I have to careful though, because I really do think she’s
    among the top 2-3 women I’ve ever been attracted to, and it’s easy to
    put her on a pedestal above any other potential mate, which would not
    be productive for SV.

    It’s most attitude and approach, not specific techniques, that I
    learned from you. It’s knowing better how attraction works in the
    female brain. After reading enough of your stuff, I am able to
    interpret particular situations and know how to spin them to gain SV,
    or know what kind of situations to get into that will help, rather
    than needing to study and apply particular techniques.

    Perhaps the biggest thing that became clearer to me after reading your
    stuff, but that you might not talk about that much, is having her see
    with with other people who know me and respect me and who make that
    clear. For example, an old friend who talked about how said everyone
    was when I moved away from the city I used to live in…

    I don’t know where this relationship will go, but as of right now,
    I’ve won back the woman I lost–something that felt like the biggest
    loss of my life. That’s fantastic, and knowing that I could do that
    will give me hugely improved confidence wherever I go from here.

    Thanks tremendously.

  107. SS | Reply

    so far i’m gald for all the work you have done. it has transformed my life and it still continues to do so CONSISTANTLY

  108. B | Reply

    So much has changed. I can’t be 100% sure but i think she liked the things i was doing to get her in the mood. After this last round which she had two mind blowing orgasms back to back ( she didn’t even time to finish the first one before she right into the second on.) One thing i am not sure about is it seems like she is on auto pilot. She is always in the mood.

  109. Ken S | Reply

    Dude, you were right about the playful insinuations. I tested it the next time she did it and that is definitely her form of initiation. Thanks for the excellent advise. I’m not easily impressed, but you impress the hell out of me.
    On another subject, I recently read one of your reports where a guy was in the grocery store with his wife and he said something to her, that sent her into a sexual rampage. Can you elaborate on this, because just about every scenario you mentioned, I’ve been able to relate to with the relationship between my wife and I?

  110. Nate | Reply

    Hey brother,

    I’m in the military and deploy 6 months and back home for 12 months. I do well with women and find it pretty easy to keep them interested when I want to (when I’m physically within a reasonable distance from them). I started dating a 9.5 about a month before I left this time (deployed about 3 weeks ago) and things were awesome before I left. We decided to stay friends and then we’d try the relationship thing when I get back if we were both still interested. So up until about a week ago we were talking everyday via email and her texting my email, and on the phone about once a week. For the past week I got 1 comment and 1 text from her and she seems very indifferent to me now. She’s not the type to sleep around so I don’t think she’s seeing anyone else tho it is possible (doesn’t really concern me). The thing that gets me is the exact same thing happened the last time I deployed but with a different girl I had been dating for about 3 months. Last time that was the end of everything until after I got back (Still a very good friend of mine). I know that I start to miss bein around them and start basically giving up some of my power because of that, but how do I keep myself from doing this. Alternate question: How do I keep myself from letting it bother me that this girl that I want to date isn’t as into me as she was when I left? I’m already out meeting girls here (Romanian women are AMAZING by the way) and doing fine, but I can’t get over wanting to know why she stopped writing. I’m always helping guys and girls fix their dating shebockles (I like that word) but now it’s time that I need some insight so I can dust off and jump back into the good life.

    Thanks for Everything you’ve done for me. More than you’ll ever know.


  111. K Smith | Reply

    I recenty purchased SSP. Let me start by saying YOU DA MAN.

    I am forty years old and have been married for twenty years and because of you, I now know what the problem was. I started using your techniques and saw results in a week. And when I say results, I mean I could predict her reactions and even almost control them.

  112. Jason | Reply

    CR James

    Thank you for your material!

    Your techniques have already given me amazing progress!

    I actually have had two different girls (an 8 and a 9) come up to me and say there was something different they liked about me but didn’t know what it was. If I wasn’t using your material to try and save my marriage I would be out dating hot babes right now instead of emailing you.

    Thank you for being one of the few guys out there that help men find the knowledge they really need to build a happy balanced relationship.

    Your material more than pays for itself in the first day.

    My self confidence has sky rocketed 200%!!!

    You’re a life saver,


  113. abood | Reply

    Hi, I recently purchased your book Super Seduction Power and I am only to page 72. I have already noticed a difference with my girl friend and our sex life. Just the other day we were watching a movie and out of nowhere she climbed on top of me took off her shirt and started she gave me the best blow job I have ever had. I haven’t even been trying to apply the stuff I have learned in your book very much but I must be sending the right signals because I am driving her crazy. This is what she told me today, “I don’t know what you are doing differently but it makes me want you so much more lately.” I can’t wait to finish the rest of you book! And I just wanted to say thanks!

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