The 4 Reasons Why Good Girls Cheat

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Congratulations!

You must be high after the shocking cowboy killing in their last stadium meet. Have to say the Hips thing is good stuff- I love that kinda stuff.

I wrote you awhile back about this sexy woman at work maybe you remember the artsie/fartsie, outward funky clothing jewelry type woman, slender and sexy, highly emotional, ( I sense even though she doesn’t show her temper I know its there),  horse loving, very romantic type woman with no kids (selfish) and newly married to a guy I believe might even wipe her when she’s finished.

Like you said in past reports women get bored or disrespectful towards overly coddling men. She has an over signal of attention from him but little attention or appreciation  from her boss at work-this guy also makes her or buys her lunch makes her dinner every day, picks her up drops her off on time no matter what.

I remember when I met him I thought he was gay-he’s an architect and so is a landscape architect, her last husband was a beating lawyer, so I sense she values status a great deal.

She refers to him often or enough.

Anyway she acts at times like she is a little addicted to me, flirty smiles and touches me alot now, but by practicing your suggestion (hips) on showing over the top interest in her horses may help push her to be fully addicted along with other stuff.  I don’t think her force field is real strong but strong enough to prevent getting too addicted to me. She is a guilty girl type.

Do you think the chance of getting her addicted 50%, 70, 100 from the compacted info I just gave you? How difficult and what may I expect I couldn’t see this woman letting me know very easily she jumped in the ocean? Maybe she would suggest going out for wine after work, or lunch or meet me at the private empty downstairs gym after work-who knows shes hard for me to figure because she is a little flakey- an old girl friend at work said she was real insecure.

Thanks,

PS the self righteous type women that commented on the blog kinda makes me feel a little like guilty guy grabs his rosary.

Hey Gary!!

Yeah.. It almost made up for last week’s lost against the Steelers.

With the info you gave, your chances are really good!!!

In fact, it’s just a matter of time…

(Her boyfriend is a non-factor!)

Whether it’s a 77% chance or a 97% chance… it all depends on:

How much “meaningful” INFO you continue to gather about HER + applying the info the right way…

As far as the 3 Addiction Ingredients (from Super Attraction Power)

Ingredient #1: Feel Good
Ingredient #2: Sexual Value
Ingredient #3: Building A Strong Connection (or perception of connection)

You’ll want to focus on each one in the right way…

Her current boyfriend has already lost her and doesn’t even realize it!

- Find out everything that makes her feel good (events, experiences, comments, backrubs, etc.).

Go on a secret mission to discover everything.

You want to not only KNOW MORE about what makes her feel good than ANY OTHER MAN, but you’ll also want to be the best at smoothly executing those things in a way that feels real to her and natural.

You’ll want to especially pay attention to the things that guys in her past done to make her feel good (about her identity, about her experiences and about her accomplishments, etc.)

Be sure to do those 3 things exceptionally well…

And you can use her current experiences (with other guys) as a guide, because every woman has her “own definition/interpretation” of what it takes for a guy (YOU) to make her FEEL GOOD ABOUT HER IDENTITY…

- As far as SV (Sexual Value) — for this girl — continue to get more info on her ex-hubbie (the lawyer guy) and OTHER guys (from her past) who “once-had-SV-but-doesnt-anymore”…

Do whatever you can do to get her to reveal ALL of the traits  that make those guys “losers” (i.e. selfish, rude, irresponsible, etc)…

And also get her to reveal the traits that she’s responsive to (i.e caring, thoughtful, self-assured, funny, optimistic, “real”, etc.)…

I’m doing ok I guess…

A few years ago, an SSP customer sent me a very interesting email.

He explained to me what happened when he “tried” one of my techniques.

(It was an “old” and “dusty” technique that appeared on one of my first reports.)

To make a long story short, using the concept in that report, he made his wife have a “Violent Orgasm”.

His words.
Not mines.

I remember thinking:

“Wow. Interesting choice of words.”

According to the email, the crime scene took place in his kitchen. It didn’t take long for me to “visualize” what his facial expression must have looked like as he watched this take place…

It’s like hitting a Home Run and admiring the ball as it “missiles” out of the stadium.

Too bad there isn’t Instant Replay (slow motion style) for guys like us when we proudly hit the ball a little further than normal…

Those are proud moments, too!

There are moments that remind us that we are MEN who care about the pleasure of the ladies we care about.

Here’s the deal… In his email, he talked about AN IMPORTANT LESSON (aside from the details of the “Violent Orgasm”).

It’s a message that SOME MEN reeeeeallly need to hear…

98% of guys do not “understand” how important this lesson is!

You can read the Violent Climax Story @ SuperMakeUpSex.com

Oh yeah, I went back and re-read the ancient 2004 report that contained the technique. And I noticed the same thing I notice anytime I re-read a report that I wrote.

The grammer sucks.
The spelling sucks.
And I see “many ways” to make the technique/lesson BETTER!

If you gave me permission to brag a little - just for 10 seconds  - and not a second longer - I would say that the NEW VERSION contains “added stuff” that makes it dangerously powerful!

(3 seconds to spare)

Anyway…

I’m no longer giving it away for FREE with Super Seduction Power…

In fact, it’s only available as a “separately sold” report…

It’s a must read for guys who are afraid to do the “forbidden” stuff…

If you want to read the 2009 Super Charged Version, go to SuperMakeUpSex.com

OR…

If you don’t want a copy and just want to read his email along with “the important lesson”, go to SuperMakeUpSex.com

Enjoy your holiday!

Warmly
CR James

Strategically, your game plan should involve “methods” to make her feel good.

But first you need to understand what that means…

There are 3 “super ingredients” to being the most desirable guy she has ever experienced…

Your ability to make her feel good (is ONE of them) and it’s based on:

1. Your knowledge of what makes MOST WOMEN feel good (i.e. female behavior/psychology)

4. Applying that “specific” knowledge

That’s basically it.

If that makes sense to you, then you will be one of the “few guys” who will quickly
become A Master At Making Women Feel Good. (emotionally)

‘Making a woman feel good’ is ONE of The 3 “Addiction Ingredients”…

Let’s now look at 5 specific ways to ‘make a women feel good’, because the idea
is to master all 3 ingredients…

The feeling that she is valued & important
The feeling that she is unique
The feeling that she is supported
The feeling that she is powerful

Do you see how this works?

You should get out a piece of paper (or open up a Word file) and write down
different ways ton do each of those things…

For example:

Think about about what could you DO to make her feel VALUED
Think about about what could you SAY to make her feel VALUED
Think about about what HAVE DONE IN THE PAST to make her feel VALUED
Think about about WAYS TO ASK HER (overtly or covertly) that would get her
to reveal ways to make her feel VALUED…

Does this make sense?

Increasing your “Addiction Power” is easy as pie!

Everything is going to come down to your ability to GET POWERFUL INFORMATION and APPLY POWERFUL INFORMATION ….

All you have to do is “listen” (when she PROVIDING information) and “do things”…

Imagine talking to a woman, and at some point she started saying things like my exboyfriend would never let me blah blah blah…

At that point, you would say to yourself “hmmmmm…so he made her feel powerless.”

That’s “specific information” that applies to HER (the target woman)…

It’s important to use “information” and “reverse information”…

-So if she HATES feeling “powerless”.
-She’s going to LOVE feeling “powerful.”

Extremely wealthy people HATE the idea of “not having enough money”…
Extremely wealthy people LOVE the idea of “having enough money”…

It’s that simple.

So once you GET THAT POWERFUL INFORMATION, you are going to use it….

For example, later on you could compliment her on being a Powerful Woman…

But don’t just say:

You: Hi Mary. You are a Powerful Woman. Goodbye.

You have to do it the right way…

(Let’s face it, you know for a fact that “feeling powerful” is something that she craves - but more importantly, she is currently craving it more so than normal, because it’s the “thing” that is in her “current awareness”….

Think about that…

There’s 3 “keys to life” that I like to pass on…

1) Look both ways before crossing the street.
2) Don’t eat bread when it has green fur on it.
3) If you are trying to “get her aroused” pay attention to the information that is in her current awareness, because it is the CURRENT VERSION of her that matters. (Note: It’s a good idea to think of her as being a totally different woman - every 10 minutes. And each “woman” has different desires, fears, triggers, etc.

Let’s move on…

Make her feel good using her H.I.P.S.

I’ll explain:

Her Hobbies
Her Interests
Her Passions
Her Spare time activities

Let’s go through an example of making her feel good about one of her Passions:

For example, you can do the CUP technique. [Completely Understanding her Passions]

Tactic #1 – Making it out to be more than it is. As humans we want others to appreciate the unique things about:

-who we are
-what we enjoy doing
-etc.

You can do this by showing an appreciation on a level that she’s never experienced before. (That’s going to be your “secret mission”)

When you do that, it forces her to see you as someone who understands her passion on a deeper level.

The purpose is to get her to experience the powerful feeling of “finally someone understands me!!!”

If you really do a great job, you’ll get the “raised eyebrow’ effect…

Keep your eyes on her eyebrows.

Let’s give a crystal clear example of how this works.

[Let’s say she enjoys tennis]

Her: I really enjoy tennis.
You: Cool. You know I’ve always thought tennis was a pretty interesting sport. Tennis is an art form. I always thought it was much more than a sport, because it’s the little things like reaching out for the ball. In life you have to reach for the things if you want to succeed.

You want to connect her Hobbies/Passions/Etc with the “essence of life”…

Good Luck… let me know how it goes…

Oh yeah, what did you think about the Violent Orgasm Technique? (let me know)

http://SuperPowerMedia.com/ViolentOrgasmStory

Warmly
CR James
crjames100@gmail.com
(If you have a BURNING question about
being desirable to women and/or getting women turned on,
don’t hesistate)

http://SuperPowerMedia.com/ViolentOrgasmStory

How are u? ZM again. I want to get some stuff from you to develop an attraction with this girl who is my friend.

I’m not her good friend, just started talking to her last semester before she graduated. Lately she told me she will call me , and I should not call her as much. You told me to make her laugh, develop a connection with her and tell her stories how other girls like me…

Hey ZM

Yeah my friend…

If you are a rookie at getting women attracted to you, then as something that is easy to remember, that’s one formula you can start off with…

Don’t tell her you love her or anything like that to early…

It doesn’t accomplish anything… You have to increase your sexual value…You have to do things that affect her psychologically and emotionally…

I promise you, if a woman is telling you ‘Don’t call me, I’ll call you’ your sexual value is NOT high enough to do anything meaningful…

To be honest, you probably have a much bigger issue, because you need to figure out what you did that made her feel as though she needs to tell you that…

Did you call her too much? (according to her, not you)
Did you call at inappropiate times? (according to her, not you)
Was the context of your phone calls ineffective (a.t.h., n.y.)

You see what I mean…

Then from there, you gotta evaluate your ability to grasp the impact
of the things that you say…

It’s kind of like the guy who talks to the new girl for the first time on the phone…and when he hangs the phone up, he starts smiling and pumping his fist…followed by the 80’s michael jackson moonwalk….followed by a session of breakdancing….

But when SHEEEEEEEEEE hangs up the phone she has the ‘grossed out’ face… She’s spraying lemon-scented lysol on her hands and wiping off the phone with baby wipes!

CLEARLY THERE IS A HUUUUUUUGGGEEEEE DISCONNECT!

You should focus on “saying things” that IMPACT HER…

A lot of guys spend too much time, “saying things” that reflects HER IMPACT ON THE GUY… (i.e. you’re pretty, you’re amazing, you drive me wild, you’re a great breakdancer, you smell like lemons, etc.)…

I hope that helps dude…

-CR James

I have a problem, well a little dilema.

I think I’ve found THE ONE for me. I never  thought that that day would come but when you meet someone and get to know them and can’t stop thinking about them, it’s the funny feeling you get. She works with me, well along side me. She went through a bad relationship and I know how she feels right now.

The thing is I’m in a kinda relationship with someone but we are not really dating and it’s not because of this person. It’s because I got to see the peron with whom I was dating is not the person for me.

My problem is should I ever tell this person how I feel about her letting her sknow that I may be actually in love with her or just never tell her anything and stay friends. it kills me everyday that I cannot tell her how I feel, that I want to be with her and how she makes me feel.

I may just end up losing a friend.

SB

Hey “SB”

In situations like this, you should figure out a few things first…

Telling a girl you love her, doesn’t really do anything but express the feeling that you love her…

That’s it…

If you have that urge to ‘get it off of your chest’ because there is just something different about her, then that’s perfectly normal..

It just means you know how to identify the right woman…

But if the ACTION (i.e. saying “I love you”) resulting from the URGE, doesn’t help you get what you ultimately want (i.e. “the girl”), then it would be best to do something
more beneficial…

Some people may have the URGE to rob a bank, but that probably isn’t going to give them what they ultimately want.

So if she thinks you’re cool, but your sexual value isn’t that high (in other words, she isn’t “feeling you like THAT”), then telling her you love her (or anything romantically synamous) isn’t going to change things for the better…

Women don’t become more attracted to a guy, just because he espresses how much he is attracted to her…

If you want to be with her, then you ‘have to have the right impact on her’ because that’s what matters.

1) So where do you stand in terms of ’sexual value’?

2) Find out what she is looking for in terms of a relationship?

…because the answers to those questions help create the right gameplan.

So let me know if you are able to tell how much value you have?

Take Care

Oh yeah, you never said WHY she is different and why you like her so much

Peace,
CR James

My team (The Ravens) got hammered
yesterday… (31 - 3) OUCH!!

My wife went out and bought me a
Ray Lewis jersey that was so
damn small my belly button was
showing!

Her: Try it on.
Me: It looks VERY SMALL.
Her: Just try it on.
Me: (struggles to put it on)
Her: Does it fit?
Me: Sure… in the palm of my hand!

Any way, it’s the thought that counts.

Besides, giving gifts is a cool feeling…

That’s why TODAY, I’m going to give you
an XXL “no-cost report” lol

I emailed this to you before (i think) awhile
back…

Plus, I added some “extra” information about
how to become desirable to women…

I think you’ll enjoy it…

Quiz: What makes a lottery ticket so valuable?

Think about that for a second…

The answer is in the report…

Speaking of, did you hear about the guy last month
who won the lottery? (crazy story)

Here’s a snippet of the conversation he had with
his “excited wife”…

Lottery Guy: Pack your bags I just won the lottery!!!!
His Wife: Should I pack for the mountains or the beach.
Lottery Guy: I don’t care. Just get the $%#%# out of here!

Ok, enough jokes (LOL)…

here’s your “gift” …

http://SuperPowerMedia.com/XXL

Warmly
CR James
http://SuperPowerMedia.com
crjames100@gmail.com

I think it’s funny.
He thinks it’s embarrassing. lol.

In a way it could be thought of as a
pretty cool “oral” technique.

(Hint: This is NOT the alien oral sex technique
mentioned at http://SweetFemaleOrgasms.com
but you could combined it with the “alien oral
sex technique” to make it 10 times more
powerful…)

So listen up, you can learn from “my buddy’s
embarrassment” to eat her amazingly…

aaaaaaaaannnnndddd….

You can also use it to “train your girlfriend”
to give you a “rollercoaster-face” blowjob!

Here’s what happened.

One Saturday night he got *wasted* at a party.

There were some hot girls at the party,
but none of them gave him the time of day.

But there was this 350lb girl who had a crush
on him for years…

So he decided to leave the party and go back
to her place.

To make a long story short, they ended up
“getting busy”.

I wish I could tell the story like he did,
because it’s funny the way he tells it…

But then, he gets serious as if he is about to
Tell a campfire “ghost story”…

He proceeds to discuss what he considered to
Be the highlight of the night…

“the blow job she gave him”

He said this “blow job” was
waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy better than
anything he has ever experienced….

So I asked him: “What made it so good?”

He said: Don’t laugh!

I said: OK (but I was prepared to laugh, because
that’s what I do when someone tells me ‘Don’t
Laugh)

He said: I think it had to do with her mouth
being “slippery and hot” because her technique
(i.e. mouth movements) weren’t that different
that anything I had before…

It was like she just got finsihed eating a
bucket of fried chicken while having a fever!

Although that was mildly humorous and
quasi-offensive, I could see how that would make
the blow job better…

In other words: It makes sense.

(Slippery + Hot)

It’s not really rocket science.

So how could you use this information…

The next time you are performing oral on
(preferably, using the “Alien Oral
Technique”) do this:

STEP 1: Discreetly have some hot tea nearby
in a thermos (to keep it hot)

Also, keep some flaxseed oil nearby. (You can
Get it at any vitamin store.

STEP 2: Perform any oral routine on her that
you normally do.

STEP 3: When she is getting ready to reach orgasm,
take a few sips of the tea - hold it in you mouth for a
while to heat it up. Then take a tablespoon or
two of flaxseed oil.

Swallow just enough of the flax oil so that your
mouth is fairly oily.

(and still hot from the tea)

STEP 4: Proceed to engage in the oral activities.

That’s pretty much it.

In general, it’s all about contrast (Temperature, Pressure,
Speed and “Tongue Geometry”) and a few other things…

Warmly
CR James

P.S. If you want more oral tips, read
http://SweetFemaleOrgasms.com

I suppose you are gearing up for the big game [Football Game], good thing its not in the dog pound. Viking finally have a QB-releatively speaking.

I just wanted to have you shed some light on my dimming aura.

A year ago or so when bought your reports I evolved phenominally as I look  back, unbelievable things happened to me just from my outlook.  However, I have lost the magnetism I had and I think it is because of some difficult life situations.

On my B-day/company xmas party last December, I got stopped for a DUI-big expensive hassel, and now I am presently struggling financialy.  So, all the positive self talk doesn’t seem to work as effectively.  I continue to remind myself the SLB mantra “all women find me incredibly irrrisistable once I……… But for me to say “I feel amzing” or “I feel great” doesnt resonate like it did.  Do you any more mantras that may penetrate orI conciously accept easier.  I don’t feel amazing yet I am still comfortable with myself.

I really am attracted to the Aura/self talk aspect in “Lust powers” (grocery store green glowing ball stuff), in my life I have attracted beautiful women only when I feel good or happy, not by my conversational skills, even though I can talk and not shy, just not excellent like some guys (i.e.You). In my single days for some reason with my brother, I would always attract beautiful women - I never had to approach them they would come to me horny.
I have a tendence to worry and be pessimistic, i am trying to improve having right thoughts-its hard now though.
.
Lastly It seems women are giving me rejections as if its there weapon-i.e. girl on the bus was obviously magd by me, than I must have pissed her off because I didn’t really get turned on by her.  So now she uses the ignore me don’t sit with me as if she enjoys giving these rejections. I see this alot -women love to do it to me after they have showed obvious interest or addiction to me.

Women use these rejections alot  lately after showing they were mag’d by me-wierd tool they like to use. I learn from it and find it amusing but frustrating too.

So any insight you have on these two concerns or observations would be greatly appreciated.
Over and out and enjoy the game.
Gary

PS i love the reports you suggested for me, however the SAP report is too advanced for me I need alot practice before I can be that advanced of a conversationalist-I’m working on it.

Hey Gary

-CR

This guy’s situation is:

* tough
* heart-breaking
* extremely bizarre

Read what happened:

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Hi There CR,

I got a very big problem I want you to know about,
remember the virgin chick I told you about who I wanted
to know if it was right about expressing my feelings to her,
of which you said I should as long as she is trust worthy,
well I did, well that’s not the problem.

The problem now is that she went home for a family
get-together at her home town kind of far from where I live,
well before she left, we had some good time, and some romantic
moods but which didn’t lead to sex, because she told me she
wanted to be that way until she got married.

I didn’t object to her at all thinking that was just a first time
and that maybe next time she would give in into the idea.

Surprisingly, she called me from her home town, telling me she
had done something wrong, that’s she’s now a bad girl and
that she doesn’t know if I can still consider her again.

I asked what happened and she went ahead to tell me that she
was invited by her friends for a party, she got drunk and
when she woke up, her friends had gone, leaving her behind.

She wasn’t really sure but she thinks she had been raped by one
of the guys or maybe more I don’t know, and that was how
she lost her virginity, couldn’t say anything much but I told her
I would be expecting her return so that we can finally discuss
issues about what happened.

Later she called me that day like as if nothing happened,
telling me she misses me and feels like seeing me, its very
surprising because its just like a dream, because she didn’t
even go back to what she told me earlier that day, or even to
find out if I’m okay with that news and how I’m feeling.

This is a very sad one for me because I really don’t know
what to do, first I’m really outraged, and have been having
sleepless nights about what would be the right thing for me to
do with her, now I don’t trust her anymore, and I need to
know what I can do, because everyday I come up with the
feeling of maybe she cheating on me while I’m still here
depraved thinking about her.

I told some friends and they said it was a mistake that I
shouldn’t leave her, some even said maybe she wanted to know if I
really loved her and she decided to test me with that story to
know if I would still be with her if she had lost her virginity to
another man, right now I don’t know which one to believe
because the way the story sounded, she was really serious about it,

LN

hey

listen up.

what you need to do my friend is FIND OUT what is really
going on.

because you pointed out the possibilities and i
agree. it can only be a few things:

either:

1. she was raped
2. she got drunk and then just screw a guy(s)
3. she lied about losing virginity and is just testing you

for her, the worst of the 3 is obvious.

for you, i would be very upset with a ‘test’ of this nature,
but you should at least appreciate her desire to find out where
your heart and mind is - because there are “creeps” out there…

on the other hand, if she just was kicking back a 2%
alcoholic berry cooler and now she is playing the ‘oh, i
must have lost control of my conscious decision-making
abilities’ game, then that’s not cool…

I think for now you just need to calmly find out what really
happened.

if someone forced me to make a wager, then i’m going with
“she got drunk and then just screw a guy”

at any rate, good luck.

let me know how it goes..

warmly
cr james

Hi There CR,

Got your email, thanks for the reply.

She hasn’t returned till now that I’m sending you this
email but she still keeps calling me for absolutely no
reason, and every time she calls I get pissed even
more, because she actually showed me her true color this year,

There are a lot of things I’m really scared about, of course
now I’m going to really find out what happened, because
she even told me the guy [The Rapist] came to see her at
home, telling her he didn’t believe she was virgin.

After telling me she didn’t want to have the sex, but she
wished she could, problem was she had made a deal with
God that she wouldn’t do anything until marriage, and now
you go over to some other guys place, when you have a
boyfriend who you say you love so much. To go to the point
of getting drunk, it’s funny because from the time I knew her
she never drinks anything alcoholic except juices and milky
drinks.

That’s why I always find the story funny, and she didn’t care
at all about how I would feel. Any way I would get back to
you to give you the feedback because right now even a
seduction master wouldn’t want to be in this kind of situation.

Talk to you later
here you go…

i think you have your answer.

I could be wrong, but women who get rapped,
don’t willingly invite their attackers into their homes
for casual visits…

leave her and find a better woman. (because she’s either a liar
or a poor decision maker)

I can’t put it any simpler than that.

much success…