When it comes to getting a woman sexually aroused, most guys do a terrible job. It has everything to do with their approach. Over the past few years, I’ve been in a situation where hundreds of guys have asked me about the most effective ways to getting a woman sexually aroused.

So let’s discuss how to go about it the right way, because repeating the same mistakes can result in a failed relationship, infidelity, or an overall boring sex life.

Here’s what typically happens.

The guy becomes aware that he’s in the mood. Then, he decides to ask her if she wants to “do it” as if it’s an idea.

Of course, this isn’t the same as doing psychologically-proven techniques that get her biologically prepared for love-making.

In other words, asking her to participate in sex is not the same as “getting her horny”.

The goal isn’t to ask your not-in-the-mood woman to agree to have sex with you.

The goal is to get her turned on.

Below you will discover two powerful, but simple approaches to getting her in the mood.

Method #1: Make Her Feel Sexy

Making her feel “sexy” is not only effective for getting her prepared for sex, it’s something you should do because it makes her feel good.

Nothing feels greater to a woman, than knowing that the love of her life sees her as being sexually appealing.

As far as it being an effective tool for love-making, just understand that there is a reason why many women can get horny, just by putting on something sexy and looking in the mirror.

The good news is with a simple compliment and a little creativity; you can accomplish the task in a matter of seconds.

However, you should avoid cliché comments like: “You look sexy, today”.

Although, something like that could do the trick, you can create 77 times the impact by crafting your compliment the right way.

For example, you could say:

“You know what I think is sexy about you? You have the perfect smile. You care about others. You have the perfect toes. And you have a sexy way of walking. When I think about those things about you, it drives me crazy.”

Using the words “perfect” and “it drives me crazy” is very powerful

A good “sexy compliment” will include:

[1] Things that she believes
[2] Comments about her personality and…
[3] Comments about her physical appearance.

If she starts to blush uncontrollably, your mission was successful.

If we created a seduction formula based on this method (while including the element that makes it successful), then it would be:

=> Making Her Feel Sexy + Having Sexual Value = Sexual Arousal

Method #2: Get Her To Think About Sex

One of the easiest ways to get a woman sexually aroused is doing things that are scientifically proven to work.

For example, there have been numerous experiments performed where the woman’s mind was exposed to sexually charged scenes. In every case, something strange happens. The woman becomes sexually aroused.

When you want to get her emotionally and biologically prepared for sex, one of the easiest things you can do is glide the conversation to relationship topics. Then, find a reason to transition it to sexually charged topics.

Of course, you have to do this the right way.

There is a phenomenon that takes place where people uncontrollably identify with the characters in a story. Because we are sympathetic creatures, watching a sad movie is going to make you feel “the emotions of sadness”, even though you know the movie isn’t real.

So, if you want your female partner to experience “the emotions of sexual arousal”, then find reasons to tell sexually explicit stories in a way that doesn’t come off as creepy or perverted.

If you succeed at doing this, the experience will be the same as if she was day-dreaming about sex.

There is a skill to it though, because if it’s done the wrong way it makes things worse.

In addition to that, you must have “sexual value” (obviously).

So you can start out talking about a relationship topic. For example, “I know this guy named Jim who never had a girlfriend longer than 2 months.”

As you can see, that’s completely innocent, because there is nothing perverted about that.

So, let the conversation go wherever it goes, and then transition it to a “sexual topic”.

“The strange thing is his (Jim) relationships were full of intense love, mutual infatuation, super steamy sex, but after 2 months, everything just seemed to go away instantly. How is that possible? Have you ever had one relationship like that? The sex is steamy, passionate and full of love, but a few weeks later, all the feelings and energy are complete gone?”

As you can see, the story phenomenon is being used. So practice it, until you become good at it.

Again, it is a skill.

To be effective at it:

[1] You need to be able to tell interesting stories.
[2] You need to be able to speak in a way that “activates her imagination”

You should be already pretty good at telling stories, because it’s something that we all do when we just explain our experiences. Activating her imagination is something that happens naturally with the story. However

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At any rate, the rewards for exposing her mind to a “sexually charged” topic is no different that a man watching an intense porno scene.

* Men are most effectively stimulated VISUALLY.
* Women are most effectively stimulated THROUGH IMAGINATION

That’s why 95% of Porno Movies (visual stimulation) are bought by MEN.
That’s why 95% of Romance Novels (imagination-based stimulation) are bought by WOMEN.

That’s why if you do this method the right way she has no choice but to be sexually aroused. And I hope you are able to see that.

So if you decide to do 1 or both of these methods, make sure that your goal is to look for a change in her behavior. Look for an increase in affection, a giggly persona, and compliments. In fact, just pay to attention to anything that reveals that she was affected by what you did. Do not evaluate your skill at doing these methods based on whether or not she initiates sex.

If you do that, you’ll incorrectly come to the conclusion that you are not good at performing the techniques – or you’ll convince yourself that “these methods” don’t work on your woman – even though they are undeniable components of sexual arousal.

So if we created a seduction formula based on the second method (while including the element that makes it successful), then it would be:

=> Activating Her Sexual Imagination + Having Sexual Value = Sexual Arousal

In other words, if a “creepy guy”, “perverted guy “, “strung out junkie”, “guy she doesn’t respect” or any “low valued guy” is Super Skilled at activating her imagination, she obviously isn’t going to be turned on (sexually aroused).

It works both ways.

For example, if you know a female co-worker, or neighbor, or a female friend who has an attractive body and face, then what would happen if you are just shooting the breeze with her for 10 minutes and suddenly sees says I’ll be right back. Two minutes later, she returns completely naked wearing nothing but red stockings. It’s obvious what she wants from you. And now you are happily stunned as you look at her. Well guess what?

You simply can NOT say “Wow those red stockings got be sexually aroused because it activated my sexual imagination of what I want to do you right now!”

The reason why you can NOT say that is because if a 923lb woman “pulled the same naked-red-stockings trick”, it’s not going to have the same affect. (I’m guessing)

However, you CAN tell the attractive co-worker (or whoever you imagined wearing the red stockings) “Wow those red stockings PLUS YOUR SEXUAL APPEAL (i.e. Female Sexual Value) got me sexually aroused because blah blah blah….

Does that make sense?

Take care

Warmly,
CR James

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