Interesting Questions (Issue #002)
Inside this issue:
- The “flaws” of body language
- 6 basic human desires
- The 3 things that stop women from wanting sex
CR James
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Hey Mr. James,
Thanks a lot for a month back. The super compliments work like a charm! The girl I had issues with is now all over me. We are closer than ever before, and she is doing so many nice things for me. It is unbelievable the nice things she does for me.
Just yesterday, she drove down 1.5 hours from her home to come with me to a Broadway show. Best of yet, she paid for the tickets!!! Unbelievable!!! I don't know what to say. It happened.
Those super compliments have also been handy with other women. I am in a class with a bunch of GORGEOUS women, and these women have taken a further interest in me. A lot of them are offering themselves up like candy.
Super compliments with super seduction powers and lust buttons for the win!!!
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Hi CR,
thanks! I am doing amazingly well!
In fact, I was just about to write to you a little note with a bit of feedback.
The Secret Pattern brings everything to a new level. But not from 2 or 3 to 4.... IT is like going to level 7 or 8.
I have started using it 7 days ago and although there are some other things going on I am sure it plays a big part.
I have [done something] every day ( ????, ????, ????, ????...etc.) I had planned to increase the intensity for two hours but never managed to get to the end... and we ended up having long love making sessions every single night with increasing intensity.
She tells me every night that she is getting addicted to it and how happy she is to have found her man....(her words)
I don't even put much planning in it... The pattern is easy to repeat and then I just choose the ingredients for the night when i come home...
So, 10 out of 10 for this one!!!!
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Thanks James, Really appreciate the response and info.
I’ve been reading the part of MFM and I find it so much along my line of thoughts and observations since I’ve been married these past 12 years. Like you I have been obsessive about how I can make my wife want me and desire me more often and I totally agree with the persona thing, health, and creating the right atmosphere, etc.
It really works because I don’t believe I’ve ever been turned down unless she was on her period, had the flu, etc., she really is a great partner for me…
I mean we have sex on an average of 1/day, seriously I not trying to brag, but maybe some couples have it more often…I don’t really know.
It’s what I’ve watched and learned about her and it is true when these things are clicking she becomes more mentally in “the mood” to have sex.
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YOU SIR… ARE A GENIUS.
YOUR ABILITY TO PICK IT ALL APART THEN PUT IT BACK TOGETHER SO IT CAN WORK FOR A MAN IS UNMATCHED.
I’VE GAINED SO MUCH INSIGHT INTO THE FEMALE MIND SINCE DOWNLOADING YOUR MATERIAL, I’M ALMOST OVERWHELMED.
I’VE TRIED JUST A BIT HERE AND THERE IN THE LAST FEW DAYS AND THE RESULTS ARE INCREDIBLE!
ICAN’T WAIT UNTIL IT BECOMES AUTOMATIC, LIKE ANYTHING YOU PRACTICE AT, YOU’LL JUST GET BETTER AND BETTER.
I READ THE REPORTS ON MY LUNCH HOUR, AND AGAIN WHEN I GET HOME, IWANT IT TO SINK IN BUT GOOD AND SATURATE MY BEING WITH IT, BECAUSE IF JUST A LITTLE CAN DO SO MUCH, THEN HAVING “IT” ALL THE TIME, HAS TO BE BETTER.
DAMN, JUST THE INSIGHTS I’VE GAINED ALONE ON THE WAY A FEMALE COMMUNICATES HAS MADE AWORLD OF DIFFERENCE. I’VE BEEN LOOKING FOR INFORMATION LIKE THIS ALL MY LIFE,
WHAT YOU HAVE HERE IS A TRUE TREASURE OF KNOWLEDGE,
IT’S WHAT EVERY YOUNG MANWISHES HE HAD BEEN TOLD BY HIS DAD AND MORE.
THIS IS TRULY CHANGING MY LIFE EVEN AS I WRITE THIS,
I COULD NEVER THANK YOU ENOUGH. AS YOU CAN SEE, I’M ONE HAPPY CUSTOMER.
GOD, I WISH I KNEW THIS STUFF YEARS AGO.
THANK YOU SO MUCH, YOUR THE REAL DEAL, A REAL, TRUE GENIUS
SINCERELY, RON
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I am a Mensa and my wife was a systems analyst before she retired.
I am spending my energies on trying to see and hear what is real.
This is what I have gotten in the first 26 pages. I am really getting to the point of all this great recommendation. Or perhaps I should just tell you the problem I have been having in my life – because I firmly believe that if I can completely solve just one thing and understand it fully I will understand everything. (otherwise nothing is connected and this is impossible). …
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I love being better equipped to figuring out what’s going on in a woman’s head (things even she doesn’t know are going on) and watching (sometimes with frightening predictability) the responses to what I’m doing or saying… press this button, does this; press that button, does that… mmm wonder what happens if I press em both at once… ;) If you’ve got any other material out since I purchased SSP, def interested – I’m sending a mate or two, and both my brothers, your way too.
Dunno whether you’ve considered translating any of it, but my old man does freelance translating into both french and spanish!
Seriously, the world needs this.
but you knew this already…
Anyway, if you want an endorsement for your page or whatever, all I could say is this…
Is your wife/girlfriend, or more importantly, *your* life, worth more than 40 bucks?
If not hit the little cross in the corner of your browser :)
thanks again
Cool Bruce ******
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“WOW! Your material is excellent.
I have bought a lot of seduction books because being by nature an introvert I realized that my interpersonal skills were a weakness that could keep me from achieving my goals. Anyway, the mind state theory you have is CRAZY. I [do a secret technique] and when I go out I can feel women drawn tome, INSANE.
I tried an experiment yesterday with mind state when I went out for breakfast. The cute waitress kept her hand on my shoulder the entire time she was around my table. I have two questions. [removed]
R.P.
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Hi CR,
Just wanted to say thanks for all the reports you send, I really enjoy your writings and your sense of humor in presenting them.
I have purchased most of your books online Thanks for your time, B.M.
Greenville SC
PS I did practice some of your techniques and saw alot of success with them,also had a lot of fun with them.
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Thank you very much!!! Now, on to driving my wife crazy with orgasms… oh, by the way – a little philosophy of mine…
She’s 47, hot, but her libido has dropped in the last 2 years. I’m doing things to attract her sexually and emotionally – [by doing all of the things mentioned in Super Seduction Power] I lovingly look out for her interests continually, but sometimes let her be independent and ‘do things on her own’. We do fun and adventurous things, and travel some, too.
It’s true – women want [a man to be a Certain Way]
I have found that it’s so important for a man to be older and more experienced in everything – including sex, and to do things right from the beginning – for the respect, love, kindness, fun, and sex in the relationship. The saying…“Women are like carpet, and need to be laid right the first time”. Has some truth to it.
Whether he knows it or not, the man sets the tone for how the woman responds to him, how much she will respect and admire him, value him, and for how well she responds to him sexually. Wives must literally be ‘broke in right’, and taught how to respond to a loving caring, manly, and sexual man. A woman who learns to trust him – because he is trustworthy; and give herself completely and happily to him sexually because he knows how to attract, seduce, and sexually drive her wild is a very blest little honey with a very wise man.
That’s the path I’m on. She is pretty well trained. I love my wife, and want to totally screw her brains out – with her enjoying every bit of it. The goal of every husband – or it should be!
Thanks for your kindness and great customer service!
M
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Hi CR,
First off, thank you very much for replying to me. You must be a pretty busy guy, and getting this kind of support from you is amazing.
I have purchased a couple of your products, and I like them. I particularly like the way you break down your ideas conceptually, rather than the ‘this technique’ and ‘that technique’ approach that is so common.
I’ve read over what you have written a couple of times, with a day or two between readings to take the time to ponder it a bit.
Truthfully, you make more sense to me than any other counselor I’ve been to.
I’ve also tended to read a lot of relationship stuff in the past couple of years in an attempt to be a better partner myself, and those I consider to be the best pretty much echo what you say, though none say it so humanly or so precisely (and frankly, none of them are as interesting, either!)
Sincerely,
D. F.
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CR James
Thank you for your material!
Your techniques have already given me amazing progress!
I actually have had two different girls (an 8 and a 9) come up to me and say there was something different they liked about me but didn't know what it was. If I wasn't using your material to try and save my marriage I would be out dating hot babes right now instead of emailing you.
Thank you for being one of the few guys out there that help men find the knowledge they really need to build a happy balanced relationship.
Your material more than pays for itself in the first day.
My self confidence has sky rocketed 200%!!!
You’re a life saver,
Jason
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Hi CR
If you are interested to know, things have moved so fast!
I am absolutely hooked on your stuff.Am about a quarter of the way thru your main [Super Seduction Power] book and have been applying a few things.
She said there was nothing in the report she would fall for but after that she became freakin’ ravenous!
-During dinner asked me what my biggest sexual fantasy was and when I told her she said yes she would enjoy it
- Proceeded to tell me she would do anything other than anal but wanted to be tied up and taken
- After dinner she dragged me into the bedroom and gave me a blow job (first one since, sheesh, I can’t remember when!)
- We then went to the mall for a while, on the way there she tells me we should hire some XXX DVDs from the video shop and watch them at the weekend (this after going ape-shit once after finding an old porn mag I had stashed under a bookcase!)
- Got home and she shoves me down on the coach - another blow job
- Then disappears into the bedroom and comes back with a draw full of sex toys (that we hadn’t used since I can’t remember when)
- Jumps on top of me and rides herself silly
- Races off to the bedroom again and comes back with a pair of red high-heeled shoes. She puts these on as then that makes her the perfect height for her to bend herself over the arm of coach while I then have my way with her!
Lets say I’m now looking forward to the weekend.
Regards
Michael
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Dear Mr. James,
I just have to write and tell you something.
You have changed my life.
Let me explain. I am a good looking, physically fit, successful, 37 year old man. I have no trouble meeting women.
But after 11 years of friendship I came to realize that I could never settle down with any woman because I would always compare them to my best friend.
She is a beautiful, successful woman, who I have a strong connection to. For years our friends wondered out loud how come we didn't date...I was at the end of my rope but after some hesitation I bought your materials.
Thank you thank you thank you, Mr. James.
We are now exclusively dating each other and we both are very happy. And, I just bought your new reports...and we just had the best sex ever!
She came on to me so hard, it was so out of her character. But I just followed your techniques and they worked like a charm.
It is amazing how I do the things you suggest wondering "is this really going to work" then I get the results just as you say.
So glad I found you and had the balls to purchase. If all those guys looking for miss right at these on line dating services would just spend 1 month enrollment fee on your books, they would never have to waste a dime on those dating sites.
Good for you Mr. James.
But better for us. Thanks Again. I look forward to your new books. You better e-mail me any time you write something new.
Matt
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Hey CR James It's Richardo from Jamaica its been a long time since I emailed you.
I really love your reports dude and I think your a fucking master mind at hacking chicks brains.
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Hey CR
I finally got my girl back. I used those techniques on her...
The next time I saw her she admitted she couldn't stop thinking about me, even while she was on holiday.
Im gonna re-read all your reports now, also, can you give any extra tips, so I dont lose her again?
I honestly cannot thank you enough, you are a genius!
If anyone has any doubts about your work, they need their head testing!!!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
WD
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I recently purchased SSP.
Let me start by saying YOU DA MAN.
I am forty years old and have been married for twenty years and because of you, I now know what the problem was. I started using your techniques and saw results in a week. And when I say results, I mean I could predict her reactions and even almost control them.
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Frank | Reply
Lets have at it!!!!
Thanks CR..
Frank
Instructor CR James | Reply
you’re welcome
-cr
Anthony | Reply
I know you talk about how its proven and studies showing men and women having differences in their brains etc..
Women being more emotional.
But there was this theory i read online recently saying that how were noted changes our brain, so women can have a more manly less emotional brain..
They basically said that we are the same just different body parts. But that cant be true because healthy women have higher estorgen while healthy men have higher testosterone. Therefore our brains and other parts working inside of us have to be slightly different. I think we’re more different than just have different plumbing and reproductive organs.
I think women are just biologically different than men because even without the social programming, underneath it all at our natural animal states, men are more dominant and stronger (we have bigger muscles and bigger for a reason) while women are more nurturing and emotional for a reason.
So we can easily compliment each other and attraction is just natural. It’s about finding the women who are most compatible and suit me best.
I know that’s proven and if you look back all throughout history its how it was. But just wondering on the brain part… if the most recent studies trump any other crap theories that we have the same brains.
Even thought everyone is slightly different anyways but generally. It doesn’t matter anyways just out of curiosity.
Anthony
Instructor CR James | Reply
Hey Anthony…
It’s pretty interesting. Initially, everywhere I read suggested that the “corpus callosum” (in the brain) was physically different in men and women, but according to wikipedia and other sources, they kind of say that those claims vary.
I agree with much of what you are saying. And I also think much of compatibility is based on “chemical ranges”.
It’s almost like there isn’t just male or female. You could almost make the case there there are technically 5-10+ genders.
And a person is biologically attracted to a specific range.
And it seems to transcend sexuality. So if a high testosterone lesbian (i.e. “butchy type”) has a pattern of being with soft feminine women, they tend to reject another “butchy type” with the same intensity as a straight-man rejecting the idea of being with another man.
-CR
CF | Reply
Thanks, CR,
Great stuff. I like your style.
Did you ever do any research on the [censored]?
Just curious… LOL
Thanks,
CF
Instructor CR James | Reply
Thanks CF!
I appreciate that…
anthony | Reply
You talked about the scarcity and abundance. You say we should act like we are a scarcity to the women so they will want it more because women love rare things especially rare men. Did i understand that right? But what about the abundance/scarcity mindset in life.
I know having and abundance mindset is great to have and feels a lot better. Like knowing there will always be a woman for em in the world because there’s an abundance. That kind of abundance mindset is good for MY LIFE i know. But when it comes to being around a women i have to show that im rare kind of right?
Instructor CR James | Reply
Exactly.
I agree 100% with that.
This (what’s been stating in that report) is not in conflict with that.
In the report, it’s been stated that if the sex life has dwindled it could be a result of an abundance of “sex availability” (ie the idea that she can “get it” whenever she wants)… stated more accurately, it’s REALLY the perception that creates the problems more so than the ‘actual’ availability…
So in many cases, a woman “kind of” knows that she can get it whenever she wants, but it doesn’t necessarily create any major (or noticeable) changes….
On the other hand, there could be another woman who PERCEIVES the “over-availability” MORE. In other words, she is “hyper-focused” on this, and as a result it her level of desire could be affected much differently…
And if you really wanted to break it down, different women have different levels of “scarcity/abundance” sensitivity…
In fact, in other reports I started that single guys should have a mind state of abundance (in terms of perceiving the many choices/women that are out there)…because when you do that, you are not likely to OVERVALUE one woman – something that “stalker guys” do.
In general, the one (guy or girl) who has the “scarcity mindset” typically will be the one demonstrates value…
So if a woman has a scarcity mindstate – in terms of thinking YOU are rare and one-of-a-kind, then she is going see YOU as amazing…
But again, scarcity all by itself doesn’t do anything. There has to be initial value…
You just can’t just walk up to a hot sexy woman with crumbs all on your shirt and a Kool-aid mustache and say “Do you know that I’m the only ME on planet Earth? So if you’re a good girl, I’ll let you have sex with ME?”
Franklyn | Reply
Hi, how are you doing?
I’m not sure, but do virgins(girls) get wet?
Franklyn
Instructor CR James | Reply
Yeah. When they forget their umbrella…
-CR
William McMillen | Reply
I need an old man-old woman package. We’ve been married 38 years. I was 25 and she was 17. Now we are both so old and life so depressing that nothing can get us out of the ruts. It is so rare for the wife to ever be open to anything having to do with sex that when something is suggested I now tend to just run with fear. I have lost all confidence in my ability to perform at all let alone well. Help!!! We have both tried medications and though they work they make me sick. Blood pressure is a big concern and I just can’t go that route. For her its a matter that you need to desire in order to want to take the meds and there purpose is to give her the chemicals that give some desire. Sooooo! As the male I used to count the months since the last attempt. Found it useless and gave it up. I fear that I will next discover that a year has gone by without sex. That can’t be healthy and I know there has to be a solution somewhere. most of your customers appear to be 30 – 50 years old. If you’ve got something for a lot older folk please let us know.
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