The Reason Why Her Boyfriend Is A NON-FACTOR!
Hi CR-
Congratulations!
You must be high after the shocking cowboy killing in their last stadium meet. Have to say the Hips thing is good stuff- I love that kinda stuff.
I wrote you awhile back about this sexy woman at work maybe you remember the artsie/fartsie, outward funky clothing jewelry type woman, slender and sexy, highly emotional, ( I sense even though she doesn’t show her temper I know its there), horse loving, very romantic type woman with no kids (selfish) and newly married to a guy I believe might even wipe her when she’s finished.
Like you said in past reports women get bored or disrespectful towards overly coddling men. She has an over signal of attention from him but little attention or appreciation from her boss at work-this guy also makes her or buys her lunch makes her dinner every day, picks her up drops her off on time no matter what.
I remember when I met him I thought he was gay-he’s an architect and so is a landscape architect, her last husband was a beating lawyer, so I sense she values status a great deal.
She refers to him often or enough.
Anyway she acts at times like she is a little addicted to me, flirty smiles and touches me alot now, but by practicing your suggestion (hips) on showing over the top interest in her horses may help push her to be fully addicted along with other stuff. I don’t think her force field is real strong but strong enough to prevent getting too addicted to me. She is a guilty girl type.
Do you think the chance of getting her addicted 50%, 70, 100 from the compacted info I just gave you? How difficult and what may I expect I couldn’t see this woman letting me know very easily she jumped in the ocean? Maybe she would suggest going out for wine after work, or lunch or meet me at the private empty downstairs gym after work-who knows shes hard for me to figure because she is a little flakey- an old girl friend at work said she was real insecure.
Thanks,
PS the self righteous type women that commented on the blog kinda makes me feel a little like guilty guy grabs his rosary.
Hey Gary!!
Yeah.. It almost made up for last week’s lost against the Steelers.
With the info you gave, your chances are really good!!!
In fact, it’s just a matter of time…
(Her boyfriend is a non-factor!)
Whether it’s a 77% chance or a 97% chance… it all depends on:
How much “meaningful” INFO you continue to gather about HER + applying the info the right way…
As far as the 3 Addiction Ingredients (from Super Attraction Power)
Ingredient #1: Feel Good
Ingredient #2: Sexual Value
Ingredient #3: Building A Strong Connection (or perception of connection)
You’ll want to focus on each one in the right way…
Her current boyfriend has already lost her and doesn’t even realize it!
- Find out everything that makes her feel good (events, experiences, comments, backrubs, etc.).
Go on a secret mission to discover everything.
You want to not only KNOW MORE about what makes her feel good than ANY OTHER MAN, but you’ll also want to be the best at smoothly executing those things in a way that feels real to her and natural.
You’ll want to especially pay attention to the things that guys in her past done to make her feel good (about her identity, about her experiences and about her accomplishments, etc.)
Be sure to do those 3 things exceptionally well…
And you can use her current experiences (with other guys) as a guide, because every woman has her “own definition/interpretation” of what it takes for a guy (YOU) to make her FEEL GOOD ABOUT HER IDENTITY…
- As far as SV (Sexual Value) — for this girl — continue to get more info on her ex-hubbie (the lawyer guy) and OTHER guys (from her past) who “once-had-SV-but-doesnt-anymore”…
Do whatever you can do to get her to reveal ALL of the traits that make those guys “losers” (i.e. selfish, rude, irresponsible, etc)…
And also get her to reveal the traits that she’s responsive to (i.e caring, thoughtful, self-assured, funny, optimistic, “real”, etc.)…
<< Note: You should always elicit [get her to tell you] her RECENT list negative traits – which are based on the most recent negative experiences. This will not only allow you to know what NOT to do, but it will allow you to know what things to do MORE OF (for your Target Woman)… That way you can press her Pleasure Buttons like crazy….and to her, it just feels like you are an amazing guy because it’s true… it takes an amazing guy to calmly respect a woman enough to understand what makes her tick… >>
Her: Can you believe he actually….
From those stories, you can “decode” the EMOTION…
For example, if it’s “Can you believe he actually forgot to introduce me to his friend. Then you know that she HATES feeling unimportant or unacknowledged…more so than the average woman…
So you would go on a “campaign” (strategy w/ a series on ongoing tactics) to make her FEEL acknowledged – more so than any other guy…
Also, become the guy that sees her as the Youthful Girl (this is based on specific info that you gave me). Do a good job of making her feel sexy in this way.. PLUS….
Forget about doing any Force Field Tactics (i.e. getting past her current boyfriend) because I think it would be a waste of time…
Based on what you said, her current boyfriend’s Sexual Value is So “Embarrassingly” LOW, it’s not even funny.
You should treat her like she is single and disparately looking…
Seriously!
- Continue to understand how to make her feel good (in EVERY possible way)
- Continue to build a strong/deep connection OR the “perception” of a strong/deep connection
If you do those things, her current boyfriend has already lost her and doesn’t even realize it…





