Warning: Dangerous Usage of SSP Techniques [Part 2]
Ok, i decided that today, I’m just going to put everything on this page (that you are on right now). There’s nothing to download.
As you know, I really enjoy providing valuable “lessons” that you can use – “lessons” that allow you to experience the results – “lessons” that most people are not talking about (or thinking about)…
Do you remember The email about the guy who seduced his wife using a created character generated more responses that I expected it would.
[Note: Click Here To Read Part 1]
My intent was to inspire guys to think outside of the box + silently let people know that GetHerHorny.com will end Feb 6, at 11:59 PM midnight — or — when 500 copies are sold.
But something else happened my friend…
A lot of people emailed.
And they fell in two categories.
(1) Either they did the same thing (or something similar) OR
(2) they had strong feelings about ‘his technique’…
then he emailed again – this time providing step by step instructions.
there’s more to it (apparently)…you see exactly what i mean in a second (because i’ve posted the new email, so you can read what he made his wife do…
After, reading the email, there were 2 things I quickly realized
#1) he combined principles from several of my reports (as he admitted). in my analysis, the whole technique [Step 1 - Step 11] is probably best described as a Smiley Face + SSU Mind Control hybrid with splashes of other concepts.
Although, the long term affects could be dangerous, the “preparation” + “the artful blending of seductive ingredients” is impressive.
#2) he prepared what he was going to do ahead of time. he was his own “coach”.
coaches get their teams prepared. could you imagine a football coach who didn’t alert (and prepare) his team of what to expect and what to do?
It wouldn’t matter how “skilled” the players were, the team would get embarrassed!
from the perspective of “getting results” you must:
Be Prepared + Have The Skills
Ok…
So here’s where it gets really crazy. Obviously you read the first email and you got an idea of what he did. Look at the “new email” – and you’ll see for yourself what I mean by:
Being Prepared + Having The Skills = Getting Results
| Hey CRI noticed you used my email in your report today! Cool! I’d love to know what kind of feedback you get.BTW, you didn’t need to use “Jason”, cuz “Colin” isn’t my real name either! LOL. In fact “Colin” is the guy I made up…she’s a big fan of actor Colin Firth!Anyway, you said you were interested in more details. I’ll give you some quick ones off the top of my head
STEP 1. I have studied her intensely over the years and found out what makes her tick sexually. This is HUGE if you’re going to try something like this. She likes smart, tall guys who make her feel smart because she’s with them (insecurity). She’s competitive. She’s fun outside bed…games, dancing, “doing” stuff! She’s a talky, people person, and an addicted “Texter”. She’s insecure about her looks (like all women). She’s not exactly sexually innovative. In order to get her to do more adventurous stuff it takes a lot of effort on my part to lay the groundwork. However, if I do my part, she’s got a real “gambler” side to her and will take risks. STEP 2. So, I took all that and created this guy. He’s a drama teacher. He’s a few years younger than her. He’s tall, etc. He’s ‘fun’. He’s an actor and a ‘do-er’ where her husband is more of a stay-at-home bookish type. The first few emails were him just calling her “adorable” and asking her to just talk. STEP 3. This takes patience. It took probably 3 weeks of very skeptical emails, and me saying “no, it’s OK…I trust you” in “real” life for her to finally get into it a bit. STEP 4. My ultimate goal was to create a “safe” place for her to explore a different side to her sexuality. STEP 9. He’s a combination of overly-cute romantic and down-and-dirty…he uses stupid emoticons like crazy and calls her all kinds of cute little nicknames…and then texts her and asks her to do the nastiest things with ME, but to think of HIM while she’s doing it. It’s a POWERFUL combination. STEP 10. I have him email her or text her for “Dates”. He tells her when he’s going to be “thinking” about her and she’s to have sex with me at the same time. CR, she’ll do anything to make it happen…she’ll rush the kids down to the basement to play…she’ll come into my home office and pull her pants down and say “do me”. It’s unbelievable! STEP 11. I’m going to get caught eventually. I realize that. That’s the BAD part of all this. I know she’ll forgive me when it happens, but that definitely might not be the case for all your readers if they tried something like this. I know my wife, and she wouldn’t be upset with me. The part she would be upset about is that the “third part endorsement” wasn’t real…and she might not feel sexy anymore. That makes me sad and makes me caution strongly against using this “technique” in this fashion…but like I said, I think there are principals here that back up some of your theories that could be applied without taking it to the extreme that I have. That’s all for now…more later if you want to discuss this further… Thanks “Colin” ################### hey colin, very interesting. i used the “jason” name to hide YOUR identity and come to this ‘digital seducer’ is taking over your life. pretty soon, he’ll be taking your kids to baseball games! at any rate, excellent email. lol i agree with you that it was a dangerous technique, but i had no idea if someone forced me to be brutally honest, i would have to say: “that’s funny, creative, dangerous, and brilliant at the same time” and yes, there was a lot of feedback… some people did something similar in the past… others cautioned against the long term effects… i was just helping a guy who was struggling with understanding “preparation + skills” and for this technique, you definitely get an A+ for both parts. especially when i read: “she’ll come into my home office and pull her pants down and say “do me”. It’s unbelievable!” …simply because while she was doing that, somewhere else on the planet there was a guy begging his “sighing” wife to give him some tonight… at any rate, keep me posted to how things go. lol take care warmly |
The 3 Lessons
Lesson #1: Prepare.
He studied his wife. he found out her ideal guy. he found out what turns HER ON…based on understanding HER.
Lesson #2: Be creative.
There’s ways to get the same benefits (if not greater)
if you create the sub-personality within yourself. meaning, if your name is bob,
then in the bed (especially when you see her behaving in a “horny manner”)
refer to yourself as Sexy Bob (or Ultra Sexy Bob – or Sex Master Bob, etc.)
You: “So you like the way Super Sexy Bob kisses between your thighs?
(presto! you just created a new “sub-persona”)
he even acknowledged that the same principles could be used in a less dangerous way. At the same, he was thinking outside the box. you can’t ignored that.
Lesson #3: Become skilled.
Teams win championships because they are not only “prepared” but they have “players with skill”.
Understand what turns her on and create “a process” that uses that information.
Become skilled.
It’s that simple.
You should always be paying attention to ‘ways’ other guys have turned on women.
This trains your brain to understand What Actually Works. That’s why good teams practice better and more often.
I saw a boxer fight a few months ago annihilate his opponent.
The whole fight the announcers kept talking about how this is one of the most “skilled” boxers they have seen in a long time.
After the fight he said something powerful:
“it’s all about preparation. the fight doesn’t take place in the ring.
it takes place in the gym.
he “prepared” and then he “launch the attack” (using his skills)
just like “colin”.
Here’s an interesting analysis of the “colin” technique
from a guy who wants to share “his take” on it…
| I thought that the email was very interesting and powerful, so thanks for sharing it.I do think that it would work, but for the wrong reasons. As you have taught us to increase our sexual value, I think doing this would somewhat undermine it for the long term.Allow me to explain.Everyone likes to feel that they are attractive and desirable. It is a basic human need.I think you could risk your wife falling for this “fantasy man” as she thinks of a man that is bigger than life.Infatuation is a powerful feeling and it could actually act as a wedge.Granted, initially, it would make your wife feel horny and wanting sex.
Since a husband is an easy target for relief, she would pursue you initially to get relief.After a while she would become dissatisfied thinking that you are not living up to the sexual prowess of the “mystery man”. I found this to be very intriguing and thought provoking, but I am thinking he is seeing the desired results for the wrong reasons. [Steve] |
Here’s a guy WARNING others not
to try the “colin” technique because
he has been there and done that…
| Hi CRI do not normally respond to your good quality materials.And good quality I mean, because I passed on a small passage of how to treat a woman to a guy whose marriage was not on the rocks but under the rock; a heavy rock at that, it’s as if I was a counselor with spell binding hypnotic power the couple is madly in love again and there is nothing that pleases me more.That aside the three steps are wicked but true, you need to be full of self control and stop, if you think it’s getting too wild.
I did this to my wife of 14 years and the results are mind blowing. I have not been that physically fit for a number of years but I am good, yet when I unleashed the secret admirer texts and emails from my undisclosed mobile and email, I was summoned to the valley of sweetness more that the meals I take in a day, on a daily basis for at least three weeks. I had to beg for a slow down and faked asthmatic attacks to get the required sympathy. We are now going easy but still can’t complain at all. The thing is she never told me why she suddenly became sooooo aroused she just said I was now more appealing, but I know that it wasn’t true, I left it at that up to now no mention of it. CR the danger is if she wont tell you the cause, yet you know the cause and she doesn’t know that you know, the DANGER PART is she may try this out in your absence or given the slightest of opportunities….so those who want to try it can do, but be warned this can freak the living daylights out of you. Cheers [Rodney] ########### hey [Rodney] thanks for the insight, i greatly appreciate it… so are you saying that YOU actually did the same thing wow i have to agree, it could be dangerous for all for the reasons you mentioned… there are definitely safer ways to do it (with the same benefit of enjoying the softness of an ‘aggressively motivated woman’)… but i think it’s not only a perfect illustration of the 3 steps it’s in direct alignment with one of the “10″ Pathways to INTENSE Sexual Arousal (“extreme horniness”) which are: [removed] [*** i decided to put the 10 pathways to INTENSE Sexual Arousal in the GetHerHorny.com book. So to be fair to the paying customers, that information is exclusive.] Do you recall what the “created admirer told her”? What kind of things were you saying? Thanks again… |
Here is a “supporter” of the controversial “colin” technique.
Oh yeah, he also talks about the creepy Bino Man
Chick the link to read the “funny” email (it’s a separate post)
