Interesting Questions (Issue #010)
Inside this issue:
- The Party Girl
- How To Step Into Her World
- What You Can Learn From Fake Psychics
- Two Streams Of Sexual Tension
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The 10 Distinctions Between
Super Desirable Guys And Average Guys
Matt | Reply
CR,
Hey man, I think it is great that you are continuing to help as many people
as you do, it shows that you are really committed to helping rather than
your own profiteering. I would also like to comment that your most recent
report “Interesting Questions,” sparked something interesting I have been
seeing a lot lately.
Have you noticed a trend in society lately that the “Pussification of Manhood”
has taken a severe upward trend?
I understand that movies, TV, and other forms of entertainment have an
influence, but
THIS IS EPIDEMIC!
I have a friend whom after dating a great woman, for a long while, decided
to tie the knot. They were a great couple and he made sure to balance his
man time with his romantic time. His confidence with her never swayed, and
she trusted him.
Fast forward a while and she has trouble with him joining the rest of the
fellows for poker night, and he has reservation about her hanging out with
her sister and mother?!?
I asked him about it, and his reply was similar to the guys sending you these
problems lately…
THEY LOST THE TRUST
I think they secretly have lost the trust in themselves, and are imprinting
that on the closest thing to them, in these examples, their significant
others.
My girlfriend and I have established that communication that I think is
MORTALLY VITAL to any lasting relationship, and I thought we were setting
a good example to follow. If I do something that upsets her, she lets me know
immediately, and I do the same with her. I am a complete person, with or
without her and she is the same. We are not two halves that make a whole,
or any of that Oprah-Hollywood-Cosmo-Woman’s Day-fake-made up-BULLSHIT
excuse for a relationship.
We built this relationship TOGETHER, she knows her responsibilities, and
I know mine. We have had some great adventures together, and every
day, I am teaching and learning. We both view a relationship as a process,
not a goal. We get to relate to each other, we are not in a “thing” called a
relationship.
I think a lot of couples are missing that.
The second thing, and this is even more important, is that I know my responsibilities.
I MUST BE A MAN FOR MY WOMAN
I must make sure I am that man that swept her off her feet,
the man she fell in love with. If I ever start to forget that then I have
instantly become a LIAR to that woman, and that, I think is a MAJOR problem
today.
Guys have to wake up and remember, she was looking when she found you,
and women the same.
Men have to:
- take the pussy-blinders off
- make sure you are not turning into some self-made-insecure-whiny-snot-nosed-brat
- and stand up as a MAN for your woman.
I hope that with your guidance, and guys like you, society can wake up soon and
start to get it, I know I do and I feel like we are a dying breed…
I look forward to more from you!
- Matt
San Antonio, Texas
P.S. That Alex punk should be flogged with a dead fish for not exploring that treasure
of a bisexual woman. The horror!
Instructor CR James | Reply
Hey Matt
Excellent points!
Society needs to wake up..
I’m glad there’s still a few guys out there who have their eyes open and realize that it is an epidemic that’s taken place.
If you tell most people this they think you’re crazy or trying to be funny…
If you look at TV shows, movies and even commercials, there’s this typical “dad/husband persona” that’s getting worse and worse…
He’s getting more pussified as you mentioned.
The woman is becoming increasingly bossy and massively annoying. And for some reason her behavior is acceptable and “normal”…
There’s this commercial that’s been running (for one of the electronic stores.. best buy maybe..not really sure)… where the “guy” is being dragged through the mall and he’s trying to sneak a peak at the football game on the big screens and she yells at him like he’s a child to follow her to the next store…
It’s crazy…
You’re right, we are a dying breed…
Guy need to wake up from their “pussy trance” fast…