Comments on: She’s only nice to him when she wants sex…

By: James

James — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 20:42:06 +0000

The whole situation sounds really bad. The woman is definitely not respecting him. I left my first wife because of the lack of respect, and I would do it again. Marriage is supposed to be a life-long event, but you can’t spend your entire life with someone that does not respect you. A relationship should be a two-way street, and you should feel comfortable expecting everything that you put in to the relationship.

By: Austin0007

Austin0007 — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 18:55:25 +0000

Hi CR

She sounds like a spoilt misery-making-mentalist. Explain briefly and firmly about treating others as you would wish to be treated. If that doesn’t work, be unpredictable and hardly ever give her what she wants when she wants it. Reward her with sex etc only after 3/7/14/28/64/360 or whatever days of good behaviour, one incident of bad behaviour, the 7 days, or whyatever period, starts again. And keep this up: you will have to be stronger than her.
That’s the only way I can see of turning the relationship situation around.

I left the woman who was mother of my children because she refused to be accountable to me although I was willing to be accountable to her. She believed too much in that “girl-power” nonsense, after I got with her. It became a nightmare. I wasn’t strong enough or didn’t have the right strategies to turn it around her belief. In the end I decided, right, “I’m not going to be accountable to you” and went and did what ever I wanted, including leaving.

Women respect you more if you stick to your values and what is right, even if they don’t want it that way. You made many mistakes from the very beginning by changing so many things for her. She lost respect for you right there and then. Mine respects me now, even though we are not together. She got a bit twisted for a few years that I left and still wanted to see the children, lawyers etc, but she respects me now.

A living together/marriage relationship can, in my opinion, only work happily when there is respect and accountability both ways.

Please, please, please I would like you (CR) to write up a product that makes relationships & marriages work and keeps the woman faithful etc., that would be great. I have several friends who would buy such a product and there is a gap in the market. Women have a book called “The Rules”, we men need an equivalent and I wish CR James were the man to write it.

God Bless.

By: Don

Don — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 04:14:25 +0000

C.R.

I am with you and Obbie on this one. Dump the bitch. The sex might be good but rare. Why not get a woman that respects him, and have sex daily, or when you are both in the mood.

By: Luigi

Luigi — Sat, 22 Oct 2011 18:22:54 +0000

didn’t you write it?! lol

By: Archie

Archie — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 18:06:54 +0000

Will not all young women but most is immature but there are young women who is mature. Maybe he could talk to her and be more assertive about what she’s putting him through and express his feelings to her and tell her what he would like of her. Or maybe he could change his ways around her or he could do both. I do however agree with you he maybe needs someone else. But he should give his girl another chance to change if not then he should leave her.

By: Josh

Josh — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 23:19:28 +0000

She sounds like an A-1 bitch. Move on grow a backbone, there are millions of them out there find one that isn’t a bitch!!!

By: Jacques

Jacques — Mon, 07 Feb 2011 09:01:33 +0000

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By: Jacques

Jacques — Mon, 07 Feb 2011 08:39:06 +0000

I’m a lot like you CR I’m an Electronics Engineer, a life coach and a trainer of Alpha Women. THis guy has his hands full and I know the lawyer wasn’t paid off she was fucking him too these two lawyers probably struck up a deal. I deal with these women all the time, from Ukraine and Romania their economy sucks and they go out looking for support, just as many Asian women do. I don’t blame her but him he’s just too nice and having a mom and sister as role models tells me, he was raised as a girlie man. Send him over to Tagged.com and have him find another women and spend some time getting to know her before he commits to anything. Tell him not to profess his love and lean back and let a womean come to him if he has your materials he needs to take the time and read everything and apply it in his life.Have him get a new lawyer preferably female she’ll see through his old lady’s shit quick and know how to win. And hopefully she’s not Bi as this chick from Ukraine might seduce her too. These women use what they were born with and usually are very successful with it. Further more if he looks at where his son is as this should be disclosed to him then he should go to her lawyers wife and turn his as in, he’ll drop the case or try and work out a deal with Greg so he keeps his mouth shut.

By: awan

awan — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 20:10:47 +0000

I agree to your diagnosis of the problem
It was very apparent from the fact as most Russian brides are available on line. So what do you expect out of them.
The girl have been smart and playing from the day one. As another theory women use sex to manipulate as well even in marriage e.g.for a odd time sex and in return you clean dishes or mow the lawn etc
She was never addicted to sex with him but just using it as tool to get money and citizenship
This man has proved that his brain lies in his balls from the day one and kept on making his life miserable.
Second she must be fulfilling her physical need and polite for the time being and bitching again after that.
The moment she got chance she proved it with other lawyer her true color
This guy should get evidence of her sexual encounter by some means if he can
Secondly hire a female lawyer or someone with credibility
Before doing all this he should go to Bulgaria and get himself laid with other young girls and get this one out of his system

By: Bill

Bill — Sat, 22 Jan 2011 16:21:55 +0000

CR,
No comment on this YET but I DO NEED TOO SPEAK TOO YOU CONFIDENTIALLY AND OFF THE RECORD!!! IT IS VERY IMPORTANT!! Now what I have to ask you about may also end up making a hell of a good article or case, such as this one (or better!!)
If AT ALL POSSIBLE, I need a CONFIDENTIAL (FOR NOW ANYWAY!!) conversation with YOU PERSONALLY!!! Could you email me or, if you request, call me for a short session of Q&A??
Thanx…….Bill XXXXXX@gmail.com