16 Anti-Seductive Traits
This is the current anti-seductive checklist.
If your sexual value (attraction level) starts to fade, look at this list to make sure you’re not doing any (or too much of) these things.
- Being Forceful (Pressuring)
- Being too emotional too soon
- Being overly expressive of emotions (in a way that is too much for her)
- Sending a high volume of expressive emotions (in a way that is too much for her)
- Being too needy
- Complaining a lot
- Talking excessively about negative topics
- Begging. It sends the wrong messages (i.e. not caring about her preferences, being selfish, etc.)
- Being the guy who doesn’t ‘get it’ (i.e. she frustratingly repeats herself a lot)
- Being excessively available (it’s not always a problem, but it could be)
- Allowing one sided behavior (Sometimes it hurts you. Sometimes it doesn’t.)
- Having behaviors that represent lack of control (Normally you’ll give off a vibe that you lack control over your urges.)
- Being too focused on the negative side of things
- Talking about how things aren’t fair
- She gets the impression that you want others to feel sorry for you
- Excessively talking about fears, worries and worse case scenarios