I need your intellectual assistance…
(if you don’t mind)
This guy emailed me about a *UNIQUE* problem
that he is having with his Girlfriend…
Maybe you’ve been in this situation before
(I don’t know)…
Let me know how HE should handle this.
(I’ve never had to deal with this with
ANY girl I’ve been with…)
His email is in green (below)
I had a feeling for a while that there was something not right going on with my gf.
So I tricked her by making a false profile on the internet and gaining her trust as a girl.
My gf is bisexual, so I asked some things and she asked me to come to her, because she wanted to trie to have sex with a girl.
She never did it before… well the girl was actually me, so when I told her that, she lost it.
She called me and started to cry and yell that she was sorry.
Now I don’t have any trust in her anymore. She now says that I am the only one and she doesnt want anyone else.
She calls me a lot telling she is sorry and never do it again. But how can I believe her? I just hope she really is sorry
Now my question is: If she is like this… will she do it again? because I really like her, but if I have to be insecure then no thanks.
What are the possibilities if I continue with her? I don’t really know what is in her mind.
When she asked that other girl (me) she also said that she did never want to lose me.
So she does love me, but has or had some urge to do it with a girl… she even said to the girl that she would share her with me if she had to, but preferred to do it alone with her.
What do you think about this story CR? Can you give me some advice about what is going on in her mind?
do you have the actual conversation… like a cut and paste of it…
if so…i like to see it….
This is the conversation. I am the xx and gf is my girl. Tell me what you think about it.
xx: I have never seen a girl my age who is bisexual. it’s cool 🙂
how come you are 1?
gf: well I just like to look at girls, like butt and tits, so I know that I like them, but I do have a bf, so I am not lesbian.
xx: ever had sex with a girl? I never did, but I would like to try.
gf: No never, and I can’t cheat, because my bf will leave me.
xx: maybe he is ok with it, if you ask him. Do you love him?
gf: Sure I love him
xx: So you are happy with how it is?
gf: well I do want to try it with a girl, but I don’t plan on cheating.
He did say that I could if he was there with me, but I think that’s kind of embarrassing.
xx: Why do you think that is embarrassing?
gf: I don’t know. I am a shy girl.
xx: and would you do it with a girl, or are you shy then too?
gf: how do you mean?
xx: if a pretty girl asks you to do it with her. what would you do?
gf: I would attack her xD
xx: and you would not care what your bf thinks?
gf: Yes I would, but I will try to keep it a secret, so he does not find out
xx: so you want to cheat
gf: actually yes
gf: without him finding out of course
xx: and if he finds out?
gf: then my life ends. he will leave me and say farewell
xx: then you can just take the girl right?
xx: you don’t want that? you just want to do it once with a girl?
gf: actually I want it both
xx: what? a guy and a girl?
gf: yes. you know what he told me?
gf: he said that if I wanted to do it with a girl then do it. I got a bit sad. we talked and he said that if I wanted it then a girl could join the relationship but she will be of us both and not mine.
xx: so you would live with 3 together? do you want that?
gf: if I must
xx:how do you mean? rather have them separated?
gf: actually yes
xx: and if your bf would do it to her? how would you feel?
gf: I would be stinkin jealous!
xx: and would you break up?
gf: no. I would just join xD
xx: and if the girl does not want that?
gf: then I will talk with my bf
xx: and what would you rather?
1 have a relation with your bf…
2 a relation with your bf and a girl separated
3 a relation with you and your bf getting another girl
gf: 2 or 3
xx: so you do want a girl? xD maybe you should talk with your bf about it
gf: I will talk with hem but I am scared that he loses it.
xx: he did say that he was ok with it right?
gf: do you stay at home during hollidays?
xx: yes why?
gf: nothing xD
xx: want to get a date?
gf: maybe..ok yes I admit
xx: alright I am ok with it. I will stay quiet
xx: what do you want to do?
gf: we shall see. where do you live?
xx: (place near my gf)
xx: and where do you want to meet?
gf: at the park and then go to my house
my bf is away on holliday so he can’t come
xx: and you wont tell him?
gf: no I wont
xx: and we do it in the park?
gf: no we will do it at home
xx: well I have to admit something: I am a friend of your bf an I set you up 😉
xx: lets see what he is going to think about this?
Then she called me saying she did the most stupid thing in her life and she doesn’t want it anymore, she just wants me etc.
I said that I don’t know and that if I would give her another chance, then I would not trust her anymore and if she does it again then it is over.
what do you think?
we talked a lot after that… mostly about how stupid she was… she said she didn’t want it anymore and loves me soooo much.
(So let me know what he should do. Is it possible that she wouldn’t have done it? Was it just fantasy talk? Maybe you’ve been in a situation like this before… Let me know… You can you either send your response to my email at firstname.lastname@example.org or just comment on the post)