Huge Mistake #453

CR,

How are u? ZM again. I want to get some stuff from you to develop an attraction with this girl who is my friend.

I’m not her good friend, just started talking to her last semester before she graduated. Lately she told me she will call me , and I should not call her as much. You told me to make her laugh, develop a connection with her and tell her stories how other girls like me…

Hey ZM

Yeah my friend…

If you are a rookie at getting women attracted to you, then as something that is easy to remember, that’s one formula you can start off with…

Don’t tell her you love her or anything like that to early…

It doesn’t accomplish anything… You have to increase your sexual value…You have to do things that affect her psychologically and emotionally…

I promise you, if a woman is telling you ‘Don’t call me, I’ll call you’ your sexual value is NOT high enough to do anything meaningful…

To be honest, you probably have a much bigger issue, because you need to figure out what you did that made her feel as though she needs to tell you that…

Did you call her too much? (according to her, not you)
Did you call at inappropiate times? (according to her, not you)
Was the context of your phone calls ineffective (a.t.h., n.y.)

You see what I mean…

Then from there, you gotta evaluate your ability to grasp the impact
of the things that you say…

It’s kind of like the guy who talks to the new girl for the first time on the phone…and when he hangs the phone up, he starts smiling and pumping his fist…followed by the 80’s michael jackson moonwalk….followed by a session of breakdancing….

But when SHEEEEEEEEEE hangs up the phone she has the ‘grossed out’ face… She’s spraying lemon-scented lysol on her hands and wiping off the phone with baby wipes!

CLEARLY THERE IS A HUUUUUUUGGGEEEEE DISCONNECT!

You should focus on “saying things” that IMPACT HER…

A lot of guys spend too much time, “saying things” that reflects HER IMPACT ON THE GUY… (i.e. you’re pretty, you’re amazing, you drive me wild, you’re a great breakdancer, you smell like lemons, etc.)…

I hope that helps dude…

-CR James

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