This guy is definitely in a unique situation and I believe
he is sincere about wanting help…
He has a few questions that need answering.
And I think it would be *better* if someone
help him because maybe you know someone who is dealing
with what he is dealing with…
So email me back (email@example.com) — or comment — and let me know what you think.
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I am having a really rough time. I was 16 when I got a girl who was 12 years old. I know it is stupid, but I did not know her age until I knew her already for 3 months. She looks a lot older.
Well I had a relationship with her and I am still having it. I am 19 years old right now. She is 15. But there is a problem.
her parents had a problem with the age, but I could have a relationship with her if we would not have sex. Well that went wrong very very fast, but the parents did not know.
It went on for 2 years with amazing sex. You may think I am crazy, but it was real love.
Well a half year from now they noticed it because of a stupid reason. Then I could not see her anymore and I thought it was over. Surprisingly enough they just told me 5 days ago that I may see her again in the summer.
We still had phone contact every weekend and even phone sex, without the parents knowing. Nothing looked or went wrong at all.
But now that the parents agreed, my girl just said that now she is scared that she will not love me anymore when she sees me. Even her horny self went down a bit.
And then she said that she doesn’t want that. She wants to love me. After that she went sad.
What is this sudden change. Do you know it? And what does it mean that you are scared it would happen and at the same time you don’t want it?
I have to mention that we had a fight last weekend and we were really being mean and desperate, but I don’t think that that would change so much. We already made up after that and she was horny all of a sudden. That was 2 days ago. But yesterday she said the thing about being scared.
This entire half year with only phone contact she has been depressed. Me too of course, but I held it a bit for myself, for not killing the mood. And to make the story complete, [removed]
What are the chances? From dreamlife to hell.
Can you explain it or are you clueless as me? Is it only me being insecure suddenly? I just did not know anything to say. She never said something like that and I was like her god, always.
Hope you can help. And please don’t call me a pedophile, I have been called that too many times already. It is real love.
Email me back (firstname.lastname@example.org) — or comment — and let me know what you think (or a share a perspective that could be useful)…