Is He A Pedophile or Romeo?

This guy is definitely in a unique situation and I believe
he is sincere about wanting help…

He has a few questions that need answering.

And I think it would be *better* if someone
could help him because maybe you know someone who is dealing
with what he is dealing with…

So email me back (crjames100@gmail.com) — or comment — and let me know what you think.

……………………………. << the email is below >> ………………………….

Hey cr

I am having a really rough time. I was 16 when I got a girl who was 12 years old. I know it is stupid, but I did not know her age until I knew her already for 3 months. She looks a lot older.

Well I had a relationship with her and I am still having it. I am 19 years old right now. She is 15. But there is a problem.
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Will his bizzare methods backfire?

You tell me.

There was a guy who emailed me recently about something bizarre that he does with his wife.

I got chills when he told me what he does with her!!

(I will say that it’s “original”)

The interesting thing is he actually asked me in so
many words:

“When I do [the thing that he does] will it make
her cheat?”

WHAT!!!

Here’s his email:

Hi James,

Yesterday evening I dived into your essay regarding the seduction of married women
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[Busted] Did his girlfriend cross the line?

I need your intellectual assistance…
(if you don’t mind)

This guy emailed me about a *UNIQUE* problem
that he is having with his Girlfriend…

Maybe you’ve been in this situation before
(I don’t know)…

Let me know how HE should handle this.
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Become Super Desirable To A Woman Using Her HIPS

“There are topics you can talk about that is guaranteed to make her feel good.”

Strategically, your game plan should involve “methods” to make her feel good.

But first you need to understand what that means…

There are 3 “super ingredients” to being the most desirable guy she has ever experienced…
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The 2 Things To Get Her Back

Hey bro my name is “Jack” and I’ve been a loyal customer for some time now and I appreciate what you are doing for us men.

(Not to be a kiss ass lol).

Look i just really need your help in a situation.

I just bout your red bubbles e-book an hour ago and carefully read the whole thing because im currently talking to an ex girlfriend.

The other day she told me she loves me and she wants to be with me but she isnt sure she does and she doesnt know what to do,we’ve been talking for a week.

Now from what i read in your book the exact thing you said happened,she told me the reason why she isn’t sure is because when we were going out about the beginning of college(15 month program and today wuz our last day,we’ve been in the same class together throughout the course) i wuz a jealous person and i recognize that is my main bubble in her mind rite now.I beg you to please help me understand how i can convince her that has changed and how i can use the thank you technique for helping me change.

I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND THAT YOU GET MANY E-MAILS EVERYDAY BUT I BEG YOU TO PLEASE MAKE THE EXCEPTION TO HELP ME WITH THIS PROBLEM IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO ME.

Hey Jack

I’m going to help you out my friend…

If jealousy was the issue, then you MUST do something to send the message that you are different. totally different… and you’re going to have to ‘shock her’…

(In many cases, the greater the ‘shock’, the more INSTANT the perception change.)

In your case, you should work on sending 2 key signals (messages).

Signal #1: You are NOT worried about her being with someone else…

Since she currently believes that ‘another guy’ would bother you, you need
to send a conflicting message so that it collapses the current belief.

Here’s an example of what you could do:

Tell her that you know someone who would make a good boyfriend for her. Obviously, this is not your REAL intention, but you want to CONVINCE HER that you really believe you are looking out for her. This ‘person’ doesn’t have to really exist. You just want to frame it is as you “care about her” but don’t worried…

Signal #2: You are NOT too focused on her

Here’s an example of what you could do:

Tell her about a girl you are seeing.

And really build her up. Review the section in Red Bubbles that talks about this process. It’s actually more beneficial to actually meet someone and then exaggerate (if necc.) her qualities and how much she is into you…

Say things in a way that forces her to VISUALIZE the other girl flirting with you…

And then at that point, you want to thank her. and so on…

If you send those 2 signals, she HAS no choice but to see you differently & for the better (and that just be your objective)

The real purpose is to ‘something’ (either the things that I suggested, or anything else that sends those messages) that FORCES HER to no longer view you as being ‘jealous’ simply because you have SAID SOMETHING (or DONE SOMETHING) that describes the behavior of someone who is NOT JEALOUS.

Peace,
CR James
http://superpowermedia.com

P.S. For a more structured (and advanced) method of getting her back, click here to use
Red Bubbles

She Cheated With The Short Chubby Guy

CR,

I HAVE A SITUATION WITH MY RELATIONSHIP. I HAVE REC’D YOUR BOOKS.

I LIKE THEM A LOT.

MY SITUATION IS A LITTLE DIFFERENT. MY WIFE HAS ALREADY HAD AN AFFAIR. WITH A GOOBER. IT HAPPENED A YEAR AGO… I TRULY BELIEVE IT IS OVER BETWEEN THEM.. OF COURSE, MY CONFIDENCE WAS DRASTICALLY SHAKEN. I AM FROM A SMALL TOWN AND VERY WELL KNOWN IN THE COMMUNITY.

EVERYONE KNOWS ABOUT OUR SITUATION BECAUSE OF BEING IN A SMALL TOWN . I LOVE MY WIFE. SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME. HOWEVER, OUR SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP SUCKS. SHE SAYS SHE DOES NOT FEEL LIKE IT & THAT I NEED IT.

OVER OUR 14 YEARS TOGETHER I HAVE BEEN SOMEWHAT OF A “BEGGAR”. I DON’T WANT THAT & DON’T NEED IT. I HAVE FOUND OUT THROUGH THIS MESS I HAVE OPTIONS. I COULD HAVE A LOT OF WOMEN, BUT I WANT THE ONE I HAVE!

I HAVE PLENTY OF CONFIDENCE AGAIN, BUT I HAVE BEEN THAT OVERLY NICE GUY FOR A LONG TIME. UPON READING YOUR SUPER LUST BUTTONS

SHE STARTED CRYING!!

I FELT HORRIBLE BECAUSE I THOUGHT I WAS GIVING HER A COMPLIMENT. SHE SAID I DEVALUED IT. WHICH I DID, BUT NOT TO THAT POINT. WE ARGUED SOME. THEN I TOLD HER I KNOW EXACTLY HOW IT FEELS TO FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE NO VALUE. (BEING CHEATED ON).

I DID NOT SAY IT DIRECTLY. SHE GOT UP AND LEFT. THIS MORNING, SHE GAVE ME A HUG AND TOLD ME SHE LOVED ME AND THAT SHE WAS SORRY FOR BEING SO EMOTIONAL LAST NIGHT. SHE ALSO ASKED ME IF HER OUTFIT LOOKED DUMB. I FELT THAT SHE WAS LOOKING FOR MY APPROVAL.

I FEEL LIKE I AM DEALING WITH SOMEONE WITH A VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM. SHE HAS TOLD ME SHE DOES NOT FEEL GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME. SHE TELLS ME HER FRIENDS ALWAYS TELL HER HOW HOT I AM.

I COULD HAVE A LOT OF WOMEN AND SHE KNOWS THAT.

SO, THE CHARISMA AND CONFIDENCE THING IS NOT AN ISSUE. BUT, I DO HAVE A HISTORY OF BEING TOO NICE. THE GUY SHE CHEATED WITH IS SHORT, CHUBBY AND “NOTHING TO LOOK AT”. THOSE ARE HER WORDS AND I HAVE SEEN THE GUY.

I AM TALL WITH AN ATHLETIC BUILD. WE ARE NOTHING ALIKE I FEEL THAT SHE DID THAT BECAUSE IT MADE HER FEEL BETTER ABOUT HERSELF. MY WIFE IS VERY ATTRACTIVE AND I LOVE HER AND WE HAVE 2 WONDERFUL KIDS.

BUT, THIS SUCKS!

I WAS A FLOWER GUY. I WAS THAT SUPER NICE GUY THAT SHE WAS PROUD TO CALL HERS.

I DON’T NEED THAT. SHE DOES! SHE NEEDS FOR ME TO TELL EVERYONE ELSE HOW GREAT SHE IS. I THINK SHE IS GREAT, BUT SHE CHEATED ON ME MAN! I WILL NOT BRING IT UP TO HER ANYMORE, BUT SHE STILL DOES NOT SHOW ME MUCH AFFECTION. SHE IS GETTING BETTER. SO AM I. I JUST DO NOT WANT TO MAKE HER FEEL DEVALUED, BUT I DON’T WANT TO DEVALUE MYSELF IN THE PROCESS. DO YOU HAVE ANY ANSWERS OR INPUT? THANKS. BY THE WAY, WHEN WE FIRST GOT TOGETHER OUR SEX WAS INCREDIBLE, SO I KNOW SHE IS A FREAK IN THERE.

I HAVE NOT SEEN IT FOR A LONG TIME. HELP! BOOK I FOUND OUT THAT I WAS NOT PRESSING THE RIGHT BUTTONS. LAST NIGHT, WE WERE TALKING AND I TOLD HER THAT PEOPLE AT WORK WERE ENVIOUS OF MY FOOD SHE MADE. SHE ASKED WHAT THEY SAID. I TOLD THEM. THEN THEY ASKED ME WHERE I GOT IT. MY REPLY WAS;”YOU BUY IT IN A BOX AND ADD PEPPERS AND ONIONS AND MAKE IT YOUR OWN.”

Hi Don

In situations where the woman has a low self esteem (as you mentioned), you have to ‘focus’ all of your attention on improving that – while understanding that it really is up to her to improve.

And the reason is based on what you have experienced (and will continue to experience — unless it changes) which is a series of ‘you can’t win’ situations…

For example: When you put a bunch of effort into making her feel good & valued, she treats you much like women ‘naturally treat’ guys who respond to them in this way…

But when you do the opposite, she quickly feels devalued and worthless…

As a result, you can’t win…(or at least that’s how it feels)

Here’s the deal, I believe that everything/every-situation can be interpreted in a bad way and a good way…

People with very low self esteem tend to ‘automatically’ (unconsciously) see the ‘bad’ in things. And it feels very real to them.

It’s like they got ‘see the world in a bad way’ glasses on… cognitively, they have the brain-habit of filtering for ‘the bad’ – and in their minds that is ‘reality’…

So this is the reason why the PRIMARY GOAL [see my Caps Lock button works, too] is to assist her in improving her outlook and self-worth…

Are there times when you turn her down for sex?

For example, how often is she in the mood while you are *not* in the mood?

Because if she believes that sex is always available for her, then the VALUE of it goes down…

Many women who has the belief that she can ‘get it any time she wants’, will tend to devalue the sex…

The guy at that point, definitely needs to either turn her down or ‘create the perception
that she has been turned down’ (via “pseudo rejections” — ie “last night I was going
to approach you for sex but something you said turned me off….”)…

That way she doesn’t walk around with the belief that she can “get it” any time
she wants…

Humans are conditioned to respond to the “Laws of Value”.

Supply & Demand.

In other words:

** SCARCITY (or the perception of scarcity) INCREASES THE VALUE IN THINGS (that goes for anything… ie material items, activities, sex etc)…

** ABUNDANCE (or the perception of abundance) DECREASES THE VALUE IN THINGS (that goes for anything… ie material items, activities, sex etc)…

So if ‘the supply of sex’ is abundant, the perception of the value of sex goes down by some degree…

Another thing, you have to set boundaries for her…

There’s nothing wrong with being nice, but I get the impression that she knew that you
wouldn’t leave her if she cheated…

That’s not good.

How did you find out? How did you respond to that?

Because if a woman ever ‘gets the impression’ that she can do whatever she wants and you
WILL ALWAYS BE THERE, then it is IMPOSSIBLE to maximize your Sexual Value..

The guys ends up creating an environment that is almost impossible for the woman to
experience the wild-urges that are locked up inside of her…

Also, what is her perception of ‘the likelihood that you would cheat on her’ or ‘leave her’…

There has to be rules because you can be & feel confident, BUT TO A WOMAN – they tend to measure and interpret confidence based on what the man ‘tolerates’ (among other things)

According to how things predictably work in our amazing universe, a guy who puts up with a lot of bullshit doesn’t get assigned with ‘being confident’ and ‘earning her respect’…

Even though he can intelligently articulate WHY he puts up with it, it doesn’t mean he is confident…

Which brings us full circle to ‘helping her improve’….

Here’s where it gets interesting (because this is something that most people think about)

If the woman “believes” you are much better than SHE (on any level that matters to her), often times she finds it hard to respect you. It’s actually no different than another woman viewing your situation from the outside while thinking ‘Why is it settling/tolerating a woman like HER?!!!’ …except SHE is the woman! (LOL)

She ends up saying to herself

“He must be a loser guy with no confidence, if is going to put up with that lousy bitch!”

So when you build her up (strategically increase her confidence) you’ll get her to ‘feel’ as though she is on your level. And she begins to ‘feel’ like she DESERVES a great & amazing guy like you.

Take Care..

Warmly,
CR James

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    Hey Mr. James,

    Thanks a lot for a month back. The super compliments work like a charm! The girl I had issues with is now all over me. We are closer than ever before, and she is doing so many nice things for me. It is unbelievable the nice things she does for me.

    Just yesterday, she drove down 1.5 hours from her home to come with me to a Broadway show. Best of yet, she paid for the tickets!!! Unbelievable!!! I don't know what to say. It happened.

    Those super compliments have also been handy with other women. I am in a class with a bunch of GORGEOUS women, and these women have taken a further interest in me. A lot of them are offering themselves up like candy.

    Super compliments with super seduction powers and lust buttons for the win!!!

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    Hi CR,

    thanks! I am doing amazingly well!

    In fact, I was just about to write to you a little note with a bit of feedback.

    The Secret Pattern brings everything to a new level. But not from 2 or 3 to 4.... IT is like going to level 7 or 8.

    I have started using it 7 days ago and although there are some other things going on I am sure it plays a big part.

    I have [done something] every day ( ????, ????, ????, ????...etc.) I had planned to increase the intensity for two hours but never managed to get to the end... and we ended up having long love making sessions every single night with increasing intensity.

    She tells me every night that she is getting addicted to it and how happy she is to have found her man....(her words)

    I don't even put much planning in it... The pattern is easy to repeat and then I just choose the ingredients for the night when i come home...

    So, 10 out of 10 for this one!!!!

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    Thanks James, Really appreciate the response and info.

    I’ve been reading the part of MFM and I find it so much along my line of thoughts and observations since I’ve been married these past 12 years. Like you I have been obsessive about how I can make my wife want me and desire me more often and I totally agree with the persona thing, health, and creating the right atmosphere, etc.

    It really works because I don’t believe I’ve ever been turned down unless she was on her period, had the flu, etc., she really is a great partner for me…

    I mean we have sex on an average of 1/day, seriously I not trying to brag, but maybe some couples have it more often…I don’t really know.

    It’s what I’ve watched and learned about her and it is true when these things are clicking she becomes more mentally in “the mood” to have sex.

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    YOU SIR… ARE A GENIUS.

    YOUR ABILITY TO PICK IT ALL APART THEN PUT IT BACK TOGETHER SO IT CAN WORK FOR A MAN IS UNMATCHED.

    I’VE GAINED SO MUCH INSIGHT INTO THE FEMALE MIND SINCE DOWNLOADING YOUR MATERIAL, I’M ALMOST OVERWHELMED.

    I’VE TRIED JUST A BIT HERE AND THERE IN THE LAST FEW DAYS AND THE RESULTS ARE INCREDIBLE!

    ICAN’T WAIT UNTIL IT BECOMES AUTOMATIC, LIKE ANYTHING YOU PRACTICE AT, YOU’LL JUST GET BETTER AND BETTER.

    I READ THE REPORTS ON MY LUNCH HOUR, AND AGAIN WHEN I GET HOME, IWANT IT TO SINK IN BUT GOOD AND SATURATE MY BEING WITH IT, BECAUSE IF JUST A LITTLE CAN DO SO MUCH, THEN HAVING “IT” ALL THE TIME, HAS TO BE BETTER.

    DAMN, JUST THE INSIGHTS I’VE GAINED ALONE ON THE WAY A FEMALE COMMUNICATES HAS MADE AWORLD OF DIFFERENCE. I’VE BEEN LOOKING FOR INFORMATION LIKE THIS ALL MY LIFE,

    WHAT YOU HAVE HERE IS A TRUE TREASURE OF KNOWLEDGE,

    IT’S WHAT EVERY YOUNG MANWISHES HE HAD BEEN TOLD BY HIS DAD AND MORE.

    THIS IS TRULY CHANGING MY LIFE EVEN AS I WRITE THIS,

    I COULD NEVER THANK YOU ENOUGH. AS YOU CAN SEE, I’M ONE HAPPY CUSTOMER.

    GOD, I WISH I KNEW THIS STUFF YEARS AGO.

    THANK YOU SO MUCH, YOUR THE REAL DEAL, A REAL, TRUE GENIUS

    SINCERELY, RON

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    I am a Mensa and my wife was a systems analyst before she retired.

    I am spending my energies on trying to see and hear what is real.

    This is what I have gotten in the first 26 pages. I am really getting to the point of all this great recommendation. Or perhaps I should just tell you the problem I have been having in my life – because I firmly believe that if I can completely solve just one thing and understand it fully I will understand everything. (otherwise nothing is connected and this is impossible). …

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    I love being better equipped to figuring out what’s going on in a woman’s head (things even she doesn’t know are going on) and watching (sometimes with frightening predictability) the responses to what I’m doing or saying… press this button, does this; press that button, does that… mmm wonder what happens if I press em both at once… ;) If you’ve got any other material out since I purchased SSP, def interested – I’m sending a mate or two, and both my brothers, your way too.

    Dunno whether you’ve considered translating any of it, but my old man does freelance translating into both french and spanish!

    Seriously, the world needs this.

    but you knew this already…

    Anyway, if you want an endorsement for your page or whatever, all I could say is this…

    Is your wife/girlfriend, or more importantly, *your* life, worth more than 40 bucks?

    If not hit the little cross in the corner of your browser :)

    thanks again
    Cool Bruce ******

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    Hi CR,

    Just wanted to say thanks for all the reports you send, I really enjoy your writings and your sense of humor in presenting them.

    I have purchased most of your books online Thanks for your time, B.M.

    Greenville SC

    PS I did practice some of your techniques and saw alot of success with them,also had a lot of fun with them.

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    “WOW! Your material is excellent.

    I have bought a lot of seduction books because being by nature an introvert I realized that my interpersonal skills were a weakness that could keep me from achieving my goals. Anyway, the mind state theory you have is CRAZY. I [do a secret technique] and when I go out I can feel women drawn tome, INSANE.

    I tried an experiment yesterday with mind state when I went out for breakfast. The cute waitress kept her hand on my shoulder the entire time she was around my table. I have two questions. [removed]

    R.P.

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    CR James

    Thank you for your material!

    Your techniques have already given me amazing progress!

    I actually have had two different girls (an 8 and a 9) come up to me and say there was something different they liked about me but didn't know what it was. If I wasn't using your material to try and save my marriage I would be out dating hot babes right now instead of emailing you.

    Thank you for being one of the few guys out there that help men find the knowledge they really need to build a happy balanced relationship.

    Your material more than pays for itself in the first day.

    My self confidence has sky rocketed 200%!!!

    You’re a life saver,

    Jason
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    Thank you very much!!! Now, on to driving my wife crazy with orgasms… oh, by the way – a little philosophy of mine…

    She’s 47, hot, but her libido has dropped in the last 2 years. I’m doing things to attract her sexually and emotionally – [by doing all of the things mentioned in Super Seduction Power] I lovingly look out for her interests continually, but sometimes let her be independent and ‘do things on her own’. We do fun and adventurous things, and travel some, too.

    It’s true – women want [a man to be a Certain Way]

    I have found that it’s so important for a man to be older and more experienced in everything – including sex, and to do things right from the beginning – for the respect, love, kindness, fun, and sex in the relationship. The saying…“Women are like carpet, and need to be laid right the first time”. Has some truth to it.

    Whether he knows it or not, the man sets the tone for how the woman responds to him, how much she will respect and admire him, value him, and for how well she responds to him sexually. Wives must literally be ‘broke in right’, and taught how to respond to a loving caring, manly, and sexual man. A woman who learns to trust him – because he is trustworthy; and give herself completely and happily to him sexually because he knows how to attract, seduce, and sexually drive her wild is a very blest little honey with a very wise man.

    That’s the path I’m on. She is pretty well trained. I love my wife, and want to totally screw her brains out – with her enjoying every bit of it. The goal of every husband – or it should be!

    Thanks for your kindness and great customer service!

    M

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    Hi CR

    If you are interested to know, things have moved so fast!

    I am absolutely hooked on your stuff.Am about a quarter of the way thru your main [Super Seduction Power] book and have been applying a few things.

    She said there was nothing in the report she would fall for but after that she became freakin’ ravenous!

    -During dinner asked me what my biggest sexual fantasy was and when I told her she said yes she would enjoy it

    - Proceeded to tell me she would do anything other than anal but wanted to be tied up and taken

    - After dinner she dragged me into the bedroom and gave me a blow job (first one since, sheesh, I can’t remember when!)

    - We then went to the mall for a while, on the way there she tells me we should hire some XXX DVDs from the video shop and watch them at the weekend (this after going ape-shit once after finding an old porn mag I had stashed under a bookcase!)

    - Got home and she shoves me down on the coach - another blow job

    - Then disappears into the bedroom and comes back with a draw full of sex toys (that we hadn’t used since I can’t remember when)

    - Jumps on top of me and rides herself silly

    - Races off to the bedroom again and comes back with a pair of red high-heeled shoes. She puts these on as then that makes her the perfect height for her to bend herself over the arm of coach while I then have my way with her!

    Lets say I’m now looking forward to the weekend.


    Regards
    Michael

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    Dear Mr. James,

    I just have to write and tell you something.

    You have changed my life.

    Let me explain. I am a good looking, physically fit, successful, 37 year old man. I have no trouble meeting women.

    But after 11 years of friendship I came to realize that I could never settle down with any woman because I would always compare them to my best friend.

    She is a beautiful, successful woman, who I have a strong connection to. For years our friends wondered out loud how come we didn't date...I was at the end of my rope but after some hesitation I bought your materials.

    Thank you thank you thank you, Mr. James.

    We are now exclusively dating each other and we both are very happy. And, I just bought your new reports...and we just had the best sex ever!

    She came on to me so hard, it was so out of her character. But I just followed your techniques and they worked like a charm.

    It is amazing how I do the things you suggest wondering "is this really going to work" then I get the results just as you say.

    So glad I found you and had the balls to purchase. If all those guys looking for miss right at these on line dating services would just spend 1 month enrollment fee on your books, they would never have to waste a dime on those dating sites.

    Good for you Mr. James.

    But better for us. Thanks Again. I look forward to your new books. You better e-mail me any time you write something new.


    Matt
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    Hi CR,

    First off, thank you very much for replying to me. You must be a pretty busy guy, and getting this kind of support from you is amazing.

    I have purchased a couple of your products, and I like them. I particularly like the way you break down your ideas conceptually, rather than the ‘this technique’ and ‘that technique’ approach that is so common.

    I’ve read over what you have written a couple of times, with a day or two between readings to take the time to ponder it a bit.

    Truthfully, you make more sense to me than any other counselor I’ve been to.

    I’ve also tended to read a lot of relationship stuff in the past couple of years in an attempt to be a better partner myself, and those I consider to be the best pretty much echo what you say, though none say it so humanly or so precisely (and frankly, none of them are as interesting, either!)

    Sincerely,
    D. F.

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    Hey CR James It's Richardo from Jamaica its been a long time since I emailed you.

    I really love your reports dude and I think your a fucking master mind at hacking chicks brains.

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    Hey CR

    I finally got my girl back. I used those techniques on her...

    The next time I saw her she admitted she couldn't stop thinking about me, even while she was on holiday.

    Im gonna re-read all your reports now, also, can you give any extra tips, so I dont lose her again?

    I honestly cannot thank you enough, you are a genius!

    If anyone has any doubts about your work, they need their head testing!!!!

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!

    WD

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